Is not growing out facial hair a dealbreaker for me?

[Lostsoul85]

As odd as this may sound i have an ocd about shaving before i go to bed.Facial hair really bothers and annoys me and at times can't sleep well at night.Anyways with my facial structure,will not growing out any facial hair effect my chances with women?If my inner game is solid can i do well just with the way i look now without facial hair?

http://s1356.photobucket.com/user/caliboy85/media/image_zps1c74538e.jpg.html?sort=2&o=1

*Yes i know lifting weights will suit me but i have a medical condition that prevents me from lifting heavy
*This is not a rate me thread i have already done that awhile back on here

 

[apprenticedj]

So are you asking if being clean shaven will hurt your chances with the ladies? If that's your question then the answer is no. Many women prefer clean shaven men, it looks more polished and smooth to them. But on the other hand some women love scruff, beards, goatees, mustaches etc. Different strokes for different folks but being clean shaven isn't vagina repellant by any means. I personally think you look just fine in your picture, your looks shouldn't stop you from getting chicks at all.

 

[Stort_Brød]

the only other thing to do with a clean shaven head is to have a big full beard and im not too sure if you could pull that one off. but as said above not a pvssy repellant. you need to own your look man and figure out what you want. I have chicks that love my beard and always play with it, then I know chicks that wouldn't ever think about even kissing me with my face warmer on.

 

[Lostsoul85]

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[user name]

Some dudes who are bald and clean shaven have that creepy/pervert look to them posted this because I wanted to get some feedback that i look normal and not ignore something out of blindness.

insecurity is a demon that needs to be exorcised.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tDNCkcC47eQ

 

[Lostsoul85]

So once i get the head**** straightened out i will do fine?

 

[sozzz]

Whose idea was it to tell yall on here to shave heads and sh.t?
Not to you OP, but wherever i go now, 1 out of 3 guys have their heads shaved.
The hell is going on? I understand all of us want to improve ourselves but dont just take any advice.
To OP, what i would do is grow my hair out and gel it to the style that most suit you. Get rid of the shave head, just a thought
Oh, another thing, shave w.e but not head. It all comes down what makes you comfortable.

 

[Lostsoul85]

Its severe male pattern baldness i don't really have a choice but to shave it off.

 

[DJ Bax]

On a related note about hair. I've been seeing a new lady friend recently. I have also been growing out my pubes for about three months now. Do I have to shave them before I attempt anything sexual with her? I kinda enjoy having a bush. I know that the media puts a lot of emphasis on the girl being shaven but what is considered appropriate for a guy as far as hair down under goes?

 

[Stort_Brød]

On a related note about hair. I've been seeing a new lady friend recently. I have also been growing out my pubes for about three months now. Do I have to shave them before I attempt anything sexual with her? I kinda enjoy having a bush. I know that the media puts a lot of emphasis on the girl being shaven but what is considered appropriate for a guy as far as hair down under goes?

whatever the hell you are comfortable with man. who gives a **** she is with you for the thick pube in the middle not the rest of them. but if you really want some advice never go clean shaven man... makes any man look like a mutant 12 year old, you are a man you are supposed to have hair. but in saying that have some style and keep it neat lol

 

[henrea4]

You're not bad-looking, but I personally think you could use some facial hair. Not many guys can pull off the bald head/clean shaven face combo. Myself included.

 

[sozzz]

Its severe male pattern baldness i don't really have a choice but to shave it off.

Alright, in that case. Work with what you have man. Get rid of that purple shirt and replace it with a white shirt.

Don't wear purple, pink or any colors that make you feminine. You seem like a nice guy, but nice+feminine is not a good combination. Some girls do like that though.

If you have girls that are friends, go out together and take them to the clothing stores you like and ask them what looks good on you. Listen to what each has to say then combine all the good and throw out all the bad and go with the style you see fit. Before you say that's gay, it's not. You're trying to look good not sharing a bed with another guy. If anyone says otherwise, ignore and keep working on yourself.

Long story short, I take my girl out and we would go shopping together, and she would tell me what looks good on me. At first, I was a little skeptical but gave it a shot. Now, girls sizing me up and down whenever I'm out with my guy friends.

CLIFF NOTES:
-Get rid of girly color clothes
-Get girls that are friends and ask them what look good on you
-Buff up(if nothing else would, this is the last resort)

I'm small/skinny as hell but the way I dress and act around people that make girls check me out and guys want to be friends with me. That's all I can give you man. You're decent looking so work on other things. Good luck.

 

[HalfAddict]

Just hone your look to make YOU HAPPY. Not a woman. If you are happy with how you look then the world will be too.

No excuses for not working out. Can't lift heavy? Then lift light or do SOMETHING. No excuses.

NO EXCUSES.

NO MOTHER****ING EXCUSES.

All this talk, are my looks right, do I have A or do I have B whats the best thing to do for C.

Doesn't ****ing matter what advice you get if you do not act on it fully.


TL;DR. No excuses, take action.

 

[JoeMarron]

On a related note about hair. I've been seeing a new lady friend recently. I have also been growing out my pubes for about three months now. Do I have to shave them before I attempt anything sexual with her? I kinda enjoy having a bush. I know that the media puts a lot of emphasis on the girl being shaven but what is considered appropriate for a guy as far as hair down under goes?

Fvck that nonsense. I find the fact that dudes feel that they need to shave for women laughable. Dont even trim that sh!t. Make her floss when she goes down on you :yes:.

OP this the 50th post youve made questioning your looks. Stop it. Obsessing over your looks isn't going to solve anything. Take comfort in the fact that you're at least average, no girl will cringe in disgust when you talk to her.

 

[usernamedox11]

Whether you think you look good or not, better to be "ugly" and act confident rather than being "ugly" and unconfident, which only confirms you're a loser.