Is my girlfriend a slut?

[samson73103]

I wouldn't consider a girl a slut who was 26 and had only been with 6 guys.......I would say that is below average for a lot of girls today. But the bigger issue is why you were involved in a discussion of each other's sexual history. Obviously you are disturbed by the fact she has been with a few other people. I have had girls ask me how many women I've been with and I either tell them I don't discuss the past or if they persist I tell them an artificially low number such as 10. Either way they get the picture that the past is just that and all subject matter relating to previous sexual escapades is not open for debate.

 

[GregMan]

look at this link.... don't you guys agree?

http://divorcesupport.about.com/cs/sexualissues/a/sexandlove_2.htm

 

[JohnJones]

All things are relative. Those quotes are from a whiny guy who can't live with the results of his decision: not to have sex while other girls are having sex. That's like getting ticked off that someone else made money at their job while you were attending grad school.

Second, that article is insulting to the extent that it plays out men as insecure suckers with an unsustainable double standard.

There's a huge difference between a 26 yo woman with a few boyfriends and a couple ONS or hook ups with male friends, and a slvt. To me, those are pretty low numbers. As long as the dudes are long gone, dhe's not pals with them and there wasn't any cheating, Girls Gone Wild type cr@p, why let it bother you?

 

[Zeph]

A SLUT is a person who has no discrimination about who they sleep with. It's got nothing to do with quantity. A crack ***** who is jonesing might sleep with fewer--but any--people than a very sexually active person is picky about who she sleeps with.

Anyway, what business of yours is it who another sleeps with?

Let it go. Monogamy is just another social construct. Let it go, then make up your own mind.

The issue is not whether another is "a slut" but how comfortable you are in your own sense of sexuality.

 

[penkitten]

im gonna be blunt here, she is over 25 and she can count all her lovers on her fingers and still have fingers left over = practically a virgin


do you live in the same world i live in?
can you count your encounters on one hand?

stop calling your gf names and take her somewhere nice for dinner.

 

[PoloBlue]

I heard women do "lie" about how many men they have slept with if she says six then multiply that times two and that equals twelve [12] one dozen men..

one dozen men in six years = two guys a year for six years = 12

 

[penkitten]

Originally posted by PoloBlue
I heard women do "lie" about how many men they have slept with if she says six then multiply that times two and that equals twelve [12] one dozen men..

one dozen men in six years = two guys a year for six years = 12

and i still dont think shes a slut even if she divided the number in half, that means she has had bfs in 6 mo spans . it could be worse, the answer could have been 37 ( it was in a movie )

 

[sexualchocolate]

You have to remember the older we get, the more the failed relationships. She wasnt a slut when she slept with u so soon.

A woman can be turned on by the biggest of jerks shielding their intentions. Then he can become an azzhole to her after theyve had sex. So she moves on to the next.

Women weed out possible love interests like we do. Anybody can put up a front long enough to get some.

She doesnt sound like a slut at all. Especially if no one night stands. Also check to see if she's loose when drinking. Thats the kinda girl i would be worried about.

 

[Sweetcheeks]

It depends

Well, assuming that what she told you is the truth, she is actually quite normal.

Based on your criteria, all my ex girlfriends were sluts. I've been able to get all of them in bed in less than 2 weeks, an average of about 3 dates.

I've had about 12 girlfriends, and as far as I know, only one of them has only cheated on me (she was a slut).

But ask yourself this: Why should she tell you the truth, if she WAS a slut? That would be shooting herself in the foot, and she should be smarter than that, right?

There are many things I've done in the past that I would never admit to, even under oath. Hell, Bill Clinton perjured himself in front of the whole country regarding a ******* they caught him receiving red-handed.

What she did in the past can't be changed. What counts is what she does WHILE WITH YOU.

Live in the present, that's the only thing you have any power to change.

 

[iveyleeger]

The b!tch in the posted link is bitter.

 

[Lost In Translation]

ok i gotta say that any chick that said 6 for 26 i would think was a liar

as penkitten said 6 = virgin these days

i don't believe the hype

i don't bother asking because everyone lies

**it is not where you want the game to go**

it will only come back to haunt you if you develop strong feelings for her

i got asked by a 18 year old chick the other night on the phone

i was very drunk and she rang me

she told me she had only been with 6 guys

asked me how many chicks i had been with

i said : " a gentlemen never tells "

even under pressure. drunk as a monkey.

I SAY NOTHING !!!


they read cleo and cosmo and dolly

THEY READ HOW TO ANSWER THAT QUESTION

the only safe answer is 6 or lower

too low and you gunna know they are lying

think about it

if she says 11 that sounds alot worse than 6

most club slut$ i know have slept with 30 - 50 guys

i know a couple of girls aged 20 who have slept with 50 - 100


as men we have a hard time these days because the game has turned in the favour of women

you think these sexually active women are going to sleep with 2 guys per year ?

WHAT PLANET ARE YOU ON !

they got 10 AFC's in their cell phones on speed dial if they get " too turned on "

so lets check the figures

age 26. is she hot ? ok we assume she is.

sex since 16 years old

4 guys per year = 32 guys

thats if she never became a party girl or club $lut

in those cases 10 guys per year after 18 years of age EASY

whatever number they give you multiply by 3 and you are getting close


Lost In Translation

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

I love sluts,...just so long as they're MY sluts.


ANDREW DICE CLAY: "Is that your girlfriend?"

AUDIENCE GUY: "Yeah!"

DICE: "Man, she's pretty fukking hot,.."

GUY: "Yeah, I know."

DICE: "She good in bed?"

GUY: "Oh yeah."

DICE: "Sucks a good ****?"

GUY: "Real good!"

DICE: "Yeah?"

GUY: "Yeah."

*pregnant pause*

DICE: "I suppose the next question is 'how do you think she got that way'?"


I've knocked it out with a LOT more women than my wife has hit with other guys - does that make me a 'slut'? I hope so.

Just remember this when you're stewing in your self-made jealousy, it's not time on the clock or the number of participants that's making you crazy - it's genuine sexual desire that's making you nuts. When guys bring this sh!t up to torture themselves it's all about them not getting (or thinking they're not getting) what these other guys got from her. Did lover X get her to swallow when she wont swallow for me? Did lover Y get her in the ass? How come she wont give it up for me? She made porn with lover Z, but she thinks it's disgusting with me. Catch my drift? It's not about quantity, it's all about quality.

 

[picard]

it is common for woman nowadays to test drive the men she meet to determine is he is suitable for marriage. Your GF is not a slut. Women are physically active, healthy hence they also tend to have strong sex drive. I would be worry if she hasn't done it at all. As long as she is STD free, you don't have to worry.

You have to forget about her past life. She is devoted to you now.

 

[CrotchSniffer]

Originally posted by penkitten
and i still dont think shes a slut even if she divided the number in half, that means she has had bfs in 6 mo spans . it could be worse, the answer could have been 37 ( it was in a movie )

Clerks rules

...and try not to suck any d!ck on your way to the parking lot!

 

[dietzcoi]

LIT, dead on again

Reread this over and over all of you:

EVERYBODY LIES ABOUT THIER SEXUAL PAST.

Everbody!!!

Dietzcoi

 

[BW14]

Originally posted by Rollo Tomassi
I love sluts,...just so long as they're MY sluts.


ANDREW DICE CLAY: "Is that your girlfriend?"

AUDIENCE GUY: "Yeah!"

DICE: "Man, she's pretty fukking hot,.."

GUY: "Yeah, I know."

DICE: "She good in bed?"

GUY: "Oh yeah."

DICE: "Sucks a good ****?"

GUY: "Real good!"

DICE: "Yeah?"

GUY: "Yeah."

*pregnant pause*

DICE: "I suppose the next question is 'how do you think she got that way'?"


I've knocked it out with a LOT more women than my wife has hit with other guys - does that make me a 'slut'? I hope so.

Just remember this when you're stewing in your self-made jealousy, it's not time on the clock or the number of participants that's making you crazy - it's genuine sexual desire that's making you nuts. When guys bring this sh!t up to torture themselves it's all about them not getting (or thinking they're not getting) what these other guys got from her. Did lover X get her to swallow when she wont swallow for me? Did lover Y get her in the ass? How come she wont give it up for me? She made porn with lover Z, but she thinks it's disgusting with me. Catch my drift? It's not about quantity, it's all about quality.

THAT'S IT RIGHT THERE you just put it all in prospective let me see if I can put it into another one

Mary had sex 5 times she is 25

Dude 1-regular sex
Dude 2- she sucked his ****
Dude 3- cummed into her mouth
Dude 4- got it from the back
Dude 5- regular sex

 

[speedo_meme]

like Chris Rock said, "Why do you want to know? Just be glad you're hitting it now."

 

[iveyleeger]

bump for LIT's post

 

[Johnnie5]

does anyone ask how many guys a girl has been with ?

would you believe what she says ??

personally i prefer my women to know whats going on in bed and have been with women before that i later found out they had onl been with 1 ,2 3 or 4 guys before me and in those cases it answered my thinking of whats this girls prob she is so nervous etc

think about this , she has had 4 serious relationships in the past 10 years and has been getting **** on a daily basis 10 years x 365 days thats a lot of ****ing

as the years tick by the count goes up think about this a different one every 2 months for the last 10 years

as long as she is clean and knows what she is doing then i couldnt care less about her past within reason

 

[( . )( . )]

Is my girlfriend a slut?
I recently had the discussion of past sexual encounters with my girlfriend

I'm trying to think whats dumber, you asking this b!tch or believing what she tells you. I can't believe you clogged up the joint with this crap, go read the Bible you tool.