Fly By Night
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Feb 2, 2012
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So this girl I've been into for the past couple of months is cool and all. She never flaked on dates until about last week (did not ask her out since then). She does not appear intimate when necessary (just goes with the motions). She always stops me from having sex with her (LMR?). But get this, SHE'S NOT A VIRGIN. She says she "loves" spending time with me, but then I want us to become exclusive (not bf/gf yet) and then she starts telling me **** like, "she's not looking for anything serious."
I mean we still make out and such and such, but then she hardly ever texts me. My gut tells me she's sleeping around (or maybe just messing around) with other guys. I just took a more detailed look into her fb (yeah, I be creepin' when my *****es act up) and sure enough, I would see random guys saying "hey" and "sup girl" to her. Who knows how many more message her? But, those were in her past, idk if she changed? (Doubt it)
I don't want this post to get too long, but I feel like I was being treated unfairly. I talked to other girls, but I actually stopped myself from going out with them. I have to admit, my game feels like it has actually GOTTEN WORSE and those number would not have converted into anything, but damit, if she's ****ing other guys, I at least want to have the same treatment before I keep it moving.
The one thing I wanted to get from SS was getting a quality woman that I could have a relationship with. She was a candidate at first, but not so much anymore.
I have zero proof that she is with other guys at this point in time. And she is pretty much my last non-flaking plate so I will hit rock bottom again if I lose her. (I'm not scared to lose her, I will just dread to start back at square one again)
So my questions are:
Was I just a time filler to her?
Should I just move on without caring if I got some or not?
I mean we still make out and such and such, but then she hardly ever texts me. My gut tells me she's sleeping around (or maybe just messing around) with other guys. I just took a more detailed look into her fb (yeah, I be creepin' when my *****es act up) and sure enough, I would see random guys saying "hey" and "sup girl" to her. Who knows how many more message her? But, those were in her past, idk if she changed? (Doubt it)
I don't want this post to get too long, but I feel like I was being treated unfairly. I talked to other girls, but I actually stopped myself from going out with them. I have to admit, my game feels like it has actually GOTTEN WORSE and those number would not have converted into anything, but damit, if she's ****ing other guys, I at least want to have the same treatment before I keep it moving.
The one thing I wanted to get from SS was getting a quality woman that I could have a relationship with. She was a candidate at first, but not so much anymore.
I have zero proof that she is with other guys at this point in time. And she is pretty much my last non-flaking plate so I will hit rock bottom again if I lose her. (I'm not scared to lose her, I will just dread to start back at square one again)
So my questions are:
Was I just a time filler to her?
Should I just move on without caring if I got some or not?