Is it worth going for strippers?

[prachanter]

I've heard most strippers won't go out with anyone they see at work. Is it worth even trying? The vast majority of guys end up home alone. But on the other hand, they've got the same feelings and desires as other women. Should a DJ even spend money going to a strip club or are the odds completely in the house's favor you'll go home alone. I've been to a couple and it seems that like a gentleman who's sincere, educated, and is interested in their story.

 

[NickBe]

The question is how lowly must you value yourself that you want to go for a stripper?

What about a woman with class?

Also most strippers are damaged goods, not worth the headache.

 

[Charm]

Only if it fulfills a fantasy that you must have fulfilled. I have personally landed one very attractive stripper. I nearly had several but all the baggage got in the way in each case, either drugs, lying, shadyness, etc. Best of luck though, some are absolutely amazing in the hotness department!

 

[gherald]

sex feels best when its free..

 

[Boschy]

Do whatever you want to do, man. They are not all bad apples. Plus there are many non-stripper girls who are also damaged goods, controlling hos, and gold diggers.

It all comes down to the first line in my signature!

I love going to clubs to oogle stripper's bodies, and I am partly in the game to get good enough to land strippers. I make no apologies for this. Why should I?

 

[Bonhomme]

Boschy's right on. Love that sig!

It's not that hard to get a stripper really worked-up if you have good physical and listening skills. I've found many of them to be very smart and sensual, which are certainly traits I like...

 

[Willis]

Is it worth going for strippers?

Nope..........think about it, she takes her clothes off 4 money.....come on

 

[englishman]

prachanter, strippers arent anything special, I know strippers personally, nothing hot, not much class, trust em as far as you can throw em....get a good women, forget bout strippers.

 

[FoolsCause]

Some strippers do fall in love with a client at times, so it's worth a try if she's showing real interest, and not charging you for it. Don't try to buy their love though.

 

[backbreaker]

dude.. I promise if I see another stripper thread, I"m going to thorw my damn mouse in my PC.

we have like 500 of them already and they all ask the EXACT SAME DAME QUESTION.

 

[Max Power]

For strippers. ONS. Don't do the relationship thing cause 75 per cent of the time they got big issues. BIG ISSUES.

If you're spending moula on them then she sees ya as a big ass dollar sign. F-close them as soon as possible or else.

 

[belividere]

I'm wondering if it's worth going for high school teachers since most of the ones I date are complete hors that love it in the ass, and given the recent number of ones that hook up with youngsters should I bother?

Seriously, out of the 500 threads on "hooking up with strippers" on this site the majority of responses are from guys who have never been with a single stripper, or better yet even known one in their life.

When a 17 yr. old tells me not to date a girl like a stripper or a bartender I know better than to take his advice. The majority of dating a dancer advice on this site seems to be from people who never picked up a dancer off duty and tried to pick them up at work. Since this is what your thread is asking I would say dont bother. They do just want your money when working.

 

[backbreaker]

coming from someone who has been there and done that.. I've dated a total of 3...... one was my live in GF.. she quit after 2 weeks so let's say 2 and a half. Besides the "I date/**** a stripper factor".. it's really not worth it.

the hours they work totally conflit with your schedule.
Most have drug habits
all have some bad habit
The taking off clothes for money doesn't get to me.. it's the personalities thatmost have.. most have none


As far as meeting strippers. One I dated.. when I met her one day she worked at Dillards. After 6 months of her threating to go work at a strib club, one day we were passing one and I said you know what.... let's go. I"m sick of you threating me to be a s tripper. Get your ass on stage. she made 500 her first night and had a blast. However.. she was around a low quality person.. and didn't need the money, moreso to say I did it type of thing.

Another one, I met at a club and she just so happened to be a dancer. I had seen her eyeing me a couple of times. We didn't Date just had a lot of sex. I probably could have.. I know I coudl have.. didn't want to.

Another one I had become a regular at a strip club for a while.. this girl had been seeing me forever. I had known her for a while.. we exchanged numbers, morso just so I can see if she was going to be at work and was it worth my time even going. AFter a w hile she would call me to see how I was going (of course to get me to come in and spend money).

I mean **** just esculated over time. One day she kissed me. About a month later, I was up there like on a Tuesday and we were board.. and I said let's go grab a bite to eat. We went out to eat. About 2 weeks later in the day she just up and called me and wanted to come and hang out at my house.. then the next day.. and the next day... Didn't do drugs.. smoked weed every now and then but who doesn't.. wasn't a heavy drinker.. she just had a hell of a body and was making 80k a year at 20.. not too many jobs are going to ay 80k a year for a high school grad, espically a 20YO.

I could have saw myself with her, but I moved out of state. however in the end I can and have done better

 

[Boschy]

Is it worth going for strippers?

Nope..........think about it, she takes her clothes off 4 money.....come on

And you post messages on Internet forums. Mention that to a HB and see how far it gets you. :kick:

 

[BuckwildNYC]

I've dated 4 strippers in my lifetime. 2 I met while they were working and 2 I met outside the strip club and later found out they were strippers. Both of the ones that I met in the club were when I was with a large group of people. One was a Xmas party and the other a birthday party. So whats the common thread here? I wasn't there for the strippers and they knew that.

If you go and sit there and ogle them and give away all your money u will never date them. You had better be there with a bunch of friends and spend more time talking with your friends rather than drooling over the breasts. You should definately tip the girls but dont act like this is the first time u have seen a naked woman.

Now to answer your question............I wouldnt make a stripper my girlfriend but I would date them and bang as many as i could. It's unfair to judge all of them and say they are all drug addicts and fukked up. My whole thing is I wouldn't want my girlfriend getting naked and giving lap dances for men every night. How would you like to be in a restaurant and have one of her "clients" sitting at a table next to you. Not a cool situation.

So date a stripper if you can, have some fun, but don't take it too serious.

 

[Bonhomme]

BuckwildNYC makes some good points. But you don't need not go in a group. I've gotten many strippers' numbers going there by myself -- for lunch or dinner and/or to watch the game. It goes back to being there with another reason.

People say the key is never to tip anybody but the server or bartender and never get lap dances, but that's not always what I've found. Its' OK to every now and then get a lapdance, or maybe 2 if they're really good to you and offer you a deal. Only if you really feel like it and/or it's slow and you want to be generous. Flirt with and tease the gals like mad, generally have a great time with them, and make yourself the man they really want to get into the VIP room. I've had 'em offer to give them away to "show me how much I'd like it."

Put yourself in the world of a stripper for a bit. Most of the time these gals are entertaining men who don't really do anything for them, and quite a few of their customers are chumps who they would never touch with a ten foot pole if they didn't stand to make a hundred per hour (including socializing with them) doing so. Being fun and a bit of a challenge is an effective combination.

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One other thing: some people are not all that uptight about taking off their clothes and being overtly sexual. I've no problem dealing with such people.

 

[sexybeast]

Man, if its what you want then go for it. I don't know why some guys hear are putting strippers down like they ain't worth sh*t, that perfetic. I guarantee you most girls would love to become a stripper if only they had the confidence, the looks, wasn't brainwashed to thinking its wrong ect ect

Anyway back to the point. If you just want some fun with them [not a LTR] then go for it mate.

Couple of rules I follow when gaming strippers is NEVER pay for a dance, NEVER buy them a drink because they do try it on. They want your money first and foremost, remember that, but once you demonstrate you ain't there to pay there bills and that your there to chat them up/flirt like you would anyother girl, they love it and very possible to pull at work.

 

[Bonhomme]

A dance could be an opportunity to demonstrate your physical skills. Actually, some of the strippers whose numbers I got were ones I got a dance from. Got 'em really worked up. Really worked up.

 

[sexybeast]

yeah maybe if you get them really worked up it may work, i dont know ive never tryed it, i just couldnt bring myself to pay for her... one of the ways i demondstrate my physical skills is when they offer me a dance i offer to dance for them, they find it funny and is a good trick to set the tone of the interaction. Bottom line, for me, is game her like you would anyother chick and pass all there attempts to get me to pay... this doesnt take me long.

 

[NickBe]

They do nothing for me, when they sit on me grinding and I look into their eyes I see nothing. It is like starring into a void, there is only darkness but it is not the same kind of soulless darkness I see in my eyes. Their eyes show a tortured past. Looking into their eyes and them knowing what I really am, it is almost chilling. They can sense I am not a person like everybody else, they see the darkness and falseness inside me that I so expertly hide from everybody else. They know me more than anybody in this world knows me, they do not see the charming, good looking guy. They see the cold, dark, soulless sociopath inside. They see right through my guise like nobody else can. We share something and it intrigues but frightens them.

Sleeping with them is like sleeping with the shell of a person, their is nothing below the surface.

Take it from me you do not want somebody like me in your sex life. Not even for a brief encounter.