Is it true that if you have sex with her she will be attached to you?

davelmn2003 · May 20, 2003

Or is it a tautology? (sorry, can't think of an everyday word for this...)

By that I mean:

IF she likes you ENOUGH to have sex with you, then naturally she is attached to you in some way. THUS, having sex with her is not by itself what drives her to be attached to you IN THE FIRST PLACE. That is to say, it is something else about you that she likes that drives her to have sex with you and to be attached to you.

Now perhaps the question can be posted differently:

Does she get attached to you EVEN MORE after she has had sex with you? How strongly attached would she be after sex? Would she consider it an implied "contract" between you and her whereby both of you are now a "couple" in a "relationship"?

epitome of evolution · May 20, 2003

It is true that after having sex with you, she will use chick logic to make up reasons for doing so, like, "he was right for me, it was love at first sight. He's the one,or any other chick stuff"

There is a balance between her you her and external factors(ASD). You want to atttract her to you, and make up a reason against external influences in your favour, hence sex first.

***I'm assuming this post in in response to Pap's thread about Mystery Method and sex before dating. If not, then my reply is still sound, but perhaps more is needed to answer your question.

Quick · May 20, 2003

There are lots of things that play into it, but I believe sex does play a role. One reason is all the times that females are taught that sex without love makes them a *****. So when they have sex, the trick themselves into thinking it was more than that. "It was emotional." "It was an expression of love." It was always in the context of something bigger than the act itself. They need to believe that, so they convince themselves that it's true.

Lord forbid that it was anything as simple as two organisms exercising their instinctual and hormone driven need for sex. Their minds are so indoctrinated, that they not only need to justify it to others, they need to justify it to themselves. If it turns out that it was just sex to the guy, they often feel bad about themselves and used. That's why they play so many games with sex, in order to get the male to make some sort of commitment to her first. It's also why the techniques given here and other places work. They focus on making her believe that there is something special going on, and breaking down her barriers.

Sowatchasayin · May 21, 2003

Seems when i have sex with women, they come back for more

DJStudent · May 21, 2003

From my experience, they are just horny for more. If you're good in bed they'll always come back. However there are those girls who are wife material and they use logic.

I don't know if it's just me, but are girlfriends only good for sex at a young age?

htemorp · May 21, 2003

Maybe I suck in bed or something, but I stop calling them, and they stop calling me, then all of sudden I have this rumor goign around of me being a jerk that never calls. I HATE FEMALES!

CyranoDeBergerac · May 21, 2003

I apologize in advance, but I just can't help it...

It really depends on how good the sex is...

InLawsHateMe · May 21, 2003

Here's a fact..... no matter how good you are in bed, if they are treated like crap, 9 out of 10 times, they will leave. The 1 that will hang around, well, she'll hang around cuz she doesn't want to let you go, but eventually, they all have a breaking point.

You can lock em down though. My Ex-wife kept coming back after our divorce, until I told her she was cut off.

booty-naughtyness-spur · May 21, 2003

hmm... it seems to me that most women are not at all interested in "casual sex." it's pounded into our brains that if a man likes us enough to want to stick his penis in us, he likes us enough to take on the potential responsibility if we get knocked up.

mind you, not all of us are like this. i for one have unintentionally hurt many a mans feelings because i lost interest after the sex (some was bad, some was fantastic) but i just lost interest.

Sentrility · May 21, 2003

Its because Sex is a more of an emotional attachment for girls. Once they are emotionally attached, they are attached forever..

Liz · May 21, 2003

Originally posted by htemorp
Maybe I suck in bed or something, but I stop calling them, and they stop calling me, then all of sudden I have this rumor goign around of me being a jerk that never calls. I HATE FEMALES!

Okay let's look at this again can we?

Then you say you stop calling them, and I assume this is after sex.

And the end result is that there is a rumor saying that you never call.

Well if you aren't calling it is no longer a rumor, but a truth! A girl isn't going to want to call you after sex. She wants you to call her to let her know that you are still interested. This doesn't seem too hard to understand I just thought it was funny that you were offended at the fact you had rumors going on about you that were true, by what you just stated as fact.

Liz

Matt ala Casanova · May 21, 2003

Well if you bang her like crap then she will be turned off. Just because she lets you have sex with her, doesn't always mean she wants to be in a relationship with you.

If you take the time to really make her feel special then she may have more of an incentive to follow up with another date or maybe even a attempt at dating you. Just don't get all crazy after you have sex with her. Just go with the flow.

M.A.C.

MysteryWoman · May 21, 2003

No some women can be emtionally detached and separate love from sex. She will only love you, if she was in love before she slept with you.

CyranoDeBergerac · May 22, 2003

Originally posted by MysteryWoman
No some women can be emtionally detached and separate love from sex. She will only love you, if she was in love before she slept with you.

Nice to see you back around Mystery. Its been too long...lol

Royal-tiger · May 22, 2003

Truth is..

There is a saying, "Women lose their reasoning (or sense) after sleeping with you whereas men gain it." Unless, of course, it was a ONS from her perspective.

The reason is: Sex is the ultimate power a woman has over men and once she has given that to you she feels powerless (so to speak). Men, on the other hand, ...

tracy Jaks · May 22, 2003

hmmm

After sex,women just become a 'fvcking' nuisance, so to speak

Oscar Wilde · May 22, 2003

Re: hmmm

Originally posted by tracy Jaks
After sex,women just become a 'fvcking' nuisance, so to speak

Oh man, is that true. Can't get some chick to stop harassing me (sends me 4 text messages a day, 6 weeks after ONS)...

It sucks.

georgie24 · May 22, 2003

Re: hmmm

Originally posted by tracy Jaks
After sex,women just become a 'fvcking' nuisance, so to speak

i concour

Matt ala Casanova · May 22, 2003

Re: Truth is..

Originally posted by Royal-tiger
There is a saying, "Women lose their reasoning (or sense) after sleeping with you whereas men gain it." Unless, of course, it was a ONS from her perspective.

The reason is: Sex is the ultimate power a woman has over men and once she has given that to you she feels powerless (so to speak). Men, on the other hand, ...

I have always like this saying...

"Give it all you got and do it in da butt!" - The Ladies Man.

M.A.C.

The Time Machine · May 1, 2009

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