Is it really "dry spell" if....

[imarockstar]

The irony of this approach is that you are more likely to hook yourself a hottie with little effort on your part. Desire - Necessity = The Right Vibe

you da man fingers! i didnt think you posted here anymore, glad to see youre still on board! anyways, this is what i needed to hear, because basically, i am very picky with women, overly picky even. i went to the mall yesterday and told myself i would do 3 approaches. the problem was, the mall was dead, i saw a couple of decent looking girls, but they werent worth my time. i think my point is that youll give the right vibe if youre actually interested in the girl.

id love to be one of these guys who make 1000 approaches because it honestly would make you so much better with talking to women, and if you have a huge phobia maybe its a good thing to do. but i almost got myself stuck into just gaming girls for the sake of gaming, when i actually didnt want to go anywhere with it. i understand now that i dont need to force my attraction for a chick just to say i got an approach in, because in my approach i wouldnt have the right vibe. thats awesome

 

[Zonder]

...you can get it anytime, but just not with peeps who are up to your standards?

It's going on a month now...... ...I don't want to call the ex.

Yeah, that's pretty much the defnition of dry spell. I have had months long dry spells where I could have sex with people who are up to my standards as well, I was just too busy to. Still a dry spell. I don't see why you should have a problem with it.

 

[Colossus]

The inherent and obvious problem with dry spells is that you can become necessitous. And when you become necessitous you open yourself to the danger of making poor decisions.

LOL at the 'biblical proportions' comment. 2 years is pretty crazy, man. Not judging you, but I dont see how that couldnt mess with your head. I get ancy after a month!

 

[edger]

I get ancy after a month!

A month? Try "2" f*ckin' days here. Lol.

 

[edger]

I'm going on without it since April of 2007, not counting all the in-between hot escorts(here in the states) and hot prostitutes(in Amsterdam). Could I have gotten laid since April of 2007? Of course, but they wouldn't have been up to my standards..and I only f*ck that which is up to my standards. That means hot women in public who make you pitch a tent in your pants.

 

[cedd]

the "dry spell" problem is only YOUR problem. whoever cares ?
being in a dry spell is a bad thing BUT can be a good thing if you look closer. there are pros and cons.

cons :
obviously you dont fvck. youre being needy. your succes with women is affected.
this is a vicious circle. YOU MUST BREAK IT !

Just try to turn the negative things into positive ones.

pros:
you have time for your job (more money), time for your friends (more social), hobbies, passions, improving yourself (lose weight, workout, learn foreign language, meditation, tapping...), take a break from the game...
you dont fvck either but will be quite happy with your life though.
Succes with Women will come back in a short time.

cheers

 

[backbreaker]

dry spells are exgtremely helpful if used right and not crying like a little *****

 

[TheLadiesMan]

Obviously, I'm not fvcking... not right now that is. :yes:

You do know that all I have to do is pick up the phone and make a call, and I'd be getting mine, right? ...trust and believe that. Hell, I can pick up the phone right now and get you some! LOL!

I'm just tired of the same o same o. I've been with the same 3 women over the past 2 years, and none are really panning out to be anything more than just sex. Great company, but...

 

[backbreaker]

theladiesman, you arne't going to **** a woman with a farris wheel inside her pvssy. it really, is all the same. some women smell a little different, some are different colors, some act a litlte different, some have different little quirks, but if it's one thing i've learned at my young age of 25, it's that sex, is pretty much sex, regardless of who it's with.

I'm alot like star8up. I am past chasing pvssy, which ironically, helps me out becuase i'm always myself. I mean I have a sex drive, don't get me wrong, but it's just, not, that , damn, serious. I guess I don't have the sex drive as some do, becuase if I can't get any i'll just find something else to do. Even when my Gf and I are at it, I'll just sit in the living room, play with myson or get online and play some video games or watch TV.

soemtimes I go on a self imposed dry spell. a couple of months ago I didnt' fvck my GF for about a month. personal reasons, but I got alot done. think abou tit. let's say you go for 30 mintues everytime you go at it, and you go at it 5 times a week. That's almost a week a year spent on just fvcking. I mean it's not a lot but if you are like me, after a good lay I'm knocked out, I get lazy, you got the whole cuddle thing goin.. it takes alot out of you.

 

[TheLadiesMan]

..but that's exactly what I tend to do. Fvck a woman with a farris wheel inside her pvssy.

To me, pvssy smells like candy, and taste like peaches. Sometimes when it's bad, it's really not THAT bad.

Besides, when you've licked a woman's a$$, everything else is cake. Chocolate cake that is.

One more thing, sex isn't the same with every woman. You have some good, you have some bad, some make loud noises, some make little noises, and then there's the few that take your game to a whole 'nother level. Some will do you in ways you cannot speak of in public places, and some will scare the b-jesus out of you with what they consider, sex.

So yea, sex is not the same.. at least not for all guys.