Is it really annoying to you too?

[Faca]

I have sent a PM to a Moderator about this, and i hope that he will do something about the problem most of us have here.

First
I remember sosuave from the old days, how it was. How the interactions went between, forum members.. and what you could get back from other posters. Anti-Dump, Pook and many others did leave because.. they wanted really to. They left because of the mess that sosuave has become.

Now what do i mean with this mess?
People longer on this forum will understand what i mean. Most of the time it just is, if you post something that people will react in a way to it, without even thinking or knowing what they say. About all the posters here, i think that only 2% have something really valueable to add

I remember a poll where we were asked question, in how our sex life was. Now shocking, more then 50% had never kissed a girl. Not the say about the virgins here. I know for sure it is above this 50%! Now there is nothing wrong with not having kissed a girl, and with being a virgin if you are under 25 years old is also not something shocking.

BUT, if you belong to this section.. do not even think about to replying to people's questions about dating, and sex. And especially do not post anything in the Mature Man section if you aren't Mature enough. I did this and i learned from this.

Finally
I don't know if i belong to those quality posters, i don't think so. But i have learned a lot from sosuave, and there fore i am gratefull for the people that made this possible!

BUT, if the moderators don't do something about this. I probabaly will stop comming here.. and for sure i will stop posting for a while. Yes this is a calling to all those great posters, and people that mean a lot to this website.

STOP posting till there's something done!

Even closing the gates to sosuave will help, till this problem is solved. The new guys will have nothing to learn, if nobody does something about this!

- Faca

 

[lookyoung]

I agree 100% with you. Sometimes I also get frustrated with this site. There are many guys in here were it is obvious they have no experience with woman yet post a thread a minute! I don't think guys like this should be giving advice. There is noway we can make sosuave perfect. I myself don't consider myself one of the greatest posters on here. But I do have enough expertise and real life situations to give advice. Some people just don't.


This is what I think we should do at sosuave.

1. Charge a $50 yearly membership fee. This will get rid of the trolls. Will get rid of the 15-18 year old crowd. People will be more genuine with posts.

2. The mods should close the gates at sosuave. No new members for 1 month. Look at the guys who post garbage. I know a few but don't want to start a flame war. Ban them and make them pay yearly 50 dollar fee if they want to join.

These I feel are the two best ways to make this sosuave better.

 

[sparky0000]

This is what I think we should do at sosuave.

1. Charge a $50 yearly membership fee. This will get rid of the trolls. Will get rid of the 15-18 year old crowd. People will be more genuine with posts.

2. The mods should close the gates at sosuave. No new members for 1 month. Look at the guys who post garbage. I know a few but don't want to start a flame war. Ban them and make them pay yearly 50 dollar fee if they want to join.

These I feel are the two best ways to make this sosuave better.

Yeah, charge $50 a year for the right to post about peacocking. WTF!? That is insane. This site would lose 98% of its members. Do you really think people are going to pay $50 a year to participate in this type of forum? Just because your heroes charge thousands of dollars for seminars on how to land a chub doesn't mean that anybody shows up to them.

BTW, the dregs of this forum can be found in the "Mature Man" section. Nothing but a bunch of insecure dudes who are afraid that younger females won't like them.

BTW 2, The first post was almost impossible to read. At least the second post was easy to follow. Well, as easy as a post that encourages a $50 fee in order to participate in a free forum could be.

 

[lookyoung]

Yeah, charge $50 a year for the right to post about peacocking. WTF!? That is insane. This site would lose 98% of its members. Do you really think people are going to pay $50 a year to participate in this type of forum? Just because your heroes charge thousands of dollars for seminars on how to land a chub doesn't mean that anybody shows up to them.

BTW, the dregs of this forum can be found in the "Mature Man" section. Nothing but a bunch of insecure dudes who are afraid that younger females won't like them.

BTW 2, The first post was almost impossible to read. At least the second post was easy to follow. Well, as easy as a post that encourages a $50 fee in order to participate in a free forum could be.

Sparky you are one of the guys that I am talking about. You are a TROLL. Your cheap and you would never pay this because you are not serious about girls and probably never had a girl. You idiot these guys are not my heroes I have stated that before you troll. I don't believe in PUA's.


You big loser.

 

[Nighthawk]

The mods should pick reliable, experienced DJs and make them Master or Senior DJs. Because the post count system is clearly inappropriate and will confuse many newbies and tempt trolls to post-*****.

 

[sparky0000]

Sparky you are one of the guys that I am talking about. You are a TROLL. Your cheap and you would never pay this because you are not serious about girls and probably never had a girl. You idiot these guys are not my heroes I have stated that before you troll. I don't believe in PUA's.


You big loser.

I big loser What kind of language is this. English has what we call, "articles" and verbs. Get somebody to edit your posts. I can't follow what you are saying.

The only "troll" on here is Vulpine. The rest of us might annoy you, but we are not "troll" worthy.

mr. elor at least has some common sense. Lot of you guys (lookyoung) do a lot of bragging. Lookyoung created an entire post on how good looking he was.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115880

Hell, I am so ugly that I try to avoid shiny surfaces and mirrors. Sad, but true. At least I admit it. I bet many of you probably do the same.

 

[Faca]

I big loser What kind of language is this. English has what we call, "articles" and verbs. Get somebody to edit your posts. I can't follow what you are saying.

The only "troll" on here is Vulpine. The rest of us might annoy you, but we are not "troll" worthy.

mr. elor at least has some common sense. Lot of you guys (lookyoung) do a lot of bragging. Lookyoung created an entire post on how good looking he was.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115880

Hell, I am so ugly that I try to avoid shiny surfaces and mirrors. Sad, but true. At least I admit it. I bet many of you probably do the same.

Sparky,

With respect, i am asking you to say out of this thread.. for several reasons. I will not discuss anything regarding this to you, and no Flame wars or anything.

Vulpine is not a troll or anything you claim him to be. He might come off as arrogant or something like that. But he's not a TROLL! Don't know him personally, but i believe that he is a good DJ!

- Faca

 

[djbr]

The only "troll" on here is Vulpine. The rest of us might annoy you, but we are not "troll" worthy.

Are you kidding? Vulpine is one of the best posters on this board.

 

[John_Galt]

I big loser What kind of language is this. English has what we call, "articles" and verbs. Get somebody to edit your posts. I can't follow what you are saying.

The only "troll" on here is Vulpine. The rest of us might annoy you, but we are not "troll" worthy.

mr. elor at least has some common sense. Lot of you guys (lookyoung) do a lot of bragging. Lookyoung created an entire post on how good looking he was.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115880

Hell, I am so ugly that I try to avoid shiny surfaces and mirrors. Sad, but true. At least I admit it. I bet many of you probably do the same.

lol. That's a great find. The guy starts a thread calling himself an AFC, than in the topic starts telling people how to game girls. I got to go by the local university and see if I can get a grad student in psychology to do their thesis on these kinds of people.

 

[lookyoung]

I big loser What kind of language is this. English has what we call, "articles" and verbs. Get somebody to edit your posts. I can't follow what you are saying.

The only "troll" on here is Vulpine. The rest of us might annoy you, but we are not "troll" worthy.

mr. elor at least has some common sense. Lot of you guys (lookyoung) do a lot of bragging. Lookyoung created an entire post on how good looking he was.
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=115880

Hell, I am so ugly that I try to avoid shiny surfaces and mirrors. Sad, but true. At least I admit it. I bet many of you probably do the same.

I am sorry for you being ugly. You can still get girls sparky. But with your attitude your going to die a virgin. Look at this guys threads and posts. Not one field report. Not anything useful. Never asked for any advice and he is a virgin. This guy is a communist. I will say its between this guy and babnik for troll of the year 2007.

 

[lookyoung]

lol. That's a great find. The guy starts a thread calling himself an AFC, than in the topic starts telling people how to game girls. I got to go by the local university and see if I can get a grad student in psychology to do their thesis on these kinds of people.

Listen bro. I have popped enough girls to give advice on woman. Believe me if everyone on sosuave fvcked as many girls as I did this sosuave would be so much better. Take that to the bank JOHN GAIT.

BTW you are a 23 year old virgin you posted a thread on this a while back. Nice find! I am going to do a thesis on how someone is still a virgin at 23.

Never bite the hand that feeds you. You should be thankful that guys here are posting advice to help you. Instead you of all people like to slam people. Me giving advice on girls is a good thing. VIRGINS GIVING ADVICE IS NOT.

 

[Vulpine]

Someone is just p!ssed because she's on my ignore list. Which brings me to the point: you guys quoted her like 3 times.

Instead of quoting and arguing with people you know/believe are retarded, don't put the burden on the moderators, take some initiative and handle business yourself. Use your ignore lists and the problem *poof* goes away. See, if the retard was on your ignore list, you wouldn't have had to get sucked into the negativity.

Click the name, go to "view profile", at the top of the info area click on "add to ignore list", on the next screen click "submit".... and get back to a cleaner, healthier forum of your own making.

You don't need moderators to click "ignore" for you: you are in control of your own lives, find your own options and come up with ways to solve your problems.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I have sent a PM to a Moderator about this, and i hope that he will do something about the problem most of us have here.

First
I remember sosuave from the old days, how it was.

The old days? Way back in June of 2006 when you joined (or created this account because the original was banned for whatever reason).

Face it, if you've been here for any length of time you'd know that the Mods are only enforcers. The decisions are made by the man behind the curtain. You do know who that is, right?

 

[Jariel]

The decisions are made by the man behind the curtain. You do know who that is, right?

Dr Beard?

 

[Vulpine]

The decisions are made by the man behind the curtain. You do know who that is, right?

The Wizard of Oz?


Rod Roddy?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Dr Beard?

Oh stop it....

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

...Rod Roddy?

Now that was unexpected and extremely funny!

 

[Call_Me_Daddy]

I like the charge money idea. You charge for the right to post and ask questions, but just so you don't leave people in the dark you let everyone view the posts

Iy you want to post stuff or ask questions, you pay a fee. If you just want to read, its free.

 

[ValleyDJing]

Faca, I was thinking the exact same thing. A few months ago, I wouldn't have agreed with you. I remember the exodus of all the "popular posters" talking about how far the site has fallen etc. The whole time I'm thinking, just filter the crap with your ignore button and you're own ability to filter. But now...I'm starting to see where they were coming from.

Its not the noobs and the noob threads that irritate me so much as all the flame wars. I'll admit, when I first got here, I was a bit of a flamer, intrigued by the fact I could piss people off without them ever knowing who I was. Don't get me wrong, I wasn't a troll, but I was quick to take what might be considered constructive criticizm and launch into an expletive riddled smart-alecky reply.

Nowadays, I realize you need to treat the people on here like you would your friends or people you were talking to face to face. I try to treat people with respect and try to be genuine and cordial. I slip up sometimes when something just really gets on my nerves...but for the most part, I feel like I've been fairly cordial. I challenge anyone to find me a thread with more than 2 pages of posts that doesn't have at least one poster flaming, trolling, or dissing another. You won't find one trust me. Thats what bother's me most about this site, and if and when I leave, it will be for that fact alone."

 

[Vulpine]

Nowadays, I realize you need to treat the people on here like you would your friends or people you were talking to face to face. I try to treat people with respect and try to be genuine and cordial. I slip up sometimes when something just really gets on my nerves...but for the most part, I feel like I've been fairly cordial. I challenge anyone to find me a thread with more than 2 pages of posts that doesn't have at least one poster flaming, trolling, or dissing another. You won't find one trust me. Thats what bother's me most about this site, and if and when I leave, it will be for that fact alone."

:yes:
This is the guts of the issue.

"Be civil."

That's all there is to it. It's good "practice" here to be smooth, funny, charming, etc. Why, oh why, would you practice being a d!ck? Are you here studying to be a d!ck? *ignored*