is it possible to get a girl to cheat on her bf if she's in a commited relationship?

[izza]

if you are/are becoming a real DJ then you'd have morals which suggest this is wrong and you'd have enough respect for people in general whoever they may be, to just go for single girls instead. There are so many single women, theres no need to steal girls. Thats my opinion anyways!

I love your commitment to ethics - something this site is very much lacking.

I am finding that I find it more ethical to act freely, rather than follow an unethical and property-based social contract. I'm not sure if we can liberate our society sexually, embracing the wonderful sexual technology that we have, if we insist on following every outdated social contract to the letter.

Although many have entered into exclusive relationships "freely", I'm not sure many did so truly knowing all their options. Once I present better options, many drop the old. I simply insist that they be open and free about it.

Sometimes, the best way to live in a better society is to just make your personal world better, and more ethical. The rest can follow.

Izza

 

[izza]

Anyway, this thought experiment comes to us from John Locke. Mine is actually a bit modified, so bear with me. Here is the original thought experiment:

"Suppose a man be carried, whilst fast asleep, into a room where is a person he longs to see and speak with; and be there locked fast in, beyond his power to get out: he awakes, and is glad to find himself in so desirable company, which he stays willingly in, i.e., prefers his stay to going away. (Essay II, xxi, 10)"

So Locke asks: does this man stay in the room freely? He says, no, but obviously a bit more complicated.

I wanted to bring this discussion more to front and center:

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1507509#post1507509

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

you know what girls are like, some cheat some don't, they go on their feelings.

if a girl is in a relationship but is really physically attracted to you, is it still possible to get her to cheat on her bf with you?

if u can get her isolated one on one at a bar for a drink, spit a little game do u think it's still possible for her to forget her bf and start making out with you cos 'it just happened'?

there's this HB i want to bang but im starting to consider whether it's worth the effort.

Hahahaa it is very very possible, just never bring up another guy and when or if she mentions a boyfriend you persist past the dead spot and project on her face what it is you TRULY want.:flowers:

*My Nina who I have now and almost for 3 years to start I made out with her knowing she had a boyfriend for 4 months at the time.

*I've had sex with a girl named Jess that her bf was calling and texting her asking her if she was drunk or something while she was giving me head she showed me the texts lol or more or less I just took a looksy..

*Kadie, her guy was in jail when I bang her on her back porch at 3 am drunk. called her and said "hey come outside I'm drunk"

* Danielle, banged her in my friends blazer that same friend had just hungout with her and her boyfriend the day before lol. but that was a given she basically asked me to **** her, I saw her and her bf the next day and lol he made out with her in front of me I'm not sure he realized she had hickys all over her neck? I couldnt help but to laugh.

*mm my hayley right now who I cheat on Nina with has had a boyfriend for a lil over a month, the next time we hangout I promised to eat her out since her bf won't do it hahaha I wonder who'll win that one in the end :moon: probably my best catch of 36 shes nearly an hb 10 =].

* Hailey, a different one, was telling me while we were making out and just before she gave me head about how "yerr making me cheat on my boyfriend I love him" lol.

There are more examples please trust me here as I have messed around with 36 plus girls by now at my 19 yr old age, whats different is relationships I'll tell ya, holding one for me is much harder than just ****ing around with a *****, I have to be a mother****er at the same time so I don't get cheated on like I did with these girls hahaha.

see point is that you have to be on fire hungry for that *****, make statements not questions and never bring up another guy, project your sexual state... how? you know, just how you feel when you've got that deep hornyness, you don't have to say anything in particular and I think this is where guys get genuinly confused most the time, it's just the isolation and making statements, and no matter what it be, people arent dumb she will catch your vibe and give you the green light eventually lmao ok use this advice and use this you gott it my friend.

Jorge

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

"commited" women are easier to lay than single women... FACT!

I agree which is why I'm a mother****er, and I tell my girl, that's why she loves me and sticks to me like glue.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

Just for ****s and giggles heheh... take a listen, now don't confuse this with being a genuine guy because being a true lover and being a ****ing dog are completely different, you're a liar and an ******* if you do what I do, I'm not sure I'm very good as a true lover, but take a listen if you wanna be a dog it is fun 'till you start feelin' the burn in yerr head...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nyq37L1pa0o

geto boys gangsta of love, "I really don't give a ****, see uhh I like to play 'em fast, act like I love 'em and dog their mutha ****kin ass"

 

[More Cowbell Please]

I'm not trying to be the diick in the ointment, but what's the use in that? Not enough drama in your life already?

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

. I just wish people would listen to for example the last few posts on this thread, I mean I see all the theads of even older men than I posting asking about how to get a girl with a bf, take a look at my numbers, if anyone truly wants the answer there's one initial mindset and the rest is be yourself, beyond that inital mindset hehe, I mean take a look at me... I'm just a nice guy, looking for a nice girl, I believe in the Lord our God, and I trust in people very much. :flowers:

Call it just about 36 girls but I could be wrong, I've made lists and sometimes it's 38 I believe I'm forgetting someone everytime I just can't fit it together. A loving committed relationship is much better to be in though, harder but more worth it.

Jorge

 

[young_gun]

. I just wish people would listen to for example the last few posts on this thread, I mean I see all the theads of even older men than I posting asking about how to get a girl with a bf, take a look at my numbers, if anyone truly wants the answer there's one initial mindset and the rest is be yourself, beyond that inital mindset hehe, I mean take a look at me... I'm just a nice guy, looking for a nice girl, I believe in the Lord our God, and I trust in people very much. :flowers:

Call it just about 36 girls but I could be wrong, I've made lists and sometimes it's 38 I believe I'm forgetting someone everytime I just can't fit it together. A loving committed relationship is much better to be in though, harder but more worth it.

Jorge

Keep bragging about your accomplishments. We want to hear all about them. You get cooler and cooler in everyone's eyes with each new forum post.

 

[KontrollerX]

Anything is possible.

The outcome for this type of project is all dependent on your level of game.

Pretty much anyone be they male or female will cheat if presented with a great enough kind of deal.

Like for example if a 20 year old Jenna Jameson in her prime wanted a one time fvck with any guy here and he'd have to cheat on his current squeeze to make that happen I doubt any guy here even the most supposedly moral poster around would turn her down.

Same for women being offered a one time deal with the man of their dreams but see for either men or women it doesn't even have to be the actual man or woman of their dreams just someone whose game is so tight that clicks with them incredibly on any given day and voila before you know it you're banging away on someone that is not your one true love but pressed all the right buttons.

 

[jacob]

I love your commitment to ethics - something this site is very much lacking.

I am finding that I find it more ethical to act freely, rather than follow an unethical and property-based social contract. I'm not sure if we can liberate our society sexually, embracing the wonderful sexual technology that we have, if we insist on following every outdated social contract to the letter.

Although many have entered into exclusive relationships "freely", I'm not sure many did so truly knowing all their options. Once I present better options, many drop the old. I simply insist that they be open and free about it.

Sometimes, the best way to live in a better society is to just make your personal world better, and more ethical. The rest can follow.

Izza

There's nothing new under the sun.

The Christian world order that is obviously being eroded at the moment ensures that the human race and civilization will prosper, instead of self destruct.

Other ideologies such as you advocate has been done in other places and ages, which has lead to a barbaric society.

There's no denying that many nations are again embracing pagan religions,
Even the great U.S. which was founded on Christian morals is turning to paganism.

And there's no denying females find it exciting and attractive, but suggesting that it'll liberate and free us into a better society is woefully misguided.

Being a part of fallen humanity, I too have concupisence and fall into temptation and give in to my weakness for the flesh.

I have commited adultery and I can see the suffering it brings to all involved. Which is why we as a civilization need an authority on morals, less you and everyone decide on their own what is right and wrong, and we have many killing, plundering, raping and offering up children to Molech. It's not freedom but license.

Anyway to answer the OP, The woman of this age has corrupted morals and would definitley cheat on her spouse, no matter what the consequence. She does infact desire the bad boy and if she tells you she has a boyfriend, you can respond with " that's alright, I'm not the jealous type." with a ****y+funny demeanor.

 

[ima str8 up pimp]

Keep bragging about your accomplishments. We want to hear all about them. You get cooler and cooler in everyone's eyes with each new forum post.

hehe ... I'm one of "those" guys, the kind of ****head that played sports and was good at them and tried to bang any girl in any social clique, the only twist is that I'm a dark brown mexican... I lie my ass off to get in girl's pants but the truth is that I'm an "arrogant egomaniacal bi-polar prick".. I mean well when I care and I my girlfriend and I decided I'm indeed well categorized as an arrogant egomaniacal bi-polar prick, hahaha I'm hard to kill like Gucci Mane but don't concern yourself with me focus on getting yours is my best advice

Jorge

 

[DonGorgon]

I think I can explain for him.

Women are always looking for excitement, and will go to great lengths to get it.

For SINGLE women, the sky is the limit and they are aiming to pick the most amazing guy they can find, and if the girl is good looking, she has plenty of male callers to pick from. Can get very competitive, see?

For TAKEN women, they already have a standard of a mate they consider acceptable (their boyfriend/spouse.) So basically, if you are a better specimen than that boyfriend/spouse, unless the girl has some STRONG morals, with a little work and some cunning you can get the *****.

You know when a taken woman advertises the fact that she has a boyfriend? Having a boyfriend gives a girl a LOT of leeway.

With the "I Have A Boyfriend" excuse, a girl can talk to/flirt with whatever man she wants (as long as her boyfriend doesn't care/is ignorant to it) with no guilt, since all guys are presumably disqualified by the fact that she has a boyfriend.

"I don't know... I have a boyfriend" -> "I'm having fun, but my boyfriend wouldn't like this" -> "My boyfriend CANNOT find out about this!"

Reasons:

- It is easier to "get your foot in the door" with women who are taken. They have no qualms over meeting new guys, since they "have a boyfriend" and "would never do anything slutty like that"

- If the woman is HB7 or below, and has some sort of quasi-AFC boyfriend, you are looking at an EASY BANG.

- Excitement is important to women. It is not exciting to be "tied down."

- Secrets, however, ARE EXCITING. In fact, very exciting to women. Sneaking around, hiding texts/emails, it's all like some kind of crazy romance novel to them.

ThaNKS .. I COULD NOT HAVE EXPLAINED IT BETTER...

 

[izza]

There's nothing new under the sun.

The Christian world order that is obviously being eroded at the moment ensures that the human race and civilization will prosper, instead of self destruct.

Other ideologies such as you advocate has been done in other places and ages, which has lead to a barbaric society.

There's no denying that many nations are again embracing pagan religions,
Even the great U.S. which was founded on Christian morals is turning to paganism.

And there's no denying females find it exciting and attractive, but suggesting that it'll liberate and free us into a better society is woefully misguided.

Being a part of fallen humanity, I too have concupisence and fall into temptation and give in to my weakness for the flesh.

I have commited adultery and I can see the suffering it brings to all involved. Which is why we as a civilization need an authority on morals, less you and everyone decide on their own what is right and wrong, and we have many killing, plundering, raping and offering up children to Molech. It's not freedom but license.

Anyway to answer the OP, The woman of this age has corrupted morals and would definitley cheat on her spouse, no matter what the consequence. She does infact desire the bad boy and if she tells you she has a boyfriend, you can respond with " that's alright, I'm not the jealous type." with a ****y+funny demeanor.

WAHOO!!!

I love it when people have an original or unusual opinion on this form. Yay!!

I'm not being sarcastic, it is so bloody rare. Thanks for speaking your mind. I'll take what you're saying into consideration. That said, I've been a Christian for many years. And then a theist for years after that. I think our cultural traditions are very important. It is important to consider them, they are the passed from hand to hand, considered by billions of humans throughout history, and deserve respect and a hard look.

I have thought very carefully about this. I will continue to think about it. But I don't think what I'm espousing will cause the unraveling of our humanity. Any thoughts on why?

 

[K2000kidd]

You may want to read this first
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=154696