Is it Possible to Date a Low Interest woman?

[PRW63]

Usually what happens is you leave after the date thinking everything went well, then you talk some more the next few days after the date and it’s the same. Then they decide they don’t want to see you again a few days after the date.

It is the talking after the date that does it. If you wait a couple days after the date,...then contact them, and use the contact to set the next date without "visiting",...then you stay in the game longer. Don't have more than one date a week until she starts to take the iniative to reach out to you. When she does that use it as an opportunity to set the next date ,...still with minimal "chating" between dates, but at least the dates are happening more often now. You have to keep her wanting just a little more than she is getting. It takes time for her emotions to get fully engaged. But if it falls apart, then it would have done so anyway and you couldn't have stopped it. If she drops you for not calling/texting enough then you just dodged a needy insecure woman.

 

[sangheilios]

Tons of women have had little to no interest in me but faked it and went on a date or two or three with me. These women make you think they like you but they can turn cold in a blink of an eye.

I've heard/overheard of a few stories like this, where the women were going out on dates despite having no to little interest in the man. A couple years ago I heard a few stories of some women I knew of who would go on tinder specifically for getting treated to dinner, drinks, activities, etc. I overheard this woman, a 4, talking about how she could go to any bar and get any man to buy her a drink. She elaborated on leading them on to the point where they felt she was interested, they'd buy her a drink and then she'd turn around and leave the guy in the dust.

I've also heard of some stories where women would go on dates with men out of boredom or to have fun but with no real intention of seeing them again. This isn't quite as bad as above but it lies along the same spectrum, where they are seeking a date or interaction with a man for personal benefit with no intention of seeing that man again and more or less showing no regard for his time or energy.

Women like this are trashy as hell and damaged beyond repair, not at all something to even concern yourself with. What is important is learning how to filter these women out and learning how to prevent this from happening in the first place. One, I'd start by only going for women who show strong signs of initial interest, this isn't hard to pick up on if you met in person. If I was going on a date with a woman I "met" off of the internet I'd keep it really simple and not invest much money into the date, if at all.

 

[TheNewStyle123]

I've noticed one thing in common with every woman i dated, it's that they always had high interest and made things easy for me right from the start. To this day i have not been able to raise a low interest womans attraction to me. The whole point of Game is to raise a womans attraction to you, yet I've never been able to do that.

I'm just wondering, has anyone here ever dated a low interest woman, does game actually work if she isn't interested?

Why even bother? LOL too many better women out there to fuuck with a low interest one.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

OP is confusing low interest for medium interest. You will rarely get a girl that with initial high interest in you unless you are Drake or something. The point of the game is to find girls with medium interest in you and raise it to high. Change low interested girls to NOT Interested girls.

 

[Georgepithyou]

OP is confusing low interest for medium interest. You will rarely get a girl that with initial high interest in you unless you are Drake or something. The point of the game is to find girls with medium interest in you and raise it to high. Change low interested girls to NOT Interested girls.

Low interest women tend to be one date wonders which i have had a lot of experience with. With high interest women i had a lot more leeway to mess up and it was always smooth sailing right from the start

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Low interest women tend to be one date wonders which i have had a lot of experience with. With high interest women i had a lot more leeway to mess up and it was always smooth sailing right from the start

could be our differences, I'm black so no gym/money/looks are going to raise a girl that's not in to black guys lol

 

[Georgepithyou]

could be our differences, I'm black so no gym/money/looks are going to raise a girl that's not in to black guys lol

Everyone has their niche, there is a pretty huge niche of women who only date black guys. The only downside is they have to fit the "gangsta thug" stereotype.

 

[SargeMaximus]

Just ask same question to yourself as the roles are reversed

A flat chested woman who got huge implants would definitely rocket herself into my awareness and interest

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

Everyone has their niche, there is a pretty huge niche of women who only date black guys. The only downside is they have to fit the "gangsta thug" stereotype.

im not gangster at all so my pool of women is dog shvt lol

 

[DonJuanjr]

so my pool of women is dog shvt lol

We are all fighting against something. At least you're six foot with full head of hair. As opposed to a half foot shorter and bald.

 

[Jake_Gyllenhaal69]

We are all fighting against something. At least you're six foot with full head of hair. As opposed to a half foot shorter and bald.

Don’t obsess over the things you cannot control because it’s a pure waste of time. Improve what you can and take advantage of your pros. Yes, I’m 6ft, muscular, make decent money, and good looking but I get turned down upfront because I’m black or they are turned off by my personality/vibe and there’s not a damn thing I can do about it...Oh well

You do not want a 100% acceptance rate anyway, aim for a 60% as a sweet spot

 

[Dash Riprock]

Tons of women have had little to no interest in me but faked it and went on a date or two or three with me. These women make you think they like you but they can turn cold in a blink of an eye.

This happens a lot unfortunately and 90% of all guys will hang in there feeding off her crumbs hoping she'll "come around" and realize what a great guy he is.

This just happened to me a couple weeks ago. Communicating with a girl from OLD (cesspool) maybe a HB7.5. Yellow flags early in the communication, then this (see pic). Texting then goes dark and circles back two days later and says "I forgot to hit Send", LOL. Sadly most men would buy it. Not me. Flaky Low or Med IL chick which isn't worth one minute of my valuable time. Note my reply: NO REPLY.

 

[jamesfromhouston]

Hey gents. Been reading through this thread. Great topic. I been thinking about it for awhile now too.

Just want to ask, might seem like a stupid questions:

1) does it mean that you should never chase and be reactive rather than proactive, so wait for girls to show their IL then pursue. I've been on the PUA community for awhile before SS, it was always advocated that we pursue and create attraction via many steps. The message here seems to be, we can't do that. We should just wait and see their IL and then go from there.

2) I understand high IL is where the girl makes it easy for you but based on your experiences, what are some concrete/specific signs of a girl having high IL in you.

3) How can we create high IL in girls? What has worked for you.

Apologies if the above seem foolish, I'm trying to understand this the best I can.

Appreciate it gents.

 

[Robert28]

This happens a lot unfortunately and 90% of all guys will hang in there feeding off her crumbs hoping she'll "come around" and realize what a great guy he is.

This just happened to me a couple weeks ago. Communicating with a girl from OLD (cesspool) maybe a HB7.5. Yellow flags early in the communication, then this (see pic). Texting then goes dark and circles back two days later and says "I forgot to hit Send", LOL. Sadly most men would buy it. Not me. Flaky Low or Med IL chick which isn't worth one minute of my valuable time. Note my reply: NO REPLY.

Jesus she talks weird lol

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Hey gents. Been reading through this thread. Great topic. I been thinking about it for awhile now too.

Just want to ask, might seem like a stupid questions:

1) does it mean that you should never chase and be reactive rather than proactive, so wait for girls to show their IL then pursue. I've been on the PUA community for awhile before SS, it was always advocated that we pursue and create attraction via many steps. The message here seems to be, we can't do that. We should just wait and see their IL and then go from there.

2) I understand high IL is where the girl makes it easy for you but based on your experiences, what are some concrete/specific signs of a girl having high IL in you.

3) How can we create high IL in girls? What has worked for you.

Apologies if the above seem foolish, I'm trying to understand this the best I can.

Appreciate it gents.

#3 answer is have other ladies that you're having sex with. It generates desire in others.

 

[DonJuanjr]

Don’t obsess over the things you cannot control because it’s a pure waste of time.

Exactly.