is it ok to go to a club alone?

[The Immortal]

can you meet girls if you go alone to a club or will the weird factor be too much?

 

[Dice52987]

http://www.sosuave.com/articles/friday.htm

Read that.

I will also say this. The thing that will determine the "weird factor" will be your attitude. If you look nervous about being alone, the ladies will pick up on this, label you a creep, and keep their distance. Go in there with the attitude of "I don't give a fvck what anyone thinks about me. I'm here to have fun." If people ask you why you're alone, just say something like "I'm waiting for my friends." Just make sure you're in there having fun, not caring, and doing the damn thing.

 

[seano99]

going to the club alone is great if you're in the right mindset as Dice52987 explained.

say you lost your friends, or that your mate and his girl went off arguing.

 

[Young Juan]

Yes.

You'll eventually find out its one of the best options if you don't know someone who is better or at least as equally good with women. The fact that your asking this question tells me that you'd be uncomfortable leading the pack, in which case, you'd pretty much be working on your own anyways. If you bring a wing with no game, it could be a crippler rather than a crutch and/or any help. If he's not down to take one for the team or can't entertain an ugg, than be sure he can at least be your designated driver.

Other thing about rolling solo: it gets you into the habit of being the leader and counting on yourself.

 

[marinetti]

When I go to clubs I tend to drift away from my friends, and so I end up looking like I'm alone when I talk to people.

Most guys who go to clubs, however, have that "I'm going to a club alone and I'm scared" vibe when they arrive. If you're 100% there to have a great time, then by all means, go for it. Anything less is tough though.

On the other hand, I'd ask, why go to a club if you're not there to 100% have fun? Guys to go to clubs just to pickup a girl reek of desperation.

 

[marinetti]

dupe, sorry

 

[Schwank]

I have to ask this: Why are you contemplating going to a club alone? I know you wrote "to meet girls", but why aren't you going with friends? As somebody wrote above, guys who go to clubs alone reek of desperation. It definately gives of a "sad-creeper" vibe. Therefore, I advise against it. Besides, going to clubs should be about getting drunk and having a good time with your buddies, and getting girls should be a by-product of that. (At least, that's how it has always been for me; I got laid the most when I was just out having fun, rather than being on the prowl.)

 

[mix_master]

Yes. No.

 

[J Roc]

Most guys that are scared to go to the club alone have no game. They need the comfort of their friends to have fun in that type of social setting. When I go to the club my goal is to meet as many females as i can. why would i need any friends for that? A real man creates his own social value and doesn't need any friends to co-sign. Peace

 

[r0cky]

You CAN get anything you want in life. You can go to the club by yourself with no clothes on and, provided they allow you in, get girls. All limitions are in your mind.