Is it normal to be a "pervert"?

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Just crossed my mind.

Is it normal to find things like, gangbangs, bukkakes, pissing, orgies, you know... porn, completely satifying to the eye and mind?

I've found that when I'm busy (I'm on a morning-off... this weeks morning work was cancelled), this **** doesn't even cross my mind.... So, my guess is that it is normal, but normal isn't what one should aspire to.... agree?
 

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There are worse perversions than the ones you described.

What about

1. Sh1t eating
2. Child rape
3. Mutilation
4. Non-consensual porn

Where do you draw the line?

A lot of the things people fantasise about, watch or even act out have their own appeal. Yet what happens when perversions and its promotion are destructive to self and others?
 

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Cuz im a scatman skevebabbebebabbebkiakbebabbebskippabobop
 

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Originally posted by SamePendo
Just crossed my mind.

Is it normal to find things like, gangbangs, bukkakes, pissing, orgies, you know... porn, completely satifying to the eye and mind?

I've found that when I'm busy (I'm on a morning-off... this weeks morning work was cancelled), this **** doesn't even cross my mind.... So, my guess is that it is normal, but normal isn't what one should aspire to.... agree?
The normal could be different from person to person so if gangbands, bukkakes, pissing and orgies are normal to you then youre not a pervet. However in the eyes of a prude you might be. For example i draw the line from the norm after orgies which i dont see anything wrong with, but after that i think pissing, and all the other stuff you mentioned is not normal for me anymore. So im a pervert to some people and im completly normal to other people. so to answer youre question i think is normal in your case.
 

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Talk about a deep psychological question. There's not going to be any easy answer, because each person has their own definition of what's "normal". A happily married, church going father of 3 might log on every night to masturbate to the things you've just described. That aside, he might seem normal to everyone he met... does that make him any less normal? There are tons of studies currently being conducted by reputable psychologists, psychiatrists, and universities regarding similiar lines of reasoning... much of the research is fascinating, I recommend you hop on google and start checking it out.
 

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Well everyone has their hidden "secrets". As long as it doesn't get dangerous or illegal...

Its like...when you catch someone masturbating, you think its gross, but you do the same at home anyway. People have more secrets and fetishes than you want to know.
 

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It all depends on the person. I draw the line at ******* (She's on the receiving end :D) and bondage.
 

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Bondage is stupid man.....when a woman is naturally dominant and ordering you around in bed it's a very sexy thing......But all that lame ass, "get on you knees" "bark like a dog" leather and dog coller crap, go bake me a a cake *****.

Most of the dominatrixes out there have not idea what they're doing either, cus they're women.
 

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Er....all those things seem weird to me, and I doubt I'd want to do them (I never have).

But whatever floats your boat man.

Just don't tell that to other people, especially if it's seriously frowned upon by society (rape, child molestation, sh|t-eating (I literally coughed and almost puked when I typed that!) ).

And if it's illegal or wrong (like it being against the other person's will), then for goodness sake don't actually carry it out!!



About domination or submission, I've never really thought about it much, but I think everyone is either one or the other, some more so than others (so someone can be dominant to one person, submissive to another). I'd definately be at the top, namely having to be dominant. Why? I don't like being told what to do, and I'm a man and men are the natural leaders. Plus, I'm an only child so I'm used to getting my way more often. I just can't imagine being submissive to anyone at all.

Now bondage is just plain wrong, because it opens the submissive one to all kinds of potential abuse.

Maybe I'm just sexually conservative but that's just what I think.


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I figure that if it's legal in the USA, then there are enough people that like it as much as you in order for it to be considered "normal".
 

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Well... is it ill to find these things sexually arousing?
 

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There are men whom shove several golf tees up or hundred of pins or needles through their penis. I have seen the X-rays. There are men whom shove vaccuum cleaners or white wine enemas up their rectum. (White wine enemas because any liquid inserted into the rectum will be instantly absorbed into the bloodstream. They get drunk and pass out.) There are men whom hang or drown themselves, or chemically asphyxiate themselves, and (hopefully) pull out right before death, because when the brain is cut off from oxygen it creates a euphoria stronger than conventional orgasm. (It was first discovered when people whom were executed by hanging were found to have erections, some to point of orgasm.) There are men whom allow hundreds of ants crawl around the genitalia. There are men whom love nothing more than for a woman to sit on or urinate on his face. There are men whom lay down and have a woman stand on him with high heel shoes. There are “crotch sniffers”, men whom sniff the crotches of unsuspecting women. There are men whom find seventy-year old women sexy. There are men whom intentionally injure themselves just so they can have a limb amputated, and conversely there are men whom find amputees sexy. There are men whom are stigmatophiliacs, men whom find burns, scars, tattoos, piercings on women to be erotic. There are men whom find women smokers sexy.

Weird shyt.

But the fact is that practically every single sexual act is condemned by someone else. I would love to find a culture which considers missionary style as deviant. We can not define; objectively, universally; what is abnormal and it is complicated to say what is normal behavior. There are four different standards that one could use to define behavior:

Cultural
The problem is that different cultures have different standards, and what about subcultures?

Statistical
The problem with statistics is that abnormal behaviors can be in the majority. Is divorce normal?

Religious
But people have different religions and there are atheists.

Subjective
The is the best for individual, you decide what is within or outside your standards, but the worst for social policy because there is no agreement.

pervert
Someone who does something outside of your personal standards.

Everyone is a pervert.
Sardaukar:
Where do you draw the line?

A lot of the things people fantasise about, watch or even act out have their own appeal. Yet what happens when perversions and its promotion are destructive to self and others?
We have freedom of thought but not freedom of action. If someone has a pedophilia fantasy—and bear in mind that the Greeks considered the highest form of love that being of a man having sex with a young boy—but never actually acted out his fantasy, there is nothing inherently wrong with that. We can think whatever we want. The line is crossed when other people are hurt.

The components of normal sex are fantasy, symbolism, ritualism, compulsion. The components of abnormal sex are fantasy, symbolism, ritualism, compulsion. The only difference between normal people and sex offenders is that for the sex offender their fantasies take over their life. Sex offenders are often found to be engaged simultaneously in four or more paraphilias, such as exhibitionism and voyuerism. It is progressive. They start with, say, exhibitionism but after awhile it doesn’t get them going, so they add something else, such as enemas.

Something as exhibitionism, voyeurism, or crotch sniffing unsuspecting women is considered by law enforcement as only a nuisance sex crime, because while it is a nuisance to the woman, she is not touched, she is not being harmed. When it comes to the point of spraying non-consenting women with semen, which does happen, the line has been crossed.
And mortuary sex.
Men whom are into necrophilia have a significant potential to be highly dangerous. While there are some whom work in funeral homes or as coroners, many murder. Ed Kemper, a serial killer in the 1970's, murdered his mother and then had sex with her.
 

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you guys dont think that **** is normal??? hahaha

what about fvcking fetishes, there something for you.

i know this dude who has some fvcking nipple fetish, and he told me someone he knew who had a foot fetish.
 
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