Is it just me or are bjs overrated?

[speakeasy]

Though I have yet to experience vaginal sex without a condom.

Ohhh...just wait till you feel that vagina raw, dude. 10x better than a blow. There are some great condoms out there, but none of them will let you feel the wetness and warmth and every little ridge inside her the way it feels raw.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Anybody else ever think how much better life would be if STD's didn't exist and either women could be trusted with birth control or there was a male pill?

 

[Taviii]

1. Anal
2. BJ
3. Pvssy

That's my 2 cents...

 

[speakeasy]

Anybody else ever think how much better life would be if STD's didn't exist and either women could be trusted with birth control or there was a male pill?

Like this one comedian used to say, back when he was growing up, safe sex meant a padded headboard.

 

[speakeasy]

1. Anal
2. BJ
3. Pvssy

That's my 2 cents...

Interesting. Why is anal number 1? I've never asked a girl for it and not sure I'd want to. But some dudes swear by it and it's the one guaranteed way to enter her and not get her pregnant. But what about the smell? Wouldn't you have sh-t on your condom, or your c-ck? Or it would at least smell like it I would think. Naaasty to me. I just think, hell no...poop comes out of there. The ass just wasn't designed to be pounded. Sodomy....nope not for me.

 

[Taviii]

Interesting. Why is anal number 1? I've never asked a girl for it and not sure I'd want to. But some dudes swear by it and it's the one guaranteed way to enter her and not get her pregnant. But what about the smell? Wouldn't you have sh-t on your condom, or your c-ck? Or it would at least smell like it I would think. Naaasty to me. I just think, hell no...poop comes out of there.

It's probably just the thought that it's something most people don't do and sodomy is very wrong that makes it so exciting and thrilling, at least to me. Also thinking that it hurts the girl but she does it anyway for the pleasure you get from it that makes me very very horny!

 

[lordson]

i would say bareback sex is much better than a bj, because they are similiar in feeling, but sex is just better

but bj's are definately better than condomed sex

 

[SmoothTalker]

Yeah to be honest I have to question anal being number one..

Tried it once.. Didn't encounter any issues so can't really complain about that, but in terms of physical sensation I wouldn't say its any better than normal sex, and definitely takes much more effort/preperation. Not to mention actually getting a girl to do it? Luckily mine was curious but I imagine for most cases it would be quite the struggle.

I guess people like it for psychological reasons like you mentioned, but didn't really do too much for me.

 

[Wired for Sound]

Anybody else ever think how much better life would be if STD's didn't exist and either women could be trusted with birth control or there was a male pill?

A male pill...somebody really needs to get on that. That thing would make whoever patents it very, very, very rich.

 

[SmoothTalker]

I'm not sure on its current status but you can probably google it, there are several potential drugs in the works, some have already been tested.

The problem is that it will be much harder on guys. Women naturally have a state in which they cannot get pregnant (when they are already pregnant), so all the pill has to do is convince her body its in that state.

Guys have no such condition. From what I remember the best they can do right now is a pill that will make you temporarily sterile, but it does so by basically shutting down your testicles. Of course this kills testosterone production to so you need hormone replacement while you're taking this pill.

At that rate you're better of getting a vasectomy and having it reversed later.

 

[Caferacer]

Interesting. Why is anal number 1? I've never asked a girl for it and not sure I'd want to. But some dudes swear by it and it's the one guaranteed way to enter her and not get her pregnant. But what about the smell? Wouldn't you have sh-t on your condom, or your c-ck? Or it would at least smell like it I would think. Naaasty to me. I just think, hell no...poop comes out of there. The ass just wasn't designed to be pounded. Sodomy....nope not for me.

1) it's tighter
2) you can't get her pregnant
3) because it's there
4) because it's there and you shouldn't be doing it

My ex used to love doing it, and then joke about how she had to walk funny the next day.

I've never had a **** **** or anything, but we always used to do it in the shower. I've heard the horror stories of how the girl ended up ****ting on the guy accidentally, but never had a problem

 

[oakraiderz2]

Ohhh...just wait till you feel that vagina raw, dude. 10x better than a blow. There are some great condoms out there, but none of them will let you feel the wetness and warmth and every little ridge inside her the way it feels raw.

Hahahah preach.

 

[SmoothTalker]

Indeed.

But just to restate, while it is awesome, don't be stupid about it. Its not worth becoming a daddy or getting an STD just to experience condomless sex. If you're not in an appropriate situation now, wait.

 

[lordson]

At that rate you're better of getting a vasectomy and having it reversed later.

i'm a med student

vasectomies are permanent

any reversal operations have a 50% chance of working

 

[SmoothTalker]

Alright, but artificial insemination is getting pretty good nowadays also.

If you banked like 20 samples before getting it done, between those and a possible reversal, wouldn't you be pretty safe?

 

[lordson]

thinking about a vesectomy are you?

you're doctor will explain it to you, i thought id better post that up so people dont get misconceptions about it

and i did not understand your question whatsoever. after a vesectomy, it is recommended that you have 10 ejaculations before it is safe to resume unprotected sex

 

[SmoothTalker]

No I'm not thinking of one. At this point I still think I'm a bit too young and besides I don't sleep around much and hard as it may be for some members to believe, I do trust the women I sleep with to not screw me over. There'd be no point to them doing so anyway, I am currently a completely broke student.


What I meant by my question was regarding what you said about them not being reversible. I was saying a guy that hasn't had kids yet who was considering a vasectomy could collect a dozen sperm samples and freeze them before getting it done, so that if later reversing it fails, he can still have kids using the saved sperm.

 

[Colossus]

I always hear my buddies talk about how bjs are the thing they want most, or how the media portays bjs as "the thing" the be all end all sexual encounter. However from the ones ive had I found them to be very overrated, and as much as Im hesitant to say it, Id almost rather go down on her. Am I the only one?

Yes, you are the only one. Or maybe you have just gotten terrible head. Sometimes I would rather get blown than have sex. I mean, vaginas ARE different. Some of them are just not pretty and dont really feel that great on the inside. I'm not saying I would turn down sex, but a girl who can give a good bj is worth her weight in gold.

Never tried the butt, though. Not sure I'd want to.

 

[Bible_Belt]

fwiw, an 'assgasm' is about the strongest orgasm a woman can have. After you get the mechanics of anal sex worked out...oil-based lube, fingers, and patience...get your girl to masturbate herself to orgasm while you are doing her ass. There will be screaming, and she will love it. When done correctly, anal sex is more of a treat for the woman than the man.

 

[backbreaker]

if anything bj's are underrated. i could get by without sex for the rest of my life if i could just get Bj's