Just when you think you've shaken that nice guy monkey from your back, some chick(s) comes along and reminds you that you aren't cured.
A few weeks ago I went to pay my rent at the leasing office, where several chicas work. I talk to them all briefly from time to time, but nothing to the point where they could really formulate an opinon about me. I hand one of the girls the check and made some kind of comment to which she replies, "You're so nice!" with the long, drawn out, sickening pronunciation of the word "nice".
Then a week or so later I met a chick at a club. She was stuck to me like glue, complimenting me, showing her amazement of the fact that I am single, fondling my ass, you name it. Then I see her the next week, pretty much the same situation except this time she has to drop the "NG" bomb. Ugh.
So last night we run into some girls we met the week before. My buddy opened them by saying something stupid, I don't remember what. For some reason he is on this "say whatever" kick. So he is basically acting like an ass around them. Didn't stop them from hanging out with him, but they kept telling me "We don't like him, we like you, you're a nice guy". (puke) They kept saying they think he's a player, blah, blah.
Both times I heard this in the club the girls were saying this but at the same time they were grinding their asses all over my D. They were obviously attracted to me. It's not like I was hearing it from a girl I've spent the last six months trying to get with.
So, I know being called nice isn't a good thing, but in situations such as above where they are drawing their conclusions on limited interactions, is the dreaded NG label not such an insult?
I mean, it isn't like I've built up a reputation for kissing up to these women by buying them drinks and crap. Hell, if I wrote every word I've ever spoken to all three combined it probably wouldn't be half as long as this post. So what gives?
A few weeks ago I went to pay my rent at the leasing office, where several chicas work. I talk to them all briefly from time to time, but nothing to the point where they could really formulate an opinon about me. I hand one of the girls the check and made some kind of comment to which she replies, "You're so nice!" with the long, drawn out, sickening pronunciation of the word "nice".
Then a week or so later I met a chick at a club. She was stuck to me like glue, complimenting me, showing her amazement of the fact that I am single, fondling my ass, you name it. Then I see her the next week, pretty much the same situation except this time she has to drop the "NG" bomb. Ugh.
So last night we run into some girls we met the week before. My buddy opened them by saying something stupid, I don't remember what. For some reason he is on this "say whatever" kick. So he is basically acting like an ass around them. Didn't stop them from hanging out with him, but they kept telling me "We don't like him, we like you, you're a nice guy". (puke) They kept saying they think he's a player, blah, blah.
Both times I heard this in the club the girls were saying this but at the same time they were grinding their asses all over my D. They were obviously attracted to me. It's not like I was hearing it from a girl I've spent the last six months trying to get with.
So, I know being called nice isn't a good thing, but in situations such as above where they are drawing their conclusions on limited interactions, is the dreaded NG label not such an insult?
I mean, it isn't like I've built up a reputation for kissing up to these women by buying them drinks and crap. Hell, if I wrote every word I've ever spoken to all three combined it probably wouldn't be half as long as this post. So what gives?
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