Is it ever gonna change?

[BxPrince24]

Damn man, I'm really down on the game right now. It seems like whenever I start to get somewhere with a girl, I always get ****ted on. 20 years old now and nothing's changed. I know I look good, my gear stays fresh, but I don't know. I think my whole game needs tweaking cause I ain't gettin to where I need to be. The last ***** I tried hookin up with ****ted on me this week, though from the signs I shoulda dropped her from the get. I've been talkin 2 her for 3 weeks now, my friend put me on. He gave me her screen name and I got to talkin 2 her and copped her number. I set up a date for saturday, the whole week we've been on the phone for like at least 2-3 hours a day, and i'm just crackin jokes makin her laugh and finding out more about her, pretty much gettin her comfortable enough to go out with me. Saturday comes, but the date doesn't happen. She claims that she was scared to meet me by herself cause she didn't know me that well, I was like aight, cool I understand.

We keep talkin and we finally meet during the 2nd week. Within 10 minutes, we were making out. She had me meet her at a library so I couldn't raise the bar on that. She's 17 by the way. So after that I set a day for her to come chill with me at my crib, the day comes n goes, n we still talkin long on the phone. I confronted her with that, she claimed she forgot, I got into a little argument about it and was ready to dead her but my nigga told me to stick with it just to hit it. I said aight. Anyhow, I knew that she went out with one of my dudes and broke up with him when she started talkin 2 me, I saw him today and he tells me that they got back together last week and they ****ed on friday, dude had pics and all. And that **** just made me mad as ****, not at him but at her just for the bull****. I told her 2 be real with me n she couldn't do that, n now she just adds to the number of chicks that I've been unsuccessful with.

My friend was like that's why you talk to multiple girls at one time so if one falls off you still got others... but unlike him, I don't have multiple girls. The only time I even get to talk 2 chicks I don't know is on myspace and it usually stays there.... on myspace. I'm just tired of everything... Just feel like giving up and continue living my life.

 

[ligyron]

Just feel like giving up and continue living my life.

bingo. you're putting girls at your highest priority. get your life straightened out first, and the girls will come after you afterwards

also, is it even legal for 20 to be having sex with 17?

 

[BxPrince24]

bingo. you're putting girls at your highest priority. get your life straightened out first, and the girls will come after you afterwards

also, is it even legal for 20 to be having sex with 17?

I head that it is... either way, i only go as low as 3 years below my age. In the hood ain't nobody really worrying about that anyhow... i've seen my friend when she was 15 go out with 20 year olds.. it's whatever out here...

I realised where I f*cked up on this one though, I spent too much time with her on the phone before even gettin the bunz. It decreased my value in her eyes I guess by me talking to her for hours on end every day like I had nothing better to do. I got caught up and i'm taking it as a lesson learned.

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Are you meeting these women in real life or just through the internet? Cause if you just gaming girls over the internet they don't know how you really are in person. Which, is why they would be nervous or not confortable meeting you alone. Goes to show that most girls you meet on the internet are flakes, hors, attention hors and or c@ck teases; 90% of the time... Cause if you approached this woman in person she would be interested or not interested. Judging by how you act and your personality. So, without getting into too much sh!t not, knowing ur current situation. Again, are you meeting these girls in real life or through the computer?

 

[Obsidian]

the whole week we've been on the phone for like at least 2-3 hours a day

Mistako numero uno. Girls chat on the phone, not men.

the date doesn't happen. She claims that she was scared to meet me by herself cause she didn't know me that well

Bullsh1t. If you've been talking to her on the phone for 4-9 hours throughout the week, she probably knows you better than your own mother does!

I set a day for her to come chill with me at my crib, the day comes n goes....I confronted her with that...and was ready to dead her but my nigga told me to stick with it just to hit it. I said aight

Mistake #3 -- You're supposed to NEXT chicks who flake on you.

Man, three errors, you just struck out. But rest at ease! Read the following ten links in sequential order, and all of your problems will be solved!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363

 

[BxPrince24]

Are you meeting these women in real life or just through the internet? Cause if you just gaming girls over the internet they don't know how you really are in person. Which, is why they would be nervous or not confortable meeting you alone. Goes to show that most girls you meet on the internet are flakes, hors, attention hors and or c@ck teases; 90% of the time... Cause if you approached this woman in person she would be interested or not interested. Judging by how you act and your personality. So, without getting into too much sh!t not, knowing ur current situation. Again, are you meeting these girls in real life or through the computer?

In this particular situation, I started talking to her on the computer, not through one of them sites though. My friend put me on to her and gave me her screen name, then i went from that to gettin her number and talking on the phone. I definately understand now after doing some reworking of my game... 90% of all communication is NON-VERBAL so 90% of verbal communication is bullsh*t and not sufficient enought to make a girl more interested in you.

 

[BxPrince24]

Mistako numero uno. Girls chat on the phone, not men.




Bullsh1t. If you've been talking to her on the phone for 4-9 hours throughout the week, she probably knows you better than your own mother does!




Mistake #3 -- You're supposed to NEXT chicks who flake on you.

Man, three errors, you just struck out. But rest at ease! Read the following ten links in sequential order, and all of your problems will be solved!

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39729
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39769
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39785
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39887
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=39888
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40188
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40241
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40347
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=40698
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=58363

Yea, I totally understand where I've gone wrong after I reviewed the whole situation. I started listening to some podcasts and it's really hitting me with some smart knowledge, helping me disect and rebuild my game into something greater than what it was. I'm still gonna check out those threads. thanks for the advice.

 

[MrStabAHo]

Damn homie don't you go to Temple???

Anyways, don't get whooped on just 1 chick... You gotta find more. I know thats easier said than done but you gotta keep gettin out there meeting new chicks.

She's still in high school too. These lil girls is on games. They some lil head hunters. They'll have you thinkin your the only guy they messin with, when in fact they prolly got 10 dudes they messin with. Find you a nice lil old head to mess with. Once again easier said than done.

 

[BxPrince24]

Damn homie don't you go to Temple???

Anyways, don't get whooped on just 1 chick... You gotta find more. I know thats easier said than done but you gotta keep gettin out there meeting new chicks.

She's still in high school too. These lil girls is on games. They some lil head hunters. They'll have you thinkin your the only guy they messin with, when in fact they prolly got 10 dudes they messin with. Find you a nice lil old head to mess with. Once again easier said than done.

lol, i'm tryin dude... Like today, my agenda was to meet some new girls. tell me how me and my n*gga walked about 10 blocks back and forth, and it's a main block, white plains rd for those who're in the bronx, and I only saw 1 chick that I could talk to, and when i tried she ain't even stop which is the norm out here. I mostly saw 14-16 year old girls today, and I can't get with that. I'm hittin the streets again tomorrow, hopefully have better luck than i had today.

 

[young_gun]

Don't get so caught up on high school girls. You don't know what the F*ck they want any more than they do.

 

[MrStabAHo]

lol, i'm tryin dude... Like today, my agenda was to meet some new girls. tell me how me and my n*gga walked about 10 blocks back and forth, and it's a main block, white plains rd for those who're in the bronx, and I only saw 1 chick that I could talk to, and when i tried she ain't even stop which is the norm out here. I mostly saw 14-16 year old girls today, and I can't get with that. I'm hittin the streets again tomorrow, hopefully have better luck than i had today.

Yea its pretty hard to game chicks in the city unless you drive a nice car or something(Gold diggers)... Those chicks are very defensive because of all the nut jobs around. Probably the hardest chicks to game. Damn you in the bronx though??? I bet you see hella cute boriquas.

The only places I can suggest is the library or the park... Other than that you on ya own. Keep tryin G.

I have a habit of getting comfortable with a chick just because she shows me high interest, and I'll end up falling off with the rest of the gals I try to get at. And then something will happen with that girl and i'll end up with no girls in my starting five rotation... In other words, don't get too comfortable with just 1 chick.

 

[Snow Plowman]

Thats BS, your probably being real picky. Also you might need to practice more.

Few things I noticed
- You take too long to pull the trigger (3 weeks!?)
- Spend too much time on the phone, don't you got a life? You can't give 3 hours to some chick on the phone. If she want that much time with you then she betta meet up and see you in person.
- Your worrying about one specific girl (Get out there and talk to many girls so you can have many options)

If you really having problems finding chicks then you need to travel to other areas. The train can take you to many places.

 

[Someone Much cooler]

actually i live in the suburbs right now and i have more success gaming girls in the city. In the suburbs im kinda a minority, in the city i'm the same as everyone else, but a little more intellegent. your prolly doin it wrong. Son dig it do this, if you in the bronx meet em on the subway. think about it, you can sit down talk, be quite and then move on to the next. just be real chill and reall cool. You can't do it the same as every other dude in the city tho. check out my thread

http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?p=1222854#post1222854

 

[BxPrince24]

Thats BS, your probably being real picky. Also you might need to practice more.

Few things I noticed
- You take too long to pull the trigger (3 weeks!?)
- Spend too much time on the phone, don't you got a life? You can't give 3 hours to some chick on the phone. If she want that much time with you then she betta meet up and see you in person.
- Your worrying about one specific girl (Get out there and talk to many girls so you can have many options)

If you really having problems finding chicks then you need to travel to other areas. The train can take you to many places.

In all 3 points you're right. cut i'm really chopping up my game right now and working hard to perfect it.

I never really liked tryina talk 2 chicks on the train and since I don't take the train I don't. I don't have a job at the moment, I had an interview friday, I'm hoping i get it cause the pay is more than great, I wont find out till next week. I mean I may have to soon.

Other than that man, I got about 5 potentials right now: My ex, an old friend that I just ran into last night (She was all over me and very flirtacious), 2 of my friend's friends, and this 1 chick that I've been talkin to on myspace (goes to college with a friend of mines and they're good friends). I'm just using them to test out all the knowledge i've been learning over the past 3 nights and see if I turn up successful with my tries.