Peter the Man
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I am new to online dating and dating in general, have been lurking here a while. I am actually looking for a long term partner. I am not looking to sleep with someone I am not interested in for longer term. I met a girl off Tinder last weekend (Saturday).
Date was fine, not too bad from my point of view. Was one of my first real dates ever and I did like her because she did tick all my boxes. We spent 4 hours together at 3 different locations. I touched her throughout the date but at one point tried to kiss her, she didn't want me to.
After the date I got home and sent her my number and left it at that.
The next day (Sunday) she texted me to say it was fun for her. Later that day I texted her back and asked her out again for Thursday.
Then it took her over one day (30+ hours) to reply in the middle of the night at 3 am to tell me that it was fun and that she would really like to go out again but that she is too busy this week because of a family visit. No counter offer.
Then she asked me how the rest of my weekend was.
Is it even worth replying to this question? Seems like very low to zero interest based on her reaction. I wonder why she texted me in the first place, since I said "here is my number, text me if you want us to make other plans". Why get in touch when you're not interested?
I don't want to be rude and just ghost but I feel like I should. The other option would be to just say "Good" or "Okay". It has already been almost two days since her text and I learned that when in doubt to do nothing. I guess it wouldn't matter anyway considering she seems to not care. I have wasted enough time on her already.
What would you do in this situation? Text something back to reply to her question? Wait a few days? Just ghost and delete?
Date was fine, not too bad from my point of view. Was one of my first real dates ever and I did like her because she did tick all my boxes. We spent 4 hours together at 3 different locations. I touched her throughout the date but at one point tried to kiss her, she didn't want me to.
After the date I got home and sent her my number and left it at that.
The next day (Sunday) she texted me to say it was fun for her. Later that day I texted her back and asked her out again for Thursday.
Then it took her over one day (30+ hours) to reply in the middle of the night at 3 am to tell me that it was fun and that she would really like to go out again but that she is too busy this week because of a family visit. No counter offer.
Then she asked me how the rest of my weekend was.
Is it even worth replying to this question? Seems like very low to zero interest based on her reaction. I wonder why she texted me in the first place, since I said "here is my number, text me if you want us to make other plans". Why get in touch when you're not interested?
I don't want to be rude and just ghost but I feel like I should. The other option would be to just say "Good" or "Okay". It has already been almost two days since her text and I learned that when in doubt to do nothing. I guess it wouldn't matter anyway considering she seems to not care. I have wasted enough time on her already.
What would you do in this situation? Text something back to reply to her question? Wait a few days? Just ghost and delete?