GQ_Confidence_1
Don Juan
- Joined
- Oct 22, 2005
- Messages
- 161
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Interesting night last night 
I went out by myself, with no intention of doing anything. Went to an arcade, played Street Fighter II (after getting Street Fighter 4 the other day, wanted to compare it). I'm doing absolutely nothing, wandering around an outdoor type mall.
I sit down on a bench, and maybe 5 minutes later, this black girl sits down next to me. She says something casual like, "I guess I'll join you". We casually talk, and she mentions, she wants to meet new people. She gives massive ioi's in the first 5 minutes, asking me questions, touching my knee a couple times, laughs at everything I says, even if it isn't funny. It didn't come across as fake or stilted, but in synch with anything I did.
Haha...I was mentally running down a list of the kind of things you'd see on this site, those text book ioi's. All these guys read about ioi's, and she's doing 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Yeah, she's doing that, that and that.
She mentions a couple times...let's hang out. I guess instant mini date, right there??
And there's tons of people around, tons of other guys.
This is all in the first 7-10 minutes, very quick.
I'm thinking at this point.....ummmmm, what would happen if we hung (of course saying that in my head). Honestly, how many girls have wanted to "hang out" with you, and they dont even know your name. She never asked for my name, I never gave it.
-I didnt ask for her number.
-Didnt tell her my name.
-Didnt tell her what I did for a living.
Maybe the cool approached really worked for her and suprised her. I played it extremely casual...talking about video games, housing prices, the stores there (gap), anything.
Finally, she wants to get something to eat, and she gets up from the bench and leaves. But not before one last kino (touching my knee...."come on...lets keep in touch"). Then she hands me her card, with her name and number. Said she was in "sales".
So, I look her up online last night, turns out she's a stripper, vegas escort, exotic dancer, dominatrix. Haha. Is this the new way to meet potential clients? I guess a hard up college student looking for money. Or a stripper who in her off time, wanted to really hang out?
I think what would have happened if we had "hung out" is she would have strung me a long, sort of dangling the carrot until I paid up...her myspace page says her number one interest is money. She seemed like a cool girl...she wasnt totally whacked like some strippers/escorts. Didnt seem to have any huge issues, wasnt pyscho or crazy, or some obvious issue.
-But I dont want to get involved with a vegas escort (you can imagine what they've seen). Too nasty and dirty.
-And her real life story didnt mesh with her online persona. I wonder how many other guys she approached, how many bite, ("flirty personality" online, yep).
That was in the back of my mind, thinking whether we should "hang out".
I'm sort of out of the whole sarge/sosuave world for now, other things going on and other focuses. Wasnt thinking of game or anything. But we had really good rapport for 10 minutes, for talking about nothing.
Is it a common way for strippers/escorts/"models" to meet people? And it wasnt in a bar/nightclub scene, just out in public, 4-5 pm. Seemed way out of left field in the daytime.
The lesson....it might be terrible/devestating for beginners/newbies just getting practice. This hot girl wants to "hang out"...what a let down when you find out shes a stripper/escort looking for a "fine gentleman".
And the funny part...none of it was canned, none of it seemed rehearsed. Seemed normal, but not really.
I went out by myself, with no intention of doing anything. Went to an arcade, played Street Fighter II (after getting Street Fighter 4 the other day, wanted to compare it). I'm doing absolutely nothing, wandering around an outdoor type mall.
I sit down on a bench, and maybe 5 minutes later, this black girl sits down next to me. She says something casual like, "I guess I'll join you". We casually talk, and she mentions, she wants to meet new people. She gives massive ioi's in the first 5 minutes, asking me questions, touching my knee a couple times, laughs at everything I says, even if it isn't funny. It didn't come across as fake or stilted, but in synch with anything I did.
Haha...I was mentally running down a list of the kind of things you'd see on this site, those text book ioi's. All these guys read about ioi's, and she's doing 1, 2, 3, 4, 5. Yeah, she's doing that, that and that.
She mentions a couple times...let's hang out. I guess instant mini date, right there??
And there's tons of people around, tons of other guys.
This is all in the first 7-10 minutes, very quick.
I'm thinking at this point.....ummmmm, what would happen if we hung (of course saying that in my head). Honestly, how many girls have wanted to "hang out" with you, and they dont even know your name. She never asked for my name, I never gave it.
-I didnt ask for her number.
-Didnt tell her my name.
-Didnt tell her what I did for a living.
Maybe the cool approached really worked for her and suprised her. I played it extremely casual...talking about video games, housing prices, the stores there (gap), anything.
Finally, she wants to get something to eat, and she gets up from the bench and leaves. But not before one last kino (touching my knee...."come on...lets keep in touch"). Then she hands me her card, with her name and number. Said she was in "sales".
So, I look her up online last night, turns out she's a stripper, vegas escort, exotic dancer, dominatrix. Haha. Is this the new way to meet potential clients? I guess a hard up college student looking for money. Or a stripper who in her off time, wanted to really hang out?
I think what would have happened if we had "hung out" is she would have strung me a long, sort of dangling the carrot until I paid up...her myspace page says her number one interest is money. She seemed like a cool girl...she wasnt totally whacked like some strippers/escorts. Didnt seem to have any huge issues, wasnt pyscho or crazy, or some obvious issue.
-But I dont want to get involved with a vegas escort (you can imagine what they've seen). Too nasty and dirty.
-And her real life story didnt mesh with her online persona. I wonder how many other guys she approached, how many bite, ("flirty personality" online, yep).
That was in the back of my mind, thinking whether we should "hang out".
I'm sort of out of the whole sarge/sosuave world for now, other things going on and other focuses. Wasnt thinking of game or anything. But we had really good rapport for 10 minutes, for talking about nothing.
Is it a common way for strippers/escorts/"models" to meet people? And it wasnt in a bar/nightclub scene, just out in public, 4-5 pm. Seemed way out of left field in the daytime.
The lesson....it might be terrible/devestating for beginners/newbies just getting practice. This hot girl wants to "hang out"...what a let down when you find out shes a stripper/escort looking for a "fine gentleman".
And the funny part...none of it was canned, none of it seemed rehearsed. Seemed normal, but not really.
