I'll throw a few things out in no particular order or importance.....
If you're a guy, nothing beats having a kick a$$ garage for your cars, motorcycles, tools, punching bags, etc..........hard to get a great garage in an apartment setting
Apartments do give you a flexibility in terms of being able to move on shorter notice
Neighbors can be a huge factor in apartments........you can luck out, or be stuck between the serial killer on one side, the partying teenages on the other side, the old lady who plays her tv too loud above you, and the downstairs neighbor who thinks you're being too loud
At the end of the day, it's the place you live in, and you should be able to make the place that you live in the place that YOU want to live in......If someone else owns it, then you are restricted in many ways
If you buy a place in an HOA community, then it can be both a blessing and a curse.....HOA's make everyone play by the rules for the good of all........kind of like a police dept against neighbors who can downgrade a community, but if some Aholes get on the board of directors, then they can get power trips and become a pain in the a$$..........luckily, you can vote them out in a year...
Before I bought my large 3 bedroom, 2 bath, 2 car garage condo, I lived in an apartment for 8 years. In terms of apts, it was awesome.......everything was great.......One day I was talking to the managers, and the owner happened to be there....Who was the owner? This young guy whose wealthy parents had bought him the apt complex as a graduation present from college! Anyway, he said something really arrogant towards me, and even though the apt situation was great, I decided that there was no way I would continue making this arrogant, spoiled rich kid any richer, so I took advantage of the dip in the California housing market that was happening at the time and bought my place. I love my home. I tell people that even if I won the lottery, i still wouldn't move...that's how much I love it....
Home repairs can get expensive really quick...being handy, or having friends that are really helps...........
Oh. the bachelor thing ?........I know for a fact that my place is a panty dropper....I think women think I am rich when they see it because of its location and it being so nice inside......