is it bad to move too fast? Girl claims I did..

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Last night, around 8 I was out and my friend called me saying he was with his girlfriend and that her cousin wants to hang out with me, that he showed her a pic of me from facebook. I was like fk it im down, but I was busy so I said i would later. He texted me his girls address and said to meet there at 9:30. I was like ok cool, I got home at 9 and started getting ready. I called him and he said we were gonna swim in her pool and to bring trunks. So i get ready and he calls me back at 9:31, as I was leaving, to tell me she was leaving but she wanted to hang out another time. In my head I was like wow gay, so I replied " idk about next time, ill think about it." I hung up and then at 9:45 he called me back, saying she was going to stay and to come through.

I got to her house and they were waiting for me before they started swimming. I took off my shirt and pants since i had my trunks underneath. I went to the corner of the pool with them and she told me to sit next to her so i did and we started talking. I didnt talk to her much because I wasnt THAT into her and I really didnt have anything to say to her at that point lol. We got in the pool and we swam for a bit and then I sat down in the step in the deep end, which is still underwater. The girl sat down next to me and I put my arm around her waist and started touching her thigh and talking to her a bit. She touched my thigh a couple times too. Then i started touching her stomach then I moved to her boobs. I was touching them underwater and i was like behind her with my arm around her and I noticed she was squeezing my arm in place with hers lol. So i thought ok she wants me to keep going. She moved closer to me, with like her head on my chest ( im pretty built, i have a 6 pack and pretty good pecs) , and I put my other arm around her so i was kind of hugging her from behind, with my hands on her boobs lol and she was keeping my arms in place by squeezing her arms. I felt her up for a little while doing this.

I was thinking, ok this girl wants me so I should escalate. I was just about to move in on her ***** when this other guy ( my friend's girl's neighbor ) came out. Then we got out of the pool and this girl had to leave.

My friend dropped her off with his girl since they lived far. The next day I asked him what she thought about me. He said she said that she thought I only wanted to have sex and that I should have conversated more. I told him that she was responding to my advances and didnt stop me, if she did I definitely would have. He said she told him different... wtf? lol

Im gonna ask him what she said just so I know where I went wrong. He said she was still down to hang out next time. I would be down to have this girl as a plate, I dont really care about seeing her again, Im just glad I learned something new lol.

I think back and when i first went she seemed like she was totally down to fk but when we started talking and she asked me what school i went to and what I did, and I told her I Go to UCLA for bio and Im a chemistry tutor, it seemed like she wanted to take things slower. I think she first saw me as a lover when she saw me but then decided she wanted me as a provider when she realized I had value.
 

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Dude, you owned that **** and then dropped the ball a little, get her number ring her tell her she's awesome and ask when she's free to get together, go do something fun, few different places and it's in the bag - be the guy in the pool

She's not going to tell anyone she was ready to **** ya, jeezus dude reality check - but she clearly wanted ya, so make it happen.

And stop discussing your conquests with ya mates who know the person, they don't need to know **** and there's a chance this guy could screw it up with what you've already spoken to him about, keep ya mouth shut.

ya did well overall so +1
 

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nemz said:
Dude, you owned that **** and then dropped the ball a little, get her number ring her tell her she's awesome and ask when she's free to get together, go do something fun, few different places and it's in the bag - be the guy in the pool

She's not going to tell anyone she was ready to **** ya, jeezus dude reality check - but she clearly wanted ya, so make it happen.

And stop discussing your conquests with ya mates who know the person, they don't need to know **** and there's a chance this guy could screw it up with what you've already spoken to him about, keep ya mouth shut.

ya did well overall so +1
haha thanks dude! I thought i messed up. When my friend first called me, his phone was running out so she offered to call me with her phone so I have her number. That was last night so maybe tonight ill text her letting her know shes awesome.

And dont worry my friend is cool. Hes my wingman haha, ive known him since highschool. Our plan was to **** them haha.
 

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Don't worry bout it, ya did good, hope you can see how it'd look if he's asking her questions like that, just go for it.

Like CW says, 2-3 texts and arrange that date, then go do your stuff - it'll drive her nuts, don't become her text buddy until you're more familiar and she initiates the conversations.
 
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