Is it bad that Don Juan is my motivation?

nicksaiz65

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Becoming a Don Juan in all aspects of life, especially the self improvement, is what motivates me now lol. Like when I want to skip class or skip the gym or not study, I hear a voice in my head that says “I guess you must not want to be a Don Juan.” And then I get to it. I’ve been more motivated than ever. I feel like no one can compete with a master Don Juan. Is it bad that Don Juan has become my motivation for my whole life basically?
 

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Sounds like it's motivating you in a positive direction. Better to be motivated than unmotivated, no matter what the reasons.
 

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Nothing wrong with wanting to be awesome!!!

Once you become awesome, don't stop there! The name of the game is continual or perpetual progress!

Do not rest on your laurels!
 

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In my opinion a Don Juan never seeks outside validation for being a Don Juan.

If it's working then keep doing it with ZERO regard for others' opinions or approval. You don't need them to OK your reasoning.

FYI women are what primarily motivate me to look and feel lean and muscular. I'm not convinced I would spend any time hitting the gym and eating clean if it weren't for women. Many disagree with my reasoning but I don't care and I don't need their approval.
Makes sense. The motivation doesn’t really matter if you’re out there being awesome
 

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In my opinion a Don Juan never seeks outside validation for being a Don Juan.

If it's working then keep doing it with ZERO regard for others' opinions or approval. You don't need them to OK your reasoning.

FYI women are what primarily motivate me to look and feel lean and muscular. I'm not convinced I would spend any time hitting the gym and eating clean if it weren't for women. Many disagree with my reasoning but I don't care and I don't need their approval.
I must admit I walk (exercise) primarily because of sex (stamina) ...it get's my blood flowing and the results are noticeable..
 
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