Is it a turn-off for women if a guy doesn't drink?

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I don't think it turns them off, but you have to realize that if a woman wants to go out to be fvcked most likely she will be going to a club, party or bar and at all 3 lots of alcohol is present. Not saying you can't fvck a woman you met from somewhere else but its easier when you are drunk and she is drunk and there are less inhibitions on both sides.
 

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Because i am a recovered drug addict i spent about 3 and a half years in AA before i dropped AA for reasons i wasn't get into in this thread. Still clean, just don't do the AA thing anymore.

Drinking never was my big or real issue. even when using drugs i didn't really drink. I mean i drink but it's not a big deal to me it's not my tick.

however when I was in AA, you have to be clean of all mind altering substances including alcohol so i did not have a drop of anything to drink when i was 22 to when i was 26. no beer, no wine cooler nothing.

not only did i not have a problem with it, this was easily the height of my plate spinning activities, at least from 22 to 25 was.

If you have to have alcohol to make you exciting you have a bigger question to ask yourself then should i or should i not drink. and i still went to clubs i still went out i still did everyhting my drinking friends did i just did not drink.

if a girl asked me why i don't drink i just tell them i don't. if they ask why i tell them none of their god damn business and stop asking so many god damn questions. if i didn't want to make a scene of it i would just order a virgin Strawberry daquari or if i am in a club i would get a giner ale which looks like alcohol but is not.

hell i even kept liquor in my house for company when i had it.

it's a non issue. i have never in my life had a woman tell me i suck because i don't drink. and those same girls that are telling you to "cut lose and have fun".. seriously? you want to know how i know you are a skank *****....

have some respect. i drink now but i don't drink a lot. the last drink i had was maybe 3 weeks ago at dinner. but if do not do something just beucas you think it will give you an in with the opposite sex. rather it be drinking or going to a certain place or wearing a certain thing.

also i don't know where all these women who find not drinking a turn off are. i've ran through quite a big of women and i mean, i've had women curious, but i h ave never had someone say it was a turn off

that's like saying a woman finds it a turn off that you don't smoke. that's just retarded. like someone is sitting at home and coming up with hypothetical questions or some ****. no one cares. hell if antyhing it means you have a clean record and more money to blow on her (hypothetically speaking of course :box:)
 

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If a women is'nt going to go with me because i'm sober, then she can go **** herself as i don't really give two ****s what she thinks .. it's that simple.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Im sure it matters, most women have to drink to hide the emptiness that our culture has given them.[/QUOTE]


might be one of the truest things ever said on this website. +1.

A-lot of people hide behind the "party scene" facade to hide what a sh! t life they have.
 

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PairPlusRoyalFlush said:
Im sure it matters, most women have to drink to hide the emptiness that our culture has given them. Ive had chicks hot for me then go ice when I told them I dont smoke weed.
Sad but true. But it is how it is. Society constantly pressures us to engage in intoxication and substance abuse because "it's the cool thing to do". People should not have to drink or do drugs to have a good time. This is a sad commentary on society and the attitude of a large portion of the young female demographic, if you ask me. As a recovering alcoholic/addict, I wouldn't be lying if I told you peer pressure was a significant factor in the development of my addiction, simply by way of having to "fit in" or suffer being labelled as "boring" or "a loser who is no fun". Unfortunately, it goes too far for some people. Some people, especially girls, feel they HAVE to get drunk every weekend to fill the deep, atrophied void within their soul.
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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I'm an occasional drinker and have been for a long time. Its never caused me a problem.

Have club soda & lime (I prefer lemon). Anyone that cares doesn't matter anyway. Sheeple do what everyone else does. Going your own way is your privelege and should by your joy.
 

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MrJibbles said:
Sad but true. But it is how it is. Society constantly pressures us to engage in intoxication and substance abuse because "it's the cool thing to do". People should not have to drink or do drugs to have a good time. This is a sad commentary on society and the attitude of a large portion of the young female demographic, if you ask me. As a recovering alcoholic/addict, I wouldn't be lying if I told you peer pressure was a significant factor in the development of my addiction, simply by way of having to "fit in" or suffer being labelled as "boring" or "a loser who is no fun". Unfortunately, it goes too far for some people. Some people, especially girls, feel they HAVE to get drunk every weekend to fill the deep, atrophied void within their soul.
agreed. i would also add this is also a problem because a lot of women think this is some sort of hobby. like, some men on here club, but in addition to maybe playing sports, playing in a band, etc etc...other interests they can enjoy without drinking

a lot of girls, on their dating profiles cite "clubbing, hanging out" as hobbies.

i suppose it's a hobby in the sense that it takes up a portion of your time. but you're not doing anything interesting. you're not doing anything worth any value.
 

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Mike32ct said:
3. Some bartenders get a slight attitude when you order a soft drink. Most are professional and don't care, but an occasional pr$ck will sigh or roll their eyes.
one time i was in a bar back in Perth, I ordered a coke there because i had to drive home. he asked me if i had to drive home, i siad yes and got it for free.

so sometimes they can be really nice. he did it to the girl in front of me too.
 

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I think it says something negative about the person..

You cant drink because you used to be an alcoholic.
You cant drink because your a tight ass.
You cant drink because your on meds and unhealthy.
You cant drink because you cant afford it.
You cant drink because your a mommas boy.
You are going to be the sober stick giving everyone drunk funny looks making them feel uncomfortable.

Get an ultra light beer and just drink half over an hour period, get a water, then another ultralight and camp it too for an hour. If she notices THEN say your on meds. It's important to be in the SPIRIT of the party and social atmosphere.

The most important thing a man can do is to represent himself properly.
 

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Depends on the girl. I know a few women who do not drink and specifically want men who don't smoke or drink
 
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