Because i am a recovered drug addict i spent about 3 and a half years in AA before i dropped AA for reasons i wasn't get into in this thread. Still clean, just don't do the AA thing anymore.
Drinking never was my big or real issue. even when using drugs i didn't really drink. I mean i drink but it's not a big deal to me it's not my tick.
however when I was in AA, you have to be clean of all mind altering substances including alcohol so i did not have a drop of anything to drink when i was 22 to when i was 26. no beer, no wine cooler nothing.
not only did i not have a problem with it, this was easily the height of my plate spinning activities, at least from 22 to 25 was.
If you have to have alcohol to make you exciting you have a bigger question to ask yourself then should i or should i not drink. and i still went to clubs i still went out i still did everyhting my drinking friends did i just did not drink.
if a girl asked me why i don't drink i just tell them i don't. if they ask why i tell them none of their god damn business and stop asking so many god damn questions. if i didn't want to make a scene of it i would just order a virgin Strawberry daquari or if i am in a club i would get a giner ale which looks like alcohol but is not.
hell i even kept liquor in my house for company when i had it.
it's a non issue. i have never in my life had a woman tell me i suck because i don't drink. and those same girls that are telling you to "cut lose and have fun".. seriously? you want to know how i know you are a skank *****....
have some respect. i drink now but i don't drink a lot. the last drink i had was maybe 3 weeks ago at dinner. but if do not do something just beucas you think it will give you an in with the opposite sex. rather it be drinking or going to a certain place or wearing a certain thing.
also i don't know where all these women who find not drinking a turn off are. i've ran through quite a big of women and i mean, i've had women curious, but i h ave never had someone say it was a turn off
that's like saying a woman finds it a turn off that you don't smoke. that's just retarded. like someone is sitting at home and coming up with hypothetical questions or some ****. no one cares. hell if antyhing it means you have a clean record and more money to blow on her (hypothetically speaking of course :box