Is it a mistake?

[ronp78]

On the third date, to suggest that I cook for the girl at my house? (I'm 37)

Does cooking for her show subservience and an eagerness to please, or is it the perfect setting for romancing her and then we can take it to the boom boom room afterwards?

 

[scrouds]

Have you f*cked yet?

 

[ronp78]

No. Need to get her alone first. Kissing on 2nd date was quite good, and reciprocated by her

 

[DJKid]

I personally think its a great move. Its a perfect excuse to get her to your place so that you can then escalate. The fact that you are using "cooking for her" as the reason gives her plausible deniability. I use similar tactics which have worked great.

 

[Allurre]

Cookings a great move. Doesn't matter whether it's the first, second, or after a year.

Cooking is ALWAYS a winner in a woman's eyes. It doesn't suggest you're trying to impress or please. You cook because YOU CAN.

Of course, give a great reason to cook. Tell her, "I just thought of this great self-made dish, wanna try?"

 

[scrouds]

Approved. Tell her to bring some wine.