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Is it a bad move to ask the girl if they have a boyfriend?

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What do y'all think?
 

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Can't read?
 

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So in other words, don't ask. What if they tell you they have a boyfriend?
 

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That won't work. She'll look at me like any other man who fits into that stereotype.
 

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Don't ask.... Make her answer the question through your advances
 

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It is possible to find out without actually asking her.

You "Hey what did you do this weekend?"
Her "I did xyz"
You "That's cool. Did you go with your boyfriend?"

Then she'd either say something like.

Yeah I did
He didn't come
I don't have a boyfriend

The girl won't know that you are really asking if she has a BF and she will have no reason to lie.

What you do from then on is up to you.
 

Never try to read a woman's mind. It is a scary place. Ignore her confusing signals and mixed messages. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly.

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SeymourCake said:
What do y'all think?
NEVER ask if they have a bf or are married. If they are off the market they'll let you know. And if you to blurt it out and ask there's a good chance you'll get the autopilot response they have one even if they don't.

I forget who said it, but it's pretty damn true:

"If you've got bad game they'll tell you they have a bf even if they don't. If you've got good game they'll hope you don't find out about him."
 

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When you make your move on her, she'll let you know. If she says she does, either you had weak game or just wasn't attractive or didn't have enough to offer. Translation; She's just not that into you.

If she's interested in you somehow, she'll make it known. If you got fame, looks, or are rich, or have a great job, and you ask her, it's highly likely she'll say she doesn't have a boyfriend. If you're not and you ask her, she'll tell you she does even if she actually doesn't.

Case closed.
 

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Aren't you the same guy that wanted to go around asking random girls to f*ck?
 

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I don't know...Do we have the same username?
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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no disrespect
cake my man you need to read and not post so much because you need to take (IN=LET SOME OF THE PREVIOUS ADVICE SET IN) the whole being a dj thing its cool to ask question but not everyday there are other post that answer your question
but to answer your question you do not ask because it will come off as insecure=afc
if you have any question go to the search bar and type in what your looking trust me this forum has plenty of threads with just about any question
 
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