is intimidating good?

[operationivy412]

randomally in the past couple weeks a couple girls i have talked to said i was intimidating. so i asked them in a good or bad way? and they were like oh im not sure it can be good or bad, your just intimidating.

is this good or bad that they see me as intimidating?

 

[michaelhctam]

randomally in the past couple weeks a couple girls i have talked to said i was intimidating. so i asked them in a good or bad way? and they were like oh im not sure it can be good or bad, your just intimidating.

is this good or bad that they see me as intimidating?

hahaha, when you have a 15 inch veiny d1ck throbbing and pulsing at the very sight of her........I guess you can call that intimidating.

(-_-), sorry I am a geek.

 

[woods]

It means you dont have a friendly enough demeaner. Ive been accused of this before myself, cuz if I dont pay attention, I look pissed off all the time.
Concentrate on smiling and being more friendly, it will pay off.

 

[woods]

OperationIvy412. Judging by your name, are you a gutter-punk? Are these girls used to hanging with punks? Are you angry all the time? Need more info. I use to get the SAME shyt. I was intimidating, for a skinny bastard. I had a mohawk, was pissed off all the time, and it freaked people out. Hell, its supposed to, thats the point. I didnt get too many girls till I retired the Knox, boots, manic panic, and leather.

 

[Jason88]

I've been told the same thing too. I've been working on being more friendly. It's shown to be useful to be able to easily switch from be cool and laid back to being intimidating.

 

[i am me]

ive been called intimidatin a few times...but to anyone who knows me, they say im friendly and i usually hav an easy time talkin to peeps. i kinda like it cus it makes girls more submissive to u but when they see wut kinda person u really are, theyre even more attracted

 

[Nexus Polaris]

I've got a similar history to woods. I wasn't a punk, but I've always been a metal guy. I currently resemble Charles Manson to some extent. That doesn't exactly work for you in the scoring chicks department.

I was one of those kids who got bullied. So spent a lot of years working on being intimidating. Now I'm too good at it. I can scare off most people with one glance. It seems very unnatural to smile at people I don't know. I'm so used to scowling. I've often been told I come off as aloof and unapproachable. Sometimes scary.

So I've really had to work at being more friendly. And it's been a noticeable difference. Girls that would usually go out of their way to avoid walking past me now smile and respond when I say hi.

 

[operationivy412]

hahaha im the farthest thing from a gutter punk, i just used that name for my email and other stuff when i used to listen to them and if i change it for something then im not going to remember it

thanks for all the advice and im starting to smile more and just act more natural because i realized if i dont pay attention i start to daze off and i look angry

but i asked the one chick what she meant by when she called me intimidating, and she said its because it feels like they have to impress me, but not in an uncomfortable way, just that im a naturally dominant person and she said it feels like they have to win me over

im actually really glad she told me that because that was a confident boost because thats exactly how it should be where i dont have to chase them and they chase me

 

[woods]

Then its definately a good thing. They should be trying to impress you. Just be sure to le them think they are getting to you sometimes, then turn it back around.