Is Europe A Dating Paradise For Asian Men?

[SW15]

I dealt with a lot of cleat chasers on the apps. In fact, all my exes had dated athletes at some level prior to me. They "settled" for me because I was the second best option and they would start to play games as soon as their ex on the Green Bay Packers, New York Yankees, or Dallas Cowboys started following them on the gram.

There are cleat chasers on the apps in all of the major USA cities.

Pro athletes are sexual marketplace competitors in major USA cities for a lot of men. They are well positioned according to "Money, muscles, game" from Rollo Tomassi, as they have money (in the moment while their careers are active), and muscles. Their personality charisma (game) as a standalone feature would vary from person to person, but it matters much less with money and muscles.

I suspect I have met some women who are followed on Instagram by professional athletes.

Women settling for you might look different than Courtney Ryan settling for dweeb with money Teddy Baldassarre.

Most of these women just get tossed around and hope that they find the golden athlete that sticks around for her, remains an athlete, and doesn't possess the negative attributes of being an athlete....Spoiler alert, it will never happen lol.

Your spoiler is correct. Trying to find that is highly unlikely and a waste of time for women, especially the good looking top tier women (often called Stacys).

 

[CornbreadFed]

Women settling for you might look different than Courtney Ryan settling for dweeb with money Teddy Baldassarre.

My ex looks like an aussie version of Courtney Ryan now that I think of it lol. The other cleat chaser I dated looked like a blonde Allison Williams.

 

[Gamisch]

A well educated, fit, non-ghetto black man is gonna get the same version of Margot Robbie you want .. and she is gonna make him jump through less hoops for the p*ssy too.

I hate when white men assume the white women who date black men are “trashy”..
I actually see more bombshell white girls with black guys than white guys bar hopping tbh..

Not all of us black men are in the ghetto setting cars on fire, a lot of us are successful, fit, high earning career oriented alpha males..

I am a black guy that grew up around rich white people. They will only go as far as fvcking black athletes behind closed doors. The second exception are white women passed the age of 40 because their racist parents and grandparents funding them are dead or senile by then. Other than that, they are dating the leftovers that white fudes don’t want. To the public eye, a you see is a pretty face and nice body with a black guy. You don’t see the skeletons and baggage that she’s hiding in her closet. This girl could be a single mom of 5 mixed kids from different black guys and have questionable mental illness, but all you see is a pretty face and nice @$$.

Oh boy TONS to unpack here...this might be one or even multiple longer posts . If you are not black ,you're in for a treat ..stay with me..

@cola and @CornbreadFed are both right while being wrong. Funny how every black dude here automatically assumes Corn is a white guy. Let me say I'm happy that cola said what he said because on a INDIVIDUAL level ,yeah. Every black man that has the looks and the " swag" will testify he get and got plenty of wonen from all races. One night stands, LTRs, ect.

But when you look at it with a helicopter view, it is also true that the "top tier Stacys" will "prefer"( qoute on qoute) white men from a certain social economic environment. That's the magic word. Black people are still light-years behind when it comes to that and it basically means that a large percentage of black men are severly limited to transition into a higher economic climate due to (lack off) generational wealth, culture and upbringing.

For every black man that's married to a white woman there are 7 /9 not married to nobody. I'd even go as far to say that most black men that are married are indeed married to white women and perhaps secondary Latin women.

Black male loneliness is the elephant in the room . I'll come to that later.

 

[Gamisch]

Dating within your own race

A recent study said that 90% of black men will NOT marry. Has to do with black women. The next thing: it's the WOMEN and the role they get that decide how a man is to conduct himself in the dating world. Now that every black woman is " entrepreneur that makes 6 figures but yet wants a black man that pays all the bills " while simultaneously fecking thugs and having prison- husbands, the opportunity to marry his own race is SEVERLY limited for a black( average) man. As I just said: the average, balding, 1,65( 5,5") puffy faced not financially loaded black man is equally invisible as his Asian/Indian counterparts. They are basically desired by NOBODY in the west.



That brings us to the reason why especially Asian and Arab men are least popular in the west. Because in the Arabic world and in southeast Asia ( India included) there are social structures that put LESS emphasis on what SHE wants( unlike the west, south America, Africa). Sometimes by laws that limit women's rights, sometimes due to social structures like arranged marriage or a combination of both. An Indian man does not have to check all boxes of attraction ( yet) to marry a local. He can be fat bald and short, as long as he has a job he can find a wife on his home turf. Place him in the west and boom, he literally becomes the bottom of the barrel. If he makes the adjustments however, he will be able to play along.

But if he doesn't..he is in the same category as bald short broke fat black dude. For now at least these men have the advantage of bringing women from their home country to the west, a luxury that black American men don't have. I do however believe that this is rapidly fading away because the world's overall culture becomes homogeneous. You can be an undesirable Indian man that's heavily depending on "culture norms" where you can violently keep your wife in check ,because we all know by now how female attraction really works...

 

[Gamisch]

Why do you think South East Asian Men can pull better?

Every man from every race can " pull better" as long as he IS better. A 6 foot ripped alien from Mars with some cash can "pull better".

The problem is that there's a BIG portion of men that don't fall into this category. As I said before: in the west a man almost cannot afford to not be financially savy, have a good body and a decent mouthpiece. In other cultures men still grow up seeing that their fathers don't have to put in that kinda effort so they don't see that urgency (yet, very soon they will have to tho).

If a white woman decides she is open to other races it means that she will pick out of the TOP TIER man from ALL RACES. Short bald & broke asian/black /Indian man still remains invisible. The battle for such a woman is heavier than for a woman who will marry a man from her own race. Numbers game.

Hi Gamisch,
Regarding "My Country",an acquaintence who has travelled the Caribbean tells me that the Chegros a Negro/Chinese cross are the most stunningly beautiful Women he has seen.

That's basically my heritage. I'm an afro Latino mixed with Chinese and Native American blood living in Europe.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

Not sure but I heard it's a Gangsta 's Paradise.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

European here. I have to debunk ( again and again and again) that European women are these old fashioned ready made wifes that like flowers and chivalry. Europe is the most Americanized place of all continents.

It's really popular here to say that European women are all that. They're NOT. Birthrates declining rapidly in most European countries. These opinions are mostly based on a three week vacation in one place..Europe is quite big with many cultures within cultures. That's like me going to Miami three weeks and then say American women are gorgeous, fit, ect while one third if the population is obese.

The grass is always greener on the other side...

Regarding Asian men: In my country there's a big Asian population and they never have any trouble finding women, even when they're short.

So wth are you black, south american, caribbean, or european?

Japanese dudes in Peru dating the coca-chewing ethnic shorties ain't saying too much lolz.

 

[Gamisch]

So wth are you black, south american, caribbean, or european?

Japanese dudes in Peru dating the coca-chewing ethnic shorties ain't saying too much lolz.

I think I stated pretty clear that Im afro Latin with Chinese and Native American blood living in Europe...I guess to afro Americans that is difficult to understand, I get that.

I don't get the last sentence due to the language barrier. Could you please explain what you mean? Is that an insult?

 

[BillyPilgrim]

OP gotta remember Europe is emasculated - most of the masculine dudes moved to the USA over the centuries or got killed off in 20th century wars.

 

[BillyPilgrim]

I think I stated pretty clear that Im afro Latin with Chinese and Native American blood living in Europe...

I don't get the last sentence due to the language barrier. Could you please explain what you mean? Is that an insult?

My bad, must have missed it but I remember reading a post of your recently where you stated you're in South America, and one further back where I recalled you claiming to be Caribbean.

My 2nd sentence is clear, and you've demonstrated a solid understanding of English outside of your use of "oke" instead of "okay". If it's a dig it's a dig on you claiming to be European.

Living in Europe currently doesn't make you "European" unless you've lived there many years.

Apologies for any misunderstanding

 

[Gamisch]

My bad, must have missed it but I remember reading a post of your recently where you stated you're in South America, and one further back where I recalled you claiming to be Caribbean.

My 2nd sentence is clear, and you've demonstrated a solid understanding of English outside of your use of "oke" instead of "okay". If it's a dig it's a dig on you claiming to be European.

Living in Europe currently doesn't make you "European" unless you've lived there many years.

Apologies for any misunderstanding

I was born in Europe, but my mother is part afro Latin and Native American while my father is part Afr. Latin and Chinese.

Thanks for elaborating. And thanks for the compliment! Working really hard on improving my English!

 

[CornbreadFed]

Every man from every race can " pull better" as long as he IS better. A 6 foot ripped alien from Mars with some cash can "pull better".

My Gf's brother is 5ft 5 and East Asian and has never had any issues pulling hot woman. In addition, I have an Asian friend that could qualify as a Chan but struggles with women.

Brother-
1). He is well groomed and has a distinct look that sets him apart from other Asians. He's not FOB; he kind of dresses KPOPish with a WASP preppy twist.

2). He has a personality that women do not find boring and not the Type A strict boring personality a lot of Asians here in the US seem to have.

3). He does not go for white women, only Asian women and Latinas. Like stated before, the only guys that don't suffer with looks when dating white women are black guys, but they suffer in socioeconomic/quality department instead. I've never seen an Asian guy with a white girl that turned my head ever lol. They are mostly dating down in looks and playing an uphill battle for him. By avoiding white women entirely, this guy is playing on a difficulty of normal instead of hard.

Friend
1). He dresses pretty Yoplait Vanilla and has a boring haircut with a completely shaved face.

2). He has that strict rigid ironman Type A personality that dries women's panties. In addition, he is super skinny & low bf, so his diet is pretty boring and strict. As a result, the guy is successful and looks great, but he dries women's panties up.

3). He goes for white women and whitewashed Asian girls. As a result, he is always dating down in looks and fighting for the leftover scraps that white guys don't like despite being a Chan in looks with a decent job. I think his current gf is not that good looking and weird, but you would think this guy pulls women easily if you saw him in person.

 

[Gamisch]

My Gf's brother is 5ft 5 and East Asian and has never had any issues pulling hot woman. In addition, I have an Asian friend that could qualify as a Chan but struggles with women.

Brother-
1). He is well groomed and has a distinct look that sets him apart from other Asians. He's not FOB; he kind of dresses KPOPish with a WASP preppy twist.

2). He has a personality that women do not find boring and not the Type A strict boring personality a lot of Asians here in the US seem to have.

3). He does not go for white women, only Asian women and Latinas. Like stated before, the only guys that don't suffer with looks when dating white women are black guys, but they suffer in socioeconomic/quality department instead. I've never seen an Asian guy with a white girl that turned my head ever lol. They are mostly dating down in looks and playing an uphill battle for him. By avoiding white women entirely, this guy is playing on a difficulty of normal instead of hard.

Friend
1). He dresses pretty Yoplait Vanilla and has a boring haircut with a completely shaved face.

2). He has that strict rigid ironman Type A personality that dries women's panties. In addition, he is super skinny & low bf, so his diet is pretty boring and strict. As a result, the guy is successful and looks great, but he dries women's panties up.

3). He goes for white women and whitewashed Asian girls. As a result, he is always dating down in looks and fighting for the leftover scraps that white guys don't like despite being a Chan in looks with a decent job. I think his current gf is not that good looking and weird, but you would think this guy pulls women easily if you saw him in person.

Biggest player I've ever known was a 5,5 skinny Asian guy I grew up with. Dude is a certified thug tho. Never had a day job in his entire life .

Biggest simp (or one of the I should say) I've known is a 6,4 white dude who's been with his Pina gf for 6 years now. He met her twice IRL in 6 years, and now has to pay a HEFTY amount of cash for her visa..while he's drowning in debts ..make it make sense

 

[CornbreadFed]

Biggest simp (or one of the I should say) I've known is a 6,4 white dude who's been with his Pina gf for 6 years now. He met her twice IRL in 6 years, and now has to pay a HEFTY amount of cash for her visa..while he's drowning in debts ..make it make sense

Is he nerdy?

 

[Gamisch]

Is he nerdy?

Now he is a simp deluxe. When we grew up he was a " wigger".

It was astonishing to see how he changed from a wannabe player with personality issues into a pathetic PPbro with yellow fever.