MrCasanova03
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Alright this is my first post, Ive been a long time lurker around here and have learned a lor from everyone. Im in a situation where I need some enlightment from my fellow DJs.
So Ive talking with this girl I really like, we havent had any physical contact yet (no kisses, no sex). We've been talking for 3 months but for some reason I havent had the chance to close with her. Anyway, I'm 90% sure shes leading me on, as the first time we ever talked I was too drunk to be on top on my game and I fvcked up and told her I liked her. I feel she has been taking advantage of that info to keep me around. She says she likes talking to me, she has asked me no to change her for another girl, she says she likes me but I dont believe any of that bullsh*t. I havent initiated contact with her, she is always doing it lately because Im tired of her bs and dont wanna be following her like a lost puppy.
Anyway my real question is, if the time ever comes, should a true DJ call her out on her bs before nexting her? I mean Im pretty sure she doesnt like me but she likes the attention I give her so I pretty much dont give her the attention she wants anymore and she goes nuts, but im tired of this situation. I got plenty of other girls so I dont care much about this one anymore. As I said, if the time ever comes, should I call her out on her BS?
Edit
To be more specific, calling her out would be something along the lines of:
"Listen Im pretty sure you dont like me the way I do, and thats cool, I feel like you have intention of leading me on for whatever reason and Im not really ok with that. Youre a great person and we can still be just friends if youd like" or some sht like that
So Ive talking with this girl I really like, we havent had any physical contact yet (no kisses, no sex). We've been talking for 3 months but for some reason I havent had the chance to close with her. Anyway, I'm 90% sure shes leading me on, as the first time we ever talked I was too drunk to be on top on my game and I fvcked up and told her I liked her. I feel she has been taking advantage of that info to keep me around. She says she likes talking to me, she has asked me no to change her for another girl, she says she likes me but I dont believe any of that bullsh*t. I havent initiated contact with her, she is always doing it lately because Im tired of her bs and dont wanna be following her like a lost puppy.
Anyway my real question is, if the time ever comes, should a true DJ call her out on her bs before nexting her? I mean Im pretty sure she doesnt like me but she likes the attention I give her so I pretty much dont give her the attention she wants anymore and she goes nuts, but im tired of this situation. I got plenty of other girls so I dont care much about this one anymore. As I said, if the time ever comes, should I call her out on her BS?
Edit
To be more specific, calling her out would be something along the lines of:
"Listen Im pretty sure you dont like me the way I do, and thats cool, I feel like you have intention of leading me on for whatever reason and Im not really ok with that. Youre a great person and we can still be just friends if youd like" or some sht like that