Is being "bigger" down there truly better?

[FigureITout]

Hey all. Ive been thinking about this for some time, and just wanted to get your opinion on it. Sometimes I feel when it comes to having sex, girls put a lot of importance on how big a guy's d*ck is. I feel like girls talk to each other alot and always compare their sexual experiences, saying stuff like "Ohh that guy was really big" or "Ohh i was so disappointed because he was small compared to my ex bf" or "Ohh I wish he was bigger down there".

Does size truly matter? Or is it all about how you use your d*ck? I think it could be argued that if you're really inexperienced with sex, but you have a big d*ck, the girl won't enjoy it as much as a guy who just has an average sized d*ck but is good at sex.

But alot of times, I think it can be said that theres a ton of guys out there who are all experienced with sex. That being said, of those guys who are all experienced, don't you think the girl would want to be with the guy who had the bigger d*ck? Even if the other guy was just as experienced, but didn't have as big a d*ck?

I think its the same concept as a girl who has big t*ts and a big ass compared to a girl who doesn't have big t*ts and doesn't have a big ass. Obviously, the guy is going to want the first girl.

 

[chance-]

wrong. i've read up on alot of articles about this crap. girls don't care how big it is as long as you please them. infact, i heard that girls don't like big ones because it can hurt.. and sometimes you can't even push it all the way in and get close enough to hold the girl. everyone wants to go all the way in and touch each others bodies. trust me... girls don't really care about size as much as you think... i've looked into this before.

 

[Maxtro]

Eh there is some truth to it. The most important thing is you don't want to be smaller than average. As long as it's about 5 inches around you're fine. Length isn't as important and average size is 5.5-6.5 inches.

As you mentioned before, the most important thing is to be experienced with sex.

Still if you wish you were bigger, which 99% of men do, check out www.thundersplace.org

 

[scorpio1138]

A few girls I know say they prefer girth to length. They like it thick.

 

[Kerpal]

Yes, it is better. We all know this instinctively although we lie to ourselves.

 

[Lord Sidious]

I can teel you that all the gals I banged never told me anything about that before we have sex. However, the majority told me that sex with me was the greatest they ever had, not only because I was bigger than others they had (yeah, we cannot believe what they said), but MAINLY because of the way I could turn them on and the way I made sex. I know many women that simply don´t care about size, unless penis is really small.

However, I´m not American, I´m from Europe and American women tend to valorize that aspect a lot.

But, in my opinion I think that big penises can be important mostly because women get easily influenced by simply seeing. And one should not forget one thing: how´s BIG for a woman? 6''? 7''? 8''? 10''? It´s hard to answer for all o them, of course.

Nevertheless, I think a big penis is like a condom: one better have one and not need , than need one and don´t have.

 

[Warrior74]

The question is, if you don't measure up (no pun intended), what are you gonna do about it? Nothing, that's what. You either let it be another insecurity, or you don't. Let her worry about if it's big enough or not, your there to get a nut.

 

[HolyG]

there are techniques for extension, look in the health and fitness section. they require dedication tho

 

[JD83]

My experience has been that girls care more about WIDTH than length. If you are about 6 or 7 inches, you are ok. If you are thick, girls will like that a lot!

 

[snowdog]

It doesn't matter if your game is good.

 

[Tide]

Urgh, I despise people wishing theirs was bigger. Not bragging but mines BIG (length and girth). Its horrific- if i'm hooking up with a virgin, it doesn't fit no matter how much foreplay lube etc. So it hurts and they want to stop after a while.
Trust me, you just want to be an average joe in this department.

 

[sodbuster]

In a study of prostitutes and women in the 70's-Masters and Johnson? The women interviewed said average was better. The only reason the shrinks could come up with at the end of the study-men who were HUNG got their ego involved and didn't/wouldn't learn how to please a woman[their d1ck was supposed to be enough,pound like a porn star and it would have to please her]

 

[Scion]

The only thing I have to say is that women do talk about it and some put importance on it. Like tonight I overheard these 2 girls I know and one of them was saying the main reason she wants to keep dating this guy is because he has a big ****. But other than that I have no idea if it's important or not, personally I wouldn't worry about it, not much you can do about it.

 

[Falcon25]

Of course it's better to have a big divk. Those who don't, say it doesn't matter. Any girl knows that what she can't feel is not worth worrying about. That is why guys with small divks buy big trucks and get all defensive. It's called a small divk syndrome.

 

[Maxtro]

Urgh, I despise people wishing theirs was bigger. Not bragging but mines BIG (length and girth). Its horrific- if i'm hooking up with a virgin, it doesn't fit no matter how much foreplay lube etc. So it hurts and they want to stop after a while.
Trust me, you just want to be an average joe in this department.

LOL horrific, so how big is it length and girth?

Just so you know, average size is 6 inches bone-pressed (ruler pressed all the way into the pubic fat pad) and girth is 5 inches around.

Before I started PE I was well below average in both length and girth. Now my length is average and girth is a few millimeters below.

My final goal is 8 inches BP by 5.5 inches around. That size is well above average yet still a good size for sex and BJ's.

I've read that a girth of 6 or above will start to get you in trouble. Also at 8 inches long her cervix can get struck if one is not careful.

 

[drak_ool]

Obviously being smaller is a problem, as I heard it from many girls that they didn't enjoy sex with guys that were too small.

Pretty much all girls I've banged told me how much they liked my d.ick, which is really thick. But also a lot of these same girls felt pain during sex, and sometimes would ask me to stop, or wouldn't be able to do it more than once a day. So it's got its disadvantages...

 

[Rescue Mission]

It doesn't matter if your game is good.

How do you know that it doesn't matter if you've never had sex with a girl before?

See, as a virgin, THIS is exactly the kind of advice that you should not be spewing on these forums.

As a virgin, you really should have nothing to say about this topic.

In response to this thread, nothing turns a girl on more than thinking that a guy has a huge c0ck.......they will practically overlook everything personality and looks related if they think your c0ck is big. When it comes to the sex itself, a decent sized 6 - 7 inches is good for going balls deep into a pvssy...........if you are more like 8 or 9 inches, you might not be able to go in all the way, which will actually hinder YOUR pleasure, unless you are dealing with a loose chick.

All in all, its a complicated matter with different factors, something that an inexperienced virgin has NO BUSINESS even stating an opinion on.

PERIOD.

 

[Create Reality]

She complains every time, then at least a day until the next round. I try to be gentle but then she forces it on herself LOL

 

[actionjaxson]

my friend wants to know what should you do if you got a tiny ****?

 

[kingsam]

UH OH! not this can if worms... LMFAO!

It doesn't matter if your game is good.

How do you know that it doesn't matter if you've never had sex with a girl before?