Is Asking A Girl What Her Major Is The Kiss of Death

[Francisco d'Anconia]

I don't carry alot of clout, but c'mon, isn't this a bit overanalyzing? It is not the FVCKING KISS OF DEATH. It is four words. Not the ideal starter for a conversation, but not every fvcking sentence have to be making the girl cry out in tears from laughter as not every conversation with a girl is just for one goal only. Is it better to say something that is more interesting? Hells yeah! Should you panic if such a line was used? Fvck no! Don't usually conversations quickly drifts into something more interesting anyways?

Alright, "kiss of death" may seem like an exaggeration but none the less, talking about a major is very much an AFC line. Like DevanE said, practically every guy on campus asks the same thing.

Here's one that I'm tires me, women who tosses out "So, what do you do?" within a couple of minutes of meeting. I know it's one of those no effort type qualifiers but c'mon...

Typically I answer with my hobbies and interests. Typically, if the woman is interesting herself it spawns a pretty good conversation and she shares her interests with me. But there are always those who answer "I mean what do you do for a living?" Look, we just met and you're trying to see if I can provide the lifestyle that you're looking to live? Nuh-uh, I'm not going there. I just tell them that I'm a drug dealer. Women aren't the only ones craving interesting conversation.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

As long as you move on to more interesting/fun topics quickly, it should not be a problem, but why not start off with fun convo right away?

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

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Actually, let me share. Last time a girl asked was a few days ago. She was like "so...what's your major?" exactly like that, with a slight pause after she said "so..." LOL. I actually do find it a little common, but hey, can't blame her, she's just making conversation right? It does make for a boring conversation though, and you have to change topics. Still, fact is, you wouldn't reject a girl for asking you, so why the double-standard?

Actually if she's hot and you are interested in her it would be a perfect instance for C/F. You could answer with "World Domination," "Advanced Trivial Pursuit" or even "Professional Womanizing." Her reaction could easily tell you whether if she's a stick in the mud, a unique thinker or whatever. The whole thing is that in a good conversation, small talk should be used at a minimum; a minute or two max.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

As long as you move on to more interesting/fun topics quickly, it should not be a problem, but why not start off with fun convo right away?

It takes effort.

 

[Dark Chivalry]

It takes effort.

Without effort a guy is never getting anywhere even if he does get anywhere.

If he is too lazy to learn to talk well with women, and uses smalltalk, he'll be ignored or become a girlfriend. He does not get sex.

If he uses booze to get sex, he'll got drunken slores to sex, but no girlfriend.

If he uses money(Get rich, get with poor/foreign women.) to get a girl, he'll find himself married to a woman who is getting laid by another man. Maybe he'll raise another man's son too.

There are no shortcuts in life for a man, if you can't be interesting and learn to spark and keep the desire of the sort of women YOU are interested in, you will lose out one way or another.

 

[baller1985]

YOU GUYS ARE STILL MISSING THE FACT THAT YOU CAN TALK ABOUT ANYTHING, AS LONG AS YOU SHOW GENUINE INTEREST IN HER AND WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY!

its called getting her life story and admiring her for her passions - a good way players hook in their bait

 

[baller1985]

Yes. If you ask a girl her major, it doesn't even matter how well you were doing before. It's done.

Man, once I was gaming this girl and I was laying on the CnF strong, kino'ing, she was laughing, touching me, grabbed my d!ck, etc. But then I asked her what her major was, and she suddenly gouged my eyes and yelled "Creep!" and left and told all her friends. Then her friends got this big guy to pull my pants down and hold me upside down and everybody laughed at me. And then he dropped me on my head and now I still have a big bump there. Then everybody in a 10 mile radius, even the animals, came and laughed at me and pissed on me. So yeah it's a pretty bad idea to ask that.

you should post on wikihow

 

[tmpgstx]

lol, that was good superchill, but have to disagree.

A major is a big part of someone's life. They put alot of time and effort into it and will likely make that line of work a career. I'm proud of my major.

Asking a girl this can probe her interests. If she likes Nursing, ask her why she got into Nursing? She'll reply with a story or two and open up.

If you are coming at her mature, this is a good approach. Yeah, if you want a ONS, then by all means get sexual right away.

 

[GtarPlayr73]

My angle is that women love to talk about themselves and they love attention, right? So asking a girl her major is really asking her what she wants to commit her life to. Though to be honest, most booze-swilling college girls don't know what they want five minutes from now, let alone what they want to do with the rest of their life. And maybe that's why it's not the best convo topic for most girls. The intelligent, free-thinking girl wouldn't mind at all, but a girl who doesn't know what she wants will NOT want to talk about something that she'll switch up two semesters later. Clearly, she hasn't found her passion. Lastly, these are American girls we're talking about and we all know what they want in life: to be ENTERTAINED. Make me laugh till my lungs burst, frat boy. Make me feel like a princess on a throne, frat boy. Make me feel wonderful feelings, frat boy. Excite me. Pleasure me. Service me. Buy me. I dispair being bored. I fear silence. Tivo is my best friend. Entertain me or die on a withered vine, chump boy!

To that, we say: stare at my ass, American princess, :moon: and make ME laugh...

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

My angle is that women love to talk about themselves and they love attention, right? So asking a girl her major is really asking her what she wants to commit her life to.

Beware of women who plan on committing their lives to their major/profession. Women who come to mind include:
http://www.all4humor.com/images/files/Scary%20Hillary%20Clinton.jpg
http://www.reviewjournal.com/lvrj_home/1997/Jul-10-Thu-1997/photos/tysonallred.jpg
http://i.realone.com/assets/rn/img/4/3/9/4/12984934-12984946-slarge.jpg

...scary... :nervous:

 

[mastersylar]

Ok.. I am sincerely trying to improve my game. I do admit I am an AFC.

However, my thing is I usually end up having boring conversations with women at parties.

I am thinking that something for example like "Asking her what she thought of Paris Hilton getting out jail so soon?" (I know this is bad) But asking something about tv, music, social situations that me and my friend get into). As long as i am interested in what she has to say. is the perfect way to get good convo.

 

[baller1985]

please listen to my advice on this thread, and dont ask this kinda question again

 

[I.A.F.Y.B.]

Best topic to talk to chicks is SEX! If you can`t talk about sex with a girl then... you`re screwed. Sex is the most interesting topic for them anyways, I highly doubt that any of you will have a fun time talkin about guys... so ya stick to sex, gossip and all that chick stuff. Talkin about school at parties is LAME... if you can`t think of anything to talk about... drink alcohol and get really buzzed... don`t worry u won`t get laid anyways. :crackup:

Your absolutley correct.

An example from what i used was talking about body peircings. Then talked about woman peircing their cl!t or hoof and guys peircing their d!cks. Then you keep moving get other sex convo's going and its all easy ridin from there.:rockon: