When I’m in a relationship I find myself having to win her over and over again. In a constant state of crisis to reach my next highest self.That is the biggest critique of Rollo Tomassi. He's been married to the same woman since 1996, which is now 25+ years. He probably started dating her around 1993-1994, which means ~30 years in the same LTR.
A relationship is not an opportunity to “relax” and let yourself go. That’s how you get dumped. A relationship is a microscope that zooms into all your strengths and weaknesses. You are literally being observed with a microscope.
So I have a lot of respect for men in Relationships with quality women. They prove day in and day out they are the MAN.