Is a Gf supposed to contact u everyday?

[Blackstar]

Im curious about this but i was thinking if when u are in a RL is your girl supposed to call u/text u daily like are u supposed to talk to her everyday?

To be honest im a rookie at this of RL ive never had a serious RL, and now that im in one i feel like she "has to do what i want her to" u know like i want to make sure that she is interested in me and that im the one and only one and that shes all into me.

Im the type that gets mad over any little thing i recognize that, and if she doesnt call me or text me for a few hours ill get mad, and if she doesnt do so for the whole day i get mad too even if we have seen each other before in the day, so ill go ahead and call her or text her and for the icing on the cake when i ask her what she is doing she says "nothing" so why aint she bothered in contacting me?


How does this work yall, who is supposed to contact who? i thought the girl should call the man right? and how often? how do i handle her if she doesnt do so for the whole day?

 

[Jack McCrack]

Whoa whoa whoa.

Calm down there man.

You're acting extremely insecure and AFC.

Have you taken a look at the DJ Bible? It's to the right of that cutie in the dark dress up there.

 

[Blackstar]

trust me thats all i read before i even registered my screenname.

how ima supposed to act here? like i could careless?

 

[Jack McCrack]

Call her when you want to set up a date/hang out/etc.

Who cares if she doesn't call you, she's probably just waiting by the phone for you to call.

 

[Blackstar]

lol thats true though, almost every time i call her she picks up in no moer than 2 rings if that many and when i text her she texts me right back, within 2 minutes, as a matterfact even when she is in the bathroom she picks my calls up and quick.

 

[MetalFortress]

STOP OVERCOMPLICATING THINGS. There is no "set rule".

 

[AverageFC]

my roommate talks with his gf on the phone every night for an hour, they IM all the time, and email daily.

I think thats excessive, and I can't figure out why theyre still dating with that much over-communication

 

[Littledude]

RELAX man. Just because you guys are in a relationship now, doesn't mean you should be head over heels for this girl or you'll lose your cool and laid back mindset. Being in a relationship should not be any different in the way you act toward a girl or call her than if you were single. It's just that you now aren't seeing other girls. That's all, and maybe a few extra phone calls.

Other than that, remember that girls are just a bonus in your life. The hobbies, sports, friends, and family in your life are what make you happy... girls are just extra and should not be relied on as if it were a hobby or sports.

 

[A&F Brand Cologne]

A girl I just hooked up with was telling me about her boyfriend of one year who was "likea girl" and would "always complain" that she didn't "call him everyday."

make your own decisions based on that.

 

[dearsappho]

Your 'relationship' wont last long unless u change your mindset, my friend...women want to be dominated but not in an agressive manner (Bluto from Popeye?).
Try subtleties and easy going mind games...2 weeks and she'll be your *****...

 

[DeathDealer]

it should always be an exchange of calls but more so on her side. you call, then she calls, and then you call, and sometimes she tries to contact you several more times.

it's guy's job that do the initial work, pays for dates, but it's the girl's job to maintain it.

 

[Fenderules]

i remeber your other post where you thought she was cheating on you






man no offense but your being hardcore afc right now. its almost like you have compltely ignored all the information on this site. LET IT SINK IN.

first off:

YOU ARE A MAN...... and are too busy to call her all the time and talk to her.

the less you talk to her the more fun it is when you are with her, second is says you DONT NEED HER. She has to work for your intention and if she wants to talk to you more often then she will call you.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah and when she gets bored and dumps him he is left with nothing and goes harcore afcish. not that he is not already

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by DeathDealer
but it's the girl's job to maintain it.

Wrong. It takes TWO people to maintain a relationship. If you think otherwise you are in for a long line of break ups where the girl tells you "you never do this or that anymore". Mark my word...

 

[check_mate_kid_uk]

this is all very AFC, you should not even be worying about things like this, and give me 1 good reason why you need to call each other every day.

 

[Vincent]

I talk to my girl a lot on aim. I hate it more than anything but its simpler than calling. I wouldn't do it at all if there wasn't 300 miles between us. I can't wait to get back to school

 

[Wyldfire]

Originally posted by Vincent
I talk to my girl a lot on aim. I hate it more than anything but its simpler than calling. I wouldn't do it at all if there wasn't 300 miles between us. I can't wait to get back to school

When distance is a factor you gotta do what you gotta do.

 

[WORKEROUTER]

Originally posted by Blackstar
Im curious about this but i was thinking if when u are in a RL is your girl supposed to call u/text u daily like are u supposed to talk to her everyday?

To be honest im a rookie at this of RL ive never had a serious RL, and now that im in one i feel like she "has to do what i want her to" u know like i want to make sure that she is interested in me and that im the one and only one and that shes all into me.

Im the type that gets mad over any little thing i recognize that, and if she doesnt call me or text me for a few hours ill get mad, and if she doesnt do so for the whole day i get mad too even if we have seen each other before in the day, so ill go ahead and call her or text her and for the icing on the cake when i ask her what she is doing she says "nothing" so why aint she bothered in contacting me?


How does this work yall, who is supposed to contact who? i thought the girl should call the man right? and how often? how do i handle her if she doesnt do so for the whole day?

Stop being a whiny AFC. In my opinion phone conversations are a waste of time, even if the chick is your girlfriend.

Use the phone as a means of setting up a time to get together, and if you want to chat, then chat one on one. Do not spend countless hours on the phone.

 

[Vincent]

Originally posted by Wyldfire
When distance is a factor you gotta do what you gotta do.

Yeah, but it still drives me crazy.

 

[PuertoRican_Lover]

Blacky, how old are you? Yes, girls do call more than men - but you should only talk to her to set-up a time see her in person - if not then don't call her - she should call you!!