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Women who genuinely finds you physically attractive will make it known, either directly or indirectly, and will make things easy for you. That means she won't play stupid head games with you...if she does, then you kick her ass to the curb and shut the fvcking door on her. You don't have time for bull$hit head games with her if she isn't jumping your bone right away.
Recent example:
I have been seeing this girl for about a month...but only every other weekend...so I've seen her out maybe 3 times.
On our 4th get together, we went out for mini-golfing (fvck stupid dinner dates) in the evening. We both had to work at 6 in the morning the next day so I wanted to keep the night short, go home, and go to sleep.
After the mini-golf, we went over to my buddy's house for few drinks. This was around maybe 8 PM. My buddy and few of his friends were going out to the bars around 10, and it was my date who suggested that we go with them.
I said, fine, but I want to keep it short and be home by midnight since I like sleep and wanted to sleep so I could wake up refreshed by 6 AM.
We go to the bar, and she immediately starts buying me and herself drinks.
Pay attention, fellas. I didn't spend a single dime at the bar (I spent like maybe $10 for mini-golf) and we both got hammered pretty good.
I should also mention that she let me drive her car around the whole evening/night. You might think how this is relevant and it is so because it's little things like these that dictates that she expects me to be the Man and take control of situations.
It was around midnight and I said fvck it, I'm having a blast, let's stay longer. We stayed till 1, left to go back to my buddy's house but his door was locked so we had to wait in her car until my buddy showed up.
She insisted that we jump back into the backseat. We do, and she immediately threw me down on the backseat, started taking off my pants, and her pants so that we could get fvcking like horndogs. To make her even hot and hornier, I made her wait....teased the $hit out of her. Besides, I didn't feel like fvcking in the backseat of her tiny ass car.
My buddy shows up, we go inside, some of our friends come over, and we can't really do anything.
She told everybody to go get some pancakes at a diner nearby. The other girls that were there got the hint and made all the guys there go with them.
They left for the diner and stayed there for two hours.
Guess what we did for two hours in an empty house?
Needless to say, I didn't get any sleep that night.
The point is, again what Rollo said above, "women who want to fvck you will find a way to fvck you".
If your girl is making you wait or gets naked with you but doesn't let you fvck her, then you need to re-assess your interest level in her. Sometimes, you might like the girl and don't want to kick her to the curb quickly. If this is the case, then spin more plates.
You should be spinning plates even if your girl is putting out, and this rule is 10x more important to implement when your girl isn't putting out and you happen to like her enough to wait for her to put out.
Make sense? I've been there when the girl made me wait and I happened to like her enough to wait, yet I didn't stop spinning plates. I went out and found girls who did want to fvck me.
Now sometimes, and I've been there too, you might not have enough time in your busy schedule to date more than 1 or 2 girls at the same time. If this is the case, then keep the above rule in mind. Judge the girl, her interest level in you, and the entire situation from the context of the above rule.
All the bull$hit indicators of interest and theories about how to raise her interest level/buying temperature is nothing more than hogwash. The best way to judge if the girl likes you sexually is to measure how badly she wants to get you naked and have her way with you.
I hope this kicks some sense into you if you are having trouble figuring out why she hasn't put out or how much she likes you.
Now, focus on the bold, underlined part.Rollo Tomassi said:
Women who genuinely finds you physically attractive will make it known, either directly or indirectly, and will make things easy for you. That means she won't play stupid head games with you...if she does, then you kick her ass to the curb and shut the fvcking door on her. You don't have time for bull$hit head games with her if she isn't jumping your bone right away.
Recent example:
I have been seeing this girl for about a month...but only every other weekend...so I've seen her out maybe 3 times.
On our 4th get together, we went out for mini-golfing (fvck stupid dinner dates) in the evening. We both had to work at 6 in the morning the next day so I wanted to keep the night short, go home, and go to sleep.
After the mini-golf, we went over to my buddy's house for few drinks. This was around maybe 8 PM. My buddy and few of his friends were going out to the bars around 10, and it was my date who suggested that we go with them.
I said, fine, but I want to keep it short and be home by midnight since I like sleep and wanted to sleep so I could wake up refreshed by 6 AM.
We go to the bar, and she immediately starts buying me and herself drinks.
Pay attention, fellas. I didn't spend a single dime at the bar (I spent like maybe $10 for mini-golf) and we both got hammered pretty good.
I should also mention that she let me drive her car around the whole evening/night. You might think how this is relevant and it is so because it's little things like these that dictates that she expects me to be the Man and take control of situations.
It was around midnight and I said fvck it, I'm having a blast, let's stay longer. We stayed till 1, left to go back to my buddy's house but his door was locked so we had to wait in her car until my buddy showed up.
She insisted that we jump back into the backseat. We do, and she immediately threw me down on the backseat, started taking off my pants, and her pants so that we could get fvcking like horndogs. To make her even hot and hornier, I made her wait....teased the $hit out of her. Besides, I didn't feel like fvcking in the backseat of her tiny ass car.
My buddy shows up, we go inside, some of our friends come over, and we can't really do anything.
She told everybody to go get some pancakes at a diner nearby. The other girls that were there got the hint and made all the guys there go with them.
They left for the diner and stayed there for two hours.
Guess what we did for two hours in an empty house?
Needless to say, I didn't get any sleep that night.
The point is, again what Rollo said above, "women who want to fvck you will find a way to fvck you".
If your girl is making you wait or gets naked with you but doesn't let you fvck her, then you need to re-assess your interest level in her. Sometimes, you might like the girl and don't want to kick her to the curb quickly. If this is the case, then spin more plates.
You should be spinning plates even if your girl is putting out, and this rule is 10x more important to implement when your girl isn't putting out and you happen to like her enough to wait for her to put out.
Make sense? I've been there when the girl made me wait and I happened to like her enough to wait, yet I didn't stop spinning plates. I went out and found girls who did want to fvck me.
Now sometimes, and I've been there too, you might not have enough time in your busy schedule to date more than 1 or 2 girls at the same time. If this is the case, then keep the above rule in mind. Judge the girl, her interest level in you, and the entire situation from the context of the above rule.
All the bull$hit indicators of interest and theories about how to raise her interest level/buying temperature is nothing more than hogwash. The best way to judge if the girl likes you sexually is to measure how badly she wants to get you naked and have her way with you.
I hope this kicks some sense into you if you are having trouble figuring out why she hasn't put out or how much she likes you.
