london_lad1986
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Hi all,
Been reading these forums for a while now but never felt compelled to contribute, I like the information provided on this forum and have managed to get some good action from using some of the material. However it is now that I would appreciate some advice on my current predicament.
I am trying to get with a woman at work who is 4 years older than me..I am nearly 25 and pretty mature so felt it should go on here.
The situation is, we have met during my lunch break for a drink and kissed (no tongues)
But I work day/night shifts at work when she works 5 days a week 9-5, sometimes I won't be at work for a week or 2 due to those shifts at the same time as her.
We are currently talking over BBM, but I am woefully bad at this side of things and feel that the longer its like that the further Im driving her away! I come across as weak and needy by text message and cant seem to change it!
I won't be at work for another week, was wondering what you guys think of the following.
Message I might use...'Was just thinking, I'm not back at work on days until next week..we should go for a drink after work this week i'll come down..as I know you wouldn't want to wait so long? x
or just continue the weak BBM chat as little as possible until im back at work when I intend to walk up to her desk and ask her out to lunch again?
Any insight would be appreciated
Cheers,
London_lad
Been reading these forums for a while now but never felt compelled to contribute, I like the information provided on this forum and have managed to get some good action from using some of the material. However it is now that I would appreciate some advice on my current predicament.
I am trying to get with a woman at work who is 4 years older than me..I am nearly 25 and pretty mature so felt it should go on here.
The situation is, we have met during my lunch break for a drink and kissed (no tongues)
But I work day/night shifts at work when she works 5 days a week 9-5, sometimes I won't be at work for a week or 2 due to those shifts at the same time as her.
We are currently talking over BBM, but I am woefully bad at this side of things and feel that the longer its like that the further Im driving her away! I come across as weak and needy by text message and cant seem to change it!
I won't be at work for another week, was wondering what you guys think of the following.
Message I might use...'Was just thinking, I'm not back at work on days until next week..we should go for a drink after work this week i'll come down..as I know you wouldn't want to wait so long? x
or just continue the weak BBM chat as little as possible until im back at work when I intend to walk up to her desk and ask her out to lunch again?
Any insight would be appreciated
Cheers,
London_lad