Long time reader of these forums (I've been visiting sosuave, off and on, for over 5 years). Never posted before. I'm a 25 year old AFC. I try my best not to be, but girls always seem to get the better of me. No matter how much I think I'm putting my best foot forward or being the 'dominant male', in the end - girls I'm really into always turn me into an AFC. In my whole life I've only fvcked 1 girl who I actually had a decent amount of attraction to (I've only fvcked 1 girl while I was sober!! How sad is that!!), she was my gf for about 3 months and then my AFC kicked in and she actually quoted on dumping me - "You're p*ssy whipped. I can walk all over you if I want.". Yeah.. she was calling me an AFC. She was a HB9 and I actually initially fvcked it up by dumping HER and then retracting my decision and getting desperate not to lose her. What a fvcking idiot, right? Idiocy is my middle name...
All that was about 5 years ago. Long in the past. Haven't met anyone since with mutual attraction, though I'll admit I have spent most of that time in-doors being a freakin' loser.
My question here, is whether I walk away from a current situation with pride, or whether I continue to persue the girl. I'll make up a couple of names first, so we don't get confused with the girls. We'll call the girl I'm attracted to "Sue" and her friend "Bertha". Sue is a HB8 and Bertha is about a 6. Sue is 24, Betha is 20.
Both of these girls are from overseas. Sue is new to the country and I instantly took a fancy to her. This was about 7 weeks ago, I met her on her 2nd night here. I got her digits on the first night and spent a lot of time "HANGING OUT" with her (when of course, really, I was hoping she was interpreting these as dates).
After I'd known her maybe 4-5 weeks, I went out drinking with her and some of her friends (all foreigners). That night I met her friend Bertha, who kept saying stuff about wanting to find a man because she was lonely. Anyway, I ended up fvcking her at the end of the night. Partially cause I had blue balls, partially I was looking for some female validation, mostly because she invited herself back to my place while I was half wasted. The sex sucked. I could barely even keep it up with this girl (the beer probably didn't help). I actually kept worrying about whether Sue would find out about it, while we were fvcking.
Since then I have forced the contact with Bertha to an absolute minimum and only responded to be polite, and so she won't bi*ch about me to Sue. I still don't know if Sue knows I fvcked Bertha or not.
Anyway, last week I took Sue out Ice Skating, then the casino, and at 2am I drove her home and kissed her, told her that I like her, she's a wonderful gal, etc,etc. She kissed back, open mouth. There were 2 short make out sessions and a peck on the lips as she got out the car to go inside.
Since then she pretty much hasn't responded to any SMS I have sent her (very few). She responded to maybe 2/4 or 2/5 that I sent. She cancelled our 'date' (which wasn't set in stone, anyway) for Tuesday without even notifying me. Monday night I had decided it was a waste of time, deleted her number off my phone so I wouldn't send any messages that made me look like an AFC (hide the truth!!!).
She sent me a message this morning saying "I'm going down south this weekend" (I already knew this) "What are you up to this weekend? Hopefully see you next week! ". I haven't responded, and I'm not going to. Bi*ch is playing games, which is not cool by me. So my question to everyone is.. under what circumstances should I re-persue this girl? Should I just go all out and go for it anyway? Should I forget the whole thing?
All that was about 5 years ago. Long in the past. Haven't met anyone since with mutual attraction, though I'll admit I have spent most of that time in-doors being a freakin' loser.
My question here, is whether I walk away from a current situation with pride, or whether I continue to persue the girl. I'll make up a couple of names first, so we don't get confused with the girls. We'll call the girl I'm attracted to "Sue" and her friend "Bertha". Sue is a HB8 and Bertha is about a 6. Sue is 24, Betha is 20.
Both of these girls are from overseas. Sue is new to the country and I instantly took a fancy to her. This was about 7 weeks ago, I met her on her 2nd night here. I got her digits on the first night and spent a lot of time "HANGING OUT" with her (when of course, really, I was hoping she was interpreting these as dates).
After I'd known her maybe 4-5 weeks, I went out drinking with her and some of her friends (all foreigners). That night I met her friend Bertha, who kept saying stuff about wanting to find a man because she was lonely. Anyway, I ended up fvcking her at the end of the night. Partially cause I had blue balls, partially I was looking for some female validation, mostly because she invited herself back to my place while I was half wasted. The sex sucked. I could barely even keep it up with this girl (the beer probably didn't help). I actually kept worrying about whether Sue would find out about it, while we were fvcking.
Since then I have forced the contact with Bertha to an absolute minimum and only responded to be polite, and so she won't bi*ch about me to Sue. I still don't know if Sue knows I fvcked Bertha or not.
Anyway, last week I took Sue out Ice Skating, then the casino, and at 2am I drove her home and kissed her, told her that I like her, she's a wonderful gal, etc,etc. She kissed back, open mouth. There were 2 short make out sessions and a peck on the lips as she got out the car to go inside.
Since then she pretty much hasn't responded to any SMS I have sent her (very few). She responded to maybe 2/4 or 2/5 that I sent. She cancelled our 'date' (which wasn't set in stone, anyway) for Tuesday without even notifying me. Monday night I had decided it was a waste of time, deleted her number off my phone so I wouldn't send any messages that made me look like an AFC (hide the truth!!!).
She sent me a message this morning saying "I'm going down south this weekend" (I already knew this) "What are you up to this weekend? Hopefully see you next week! ". I haven't responded, and I'm not going to. Bi*ch is playing games, which is not cool by me. So my question to everyone is.. under what circumstances should I re-persue this girl? Should I just go all out and go for it anyway? Should I forget the whole thing?
