well, i just want to ask for help in this..well, i knew a girl from my class..she mix around with a bunch of guys..and of course, i am interested in her..at first, we were ok..i mean we chat with each other every night via msn..and get acquainted with each other well enough like sharing secrets, gossiping, etc..(i am the one who msg her first everytime)..then, after that, somehow, i just dun know how my friends (that bunch of guys that she used to mix around with) know that i am interested in her..so they tease us often..then, i just thought that this may be the time to start really going into next step like flirting with her, texting her (like sending her words of encouragement before exam), etc (and i am well aware that she knows i am interested in her by then)..well, i was confused with this then, because when i talked to her in uni, she seems to lose the enthusiasm of talking to me anymore..but well, we still communicate with each other via handphone since her internet is down(and yea, stupidly, i am still the one calls her)..and by phone, she still talk to me and chat with each other and laugh together like the old times..
so my question is..am i screwed up??? should i continue on or forget about this????
oh yea, fyi, her study results are better than mine....so does this matter? and she is darn popular..like a few handsome guys went after her before but rejected kinda stuff and also i still did not confess to her yet..and i knew her about 4 months if i am not mistaken...
i hope that you guys understand what am i writing..i mean sometimes, it is really hard to intepret the 'sign'..i just don't want to misintepret anything and end up doing something stupid..
(and yea, i understand the part where the guy must not show that he is 'desperate'. Well, at times, i also did not contact her and doing my stuff..but somehow, at the end of days, i will call her and explain to her why i am busy and did not call her...i guess that it is a very stupid move btw..)
so my question is..am i screwed up??? should i continue on or forget about this????
oh yea, fyi, her study results are better than mine....so does this matter? and she is darn popular..like a few handsome guys went after her before but rejected kinda stuff and also i still did not confess to her yet..and i knew her about 4 months if i am not mistaken...
i hope that you guys understand what am i writing..i mean sometimes, it is really hard to intepret the 'sign'..i just don't want to misintepret anything and end up doing something stupid..
(and yea, i understand the part where the guy must not show that he is 'desperate'. Well, at times, i also did not contact her and doing my stuff..but somehow, at the end of days, i will call her and explain to her why i am busy and did not call her...i guess that it is a very stupid move btw..)