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[00Kevin]

ok i've been going out with a new girl for about 4 weeks now. Things are going great and she is showing a huge amount of interest. I'm just a little concerned with something she told me on the phone tonight.

She started to whine about the fact that she doesn't have a real friend that she can hang out with. She gives everything she can to the friends that she has, but she isn't getting much (or rather what she expects) in return . Her best friend is rather moody because she is only one left without a boyfriend. This makes my girl feel guilty when she talks to her.

She also said that she is feeling bad because she isn't busy in the same way that I am. I'm a busy guy and i have hobbies and friends. She works, watches tv at home, and usually hangs out with me . I think I'm becoming her hobby and her main focus. She is starting to realize this and I'm really not sure what to say to her.

Any suggestions? is this some kind of ******** that i should be worried about?.

personally, I think the next step is just to have sex with her.

 

[squirrels]

She sounds needy.

 

[Ice Cold]

personally, I think the next step is just to have sex with her.

You think?

I mean, are you really sure it's about having sex?

I mean, it's only been four weeks....

And you're the center of her life now. Do u wanna risk it all by having sex?


Why the fukk didn't you bang her already.

BTW: Don't worry about being the center of her life. It's about getting what you want.

Cheers and congrats on succesful seduction.

now call her and tell her to come over.

 

[white_hype]

WTF

did you actually just write this? I HATE YOU

lol, dude how can u not see whats happening?

YOU ARE GOLDEN

always assume what a girl says probably isnt as "cool" as she says it is, and chances are shes even worse off than shes letting on
1- she has no friends
2-shes boring
3-no motivation to change
4-she has a guy thats interested in her so shes going to do everything to not let him go so she wont be even lonlier

you can pretty much do anything and not mess up, DO NOT BECOME HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON, act like your listening then CHANGE THE SUBJECT, ALWAYS

be like,
im sure its not as bad as your making it out to be, your a really cool chick, plus who needs friends when you have me? so im leaving now but lets go out... AND END IT

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by Ice Cold
You think?

I mean, are you really sure it's about having sex?

I mean, it's only been four weeks....

And you're the center of her life now. Do u wanna risk it all by having sex?


Why the fukk didn't you bang her already.

BTW: Don't worry about being the center of her life. It's about getting what you want.

Cheers and congrats on succesful seduction.

now call her and tell her to come over.

The reason i haven't banged her yet is because i've been very busy lately and she has been sick for the past week or so.
Kinda sucks. if a girl doesn't put out after 3 weeks i usually just move on. She told me that she wants to have sex now. i just have to restock on a few supplies at the drug store and i'm in.

 

[00Kevin]

Originally posted by white_hype
WTF

did you actually just write this? I HATE YOU

lol, dude how can u not see whats happening?

YOU ARE GOLDEN
2-shes boring
3-no motivation to change
4-she has a guy thats interested in her so shes going to do everything to not let him go so she wont be even lonlier

you can pretty much do anything and not mess up, DO NOT BECOME HER EMOTIONAL TAMPON, act like your listening then CHANGE THE SUBJECT, ALWAYS

be like,
im sure its not as bad as your making it out to be, your a really cool chick, plus who needs friends when you have me? so im leaving now but lets go out... AND END IT

1. you are right she doesn't have that many friends,. i'm not sure it is a problem. she owns her own condo, has a good job, and a car.

2. I really don't find her boring because she is usually all over me.

3. I think she does have motivation to change. she wants to find something to do (at least this is what she told me)

4. yes this is what i'm worried about. is she interested in me or is she just lonely? If it is both i guess it will be ok. everyone gets lonely especially girls

 

[NewMan]

4 weeks and your already dealing with this BS?

Your already her emotional tampon - she's putting her sh#t onto you - moaning and groaning.

On top of this you've yet to seel the deal and bang her.

This chick's going to be work - she's going to have a high level of expectation - and your going to have to entertain her.

If a girl has no friends - that's a pretty strong indication.