Internet dating

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Well as Knights Cross said I'm using a 12 gauge instead of a sniper rifle. So I'm trying out internet dating. I know Rollo sais it is a rejection buffer but hey a guy has to start somewhere and if it means getting experience until your confidence grows it can't be all that bad.

Here's the deal. If you've started communicating with a plate online I'm pretty sure that that plate will get her friends to try and see if you're trying to date other girls at the same time. Should you respond to other girls interest while you are talking with one girl ?

I'm pretty sure I had one girl throw me this curve ball after one date and no longer responded.

Thanks

 

[WestCoaster]

Well as Knights Cross said I'm using a 12 gauge instead of a sniper rifle. So I'm trying out internet dating. I know Rollo sais it is a rejection buffer but hey a guy has to start somewhere and if it means getting experience until your confidence grows it can't be all that bad.

Here's the deal. If you've started communicating with a plate online I'm pretty sure that that plate will get her friends to try and see if you're trying to date other girls at the same time. Should you respond to other girls interest while you are talking with one girl ?

I'm pretty sure I had one girl throw me this curve ball after one date and no longer responded.

Thanks

I think online dating is a good option. I've done it off and on for awhile. I usually do it when I'm in a bit of a slump. It's not my first or my last method of dating, but it is a good method.

Not all towns have great club scenes or even great singles scenes or downtowns in which to meet people. Many of my friends have had great success internet dating. I've had some success internet dating ... I've also had failures.

My one complaint is that it's so easy to get dates that it's very easy to reject dates, too. I've been stood up and had some of the worst rejections of my life during internet dating. Why? Because firing off a PM or e-mail and saying no is a lot easier than standing there looking someone in the eye and telling them how you feel. So yeah, as Rollo said, it's a bit of a buffer.

I use it. Like in football, it's my option play, but not my only option. If I lived in a bigger city with a more thriving social scene, I probably wouldn't use it as much.

The more options the better.

 

[TheBucketOfTruth]

Here's the deal. If you've started communicating with a plate online I'm pretty sure that that plate will get her friends to try and see if you're trying to date other girls at the same time. Should you respond to other girls interest while you are talking with one girl ?

I'm pretty sure I had one girl throw me this curve ball after one date and no longer responded.

You are trying to date more than one girl at a time. Don't deny that fact or even try to hide it. If some girl wants you all to herself before you've even met in person, that's her problem.

 

[darkme_legendary]

Well as Knights Cross said I'm using a 12 gauge instead of a sniper rifle. So I'm trying out internet dating. I know Rollo sais it is a rejection buffer but hey a guy has to start somewhere and if it means getting experience until your confidence grows it can't be all that bad.

Most of the people have this backwards. Internet dating is not for starting(if you want to get good fast) with. Internet dating is a way of bring women in your life without too much effort after you are really good with women.
This is after you can approach confidently any woman and you've been with tens of women.
Don't you see that most of the AFC's are on the net trying internet dating?
What's the main reason behind it?(Hint: The fear of approaching women and other irrational emotions)

 

[eyedea40]

First and foremost, keep message other women, you are not dating anyone so why should you not talk to multiple women, it’s a numbers game here….

I have been on the online dating scene for a few months now, I consider my self a seasoned DJ, in about 4 months I have meet about 6 HB6-HB8's (I am currently dating two) online as the above poster mentioned people do have it a$$ backwards. When getting into the game the first thing I did was create a women's profile (no B.S) I wanted to see what ammo other men where bringing to the table. What I learned was wow some of the krap I read made me laugh. With this said it’s not much different then meeting women in person.

1. You need to bring something else to the table. I.E don't use the typical "Hi" in the subject line of the Email its like a resume you need to do something that stands out, I have even used backhanded complements and it works.

2. Don't be aggressive in the initial Email, just ask few simple questions I.E
Hi, what part of ___ are you from, I am familiar with ___ is that near you.. Keep it simple and non threatening you are looking for a line of communication to open up first that’s all.

3. If you do not get a message back MOVE ON don't keep trying to message the same girl.

4. If you do talk to her and you ask to hangout and she gives you a B.S answer MOVE ON.

5. ITS NOT A SPRINT … IT’S A MERATION I will tell you sometimes you might meet a girl fast, but some/most normal women want to talk first so be patient.

 

[CardFan]

Communicate with as many women as you wish. You can be certain they are corresponding with other men.

I'd like Internet dating as another option but it doesn't work in my Midwestern city. Male/female ratios on the sites I checked range from 3-6 to 1. Of those few women most have several kids and/or are obese, leaving a handful that have what I'm looking for. I let my trial memberships expire without paying to swim in a shallow pool.

A high online male/female ratio allows women to be ultra picky. They can afford not to deviate from strict financial, physical, and age criteria due to the large amount of correspondence they are receiving. In the "real world" women are much more likely to relax some of their criteria if they are impressed with how you carry yourself.

 

[Ballie]

At my age and in South Africa it will shout out AFC LOSER !!!!! - social suicide broer.

 

[LoneRanger]

I live in mid east michigan and am going to quit the internet dating thing.

Just got dumped by another spinster who has far too many requirements in what she wants in a man, but will never get in this area.

If you are in a large metro area I recommend internet dating. If within a small cluster of towns forget it. It just isn't worth your time or money.

I am on Match.com and have 4 pages of matches. About 2 1/2 of those pages consist of women who are no longer active on the site. My matching range is set at 35 miles and very few women are actually participating.

Fewer than that seem like dating material. The rest... blah.

 

[poster_guy03]

I can't believe you guys didn't jump on this....

..... If you've started communicating with a plate online I'm pretty sure that that plate will get her friends to try and see if you're trying to date other girls at the same time. ...

If you're only communicating on line, she is not a plate..........

She's still green ware and hasn't even been in the kiln.

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

She's still green ware and hasn't even been in the kiln.

Heh,..money.

 

[Colossus]

I would NOT recommend starting with online dating, as it can become a crutch. Chances are highly likely one of two things will happen:

You will meet a chick, get into her, start banging, then forget all about spinning other plates.

-or-

You will have no success with it, and be back at square one with less confidence than before.

This may or may not be you, but my advice is to try and meet women 'live'. As WestCoaster said, it's a good tool, but not the only tool. It's a bit of a crapshoot if you ask me....you dont have the advantage of face-to-face interaction. It is much easier to gauge interest this way.