Internet dating - no response

[Alter Ego]

Nearly every woman I've ever seen on an online dating service has been ugly. Women who get asked out don't need to PAY to get a date. Most attractive women who are using Match.com, POF, etc. are probably high-maintenance.

 

[OMGWTFLMAO]

Quite a few years ago I used matchmaker.com and had pretty good luck. I haven't used it for years, though, so I don't know how it is now. They used to offer a free trial to test it out before joining.

 

[COD]

OKAY..........HERES THE REAL TRUTH............can u handle it..........

1) WHEN A CHIC HANDS YOU A NUMBER ONLINE.........the whole wait a day BS is not valid..........call her right there. Dude if she is remotely cute.......its a fricken miracle u got past ALL HER FAN MAIL. So call them up right away and suggest a meet in person.

In reality waiting a day WORKS AGAINST YOU WHEN extracting online, do note that when a chic hands out her number easily, she is bored or seeking validation. If you dont carpe dium (seize the moment) some other dude will steal your spot.

LEAVING MESSSAGES-there is some debate over hanging up, calling back, leaving mssages, nexting ,etc

If you get the machine-better be prepared to leave an ENTICING CALL BACK MESSAGE (look thru my old posts........i gave TONS of cut n paste examples THAT WORK).

2 call MAXIMUM-call once leave message, wait a day or two......call at a differnt time.........still nop response..........MOVE ON.

PREP-next time ask whens a good time to reach her,eliminate the guess work by get this..........ASKING THE INDIVIDUAL!!!!!!!!!

NET DATING ROX.............if u have the skills..........but I agree it is a low form of seducing women. Your sister IS A CHIC...........CHICS ONLINE DATING EXPERIENCE will always differ than a dudes experience.

To be a master at "scorring on the net" requires other skills to be in place........phone game, understanding of how attraction works, inner game, etc.

Sometimes the truth hurts.............but if U can gain a lesson than its all good.

 

[Colossus]

The calculations themselves don't lie, but there is a lot of selection bias in which calculations he chooses to make. His statement that only 1/30 profiles are viable is only true on the surface. That would be true if an automated crawler were searching through profiles. But there's a thing called, IDK human intelligence? If you set the filter to only people who've been online in the last week, then you get the people who are actively looking. The fact that he ignores this is laughable. And he actually proceeds from there to extrapolate on his faulty premise! lol He says that your odds of getting a reply are only 1/100 on a pay site. That's ridiculous.

I have yet to switch over to a pay site but I'm thinking about going over to match.com, if I ever wanted to seriously use online dating. I have gotten a pretty good response rate at OKC... and I heard the quality is better on match. People are actually wanting to date there, not just take quizzes. As for the money, it costs just about as much as paying for overpriced drinks in a club. Depends on what people's situation is.

thx peace

Yeah I agree you have to look at the statistical 'methods' they use. Most people will see that and take it at face value, but if you have ever worked a bit with stats you know they can be made to say just about whatever you want them to say. 1/100 response rate is ludicrous.

Another thing about OKC and others is that the hotter girls tend to think their sh!t smells like roses. Since there is an online 'buffer' men are less inhibited to approach--they just figure hey its only an email--and hot girls get a daily blast of fan mail. It's positive reinforcement in action. This translates to more bullsh!t to cut through when you actually meet them. I sincerely believe a lot of girls just use it for validation.

I'll stick to my analogy of dropping a fishing line randomly in a big lake. It's fine to leave it and see what bites, but dont expect to catch all your food that way. A smart hunter will have more than one method of catching his dinner.