Interesting way to slide into sexual topics and sextalk?

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If you're good with words and quick-witted you can turn anything sexual using innuendo. You don't need to say any lines just choose a word or phrase she's said and repeat it/build around that. Then probe light-heartedly, be bold and sexual when in that frame.
 

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I ussualy don't spark those kind of things,maybe a bit when we talk about what we love and prefer the most but generally I like to just get down in the action and show each other what you can do.
 

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You don't have to worry about getting sexual on first approach, all you need to do is get contact info or setup a date. And then you can escalate over text or on the date (preferably)
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she's not into it
She definitely liked me. Here is the story:

She was sitting next to me while I was waiting for my my turn to get a social security number in the office and I picked she was checking me out, specially my personality and sexual vibe since I don't have a beach model type of body.

At First I was playing the "don't react to her iois" to see how much she was into me. After 5 or 6 min she still was checking me out from time to time but nothing further than that so my conclusion was She was a Maybe Girl ( along with the fact that she was a HB9 and probably with a lot of abundance of men to choose; definitely not a DTF from what I felt).

Therefore I knew it wasn't only a matter of escalating with her, but also attracting her. It was going to be a challenging set and not the usual Yes Girl type of Game.

I was boring waiting for my turn so I decided to initiate a casual situational conversation with something I picked up from the environment (Aka an indirect approach).
****I knew going Direct wasn't going to work that early based on the fact that she requiered a lot of attraction first.

Anyways It was like:

Me: This is taking forever. I hate when i have to wait that long....
Her: commenting on it. Oh yeah I agree...bla bla
While I was small talking with her, I was making a Hugh sexual eye contact with her, subcomunicating her I wanted to **** her.
**But the set was still "indirect" since no sexual frame was set in a more explicit way.

**I could close her at that time and maybe I could got her number but the chances to see her again or even responding to my text was going to be very low because despite the fact that I was sexualizing with her in the non verbal layer with my eye contact, a stronger sexual frame should be set to increase the chances of a successful number close.

But the fact she was acepting my 'non verbal sexualization', it is not a good test to gauge her level of sexua interest on me because it something she can not reject.

Something that she could reject would be something like:
"Do you have a boyfriend?"
"Are you single?"
Best way is to tell her a high value story (say a travel story) where sex is part of the story, but not the point of the story (plausible deniability)
Thank you, @Pan87, that is a good technical way to do it. It gaves me some ideas.
 

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What image do you project? Are you a suave looking Don Draper kind of guy? If so. She’ll expect and appreciate innuendo snd double entendre. A ‘surfer dude’ look can go a bit more direct. Pervy pornstars can go sleazy. All this assuming she’s at least somewhat into you.
I would say I am like a 'surfer dude' but in a skinny version although muscularly defined. I weigh 60 kg and my height is about 1.71m. I would say people think I am a badass and my vibe seems like I am a sexual man
 

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