Interesting way to slide into sexual topics and sextalk?

[SexManiac]

opinions?

 

[bat soup]

Just whip it out.

 

[SexManiac]

Just whip it out.

what about the ASD, uncalibrated escalation?

 

[EyeBRollin]

Waste of time. Talking about sex before doing it lumps you in with the freaks and weirdos. Let her bring it up.

 

[bat soup]

what about the ASD, uncalibrated escalation?

Obviously you have to calibrate. Get it out one inch at a time and if she mentions anything about calling HR or her husband you can tuck it away again quickly.

 

[BackInTheGame78]

"what did you like more...50 shades the book or the movie?"

Works great in any setting because they almost all have seen and read it and will have an opinion, it's not a directly sexual question and then opens the door to asking more about it which leads into deeper sexual topics that you can use to your advantage

 

[SexManiac]

Waste of time. Talking about sex before doing it lumps you in with the freaks and weirdos. Let her bring it up.

Not true. I have ****ed many girls I talked about sex with them.

 

[SexManiac]

Obviously you have to calibrate. Get it out one inch at a time and if she mentions anything about calling HR or her husband you can tuck it away again quickly.

Yeah, that is theory but the practice is another thing. Do you have practical examples?

 

[SexManiac]

"what did you like more...50 shades the book or the movie?"

Works great in any setting because they almost all have seen and read it and will have an opinion, it's not a directly sexual question and then opens the door to asking more about it which leads into deeper sexual topics that you can use to your advantage

I like it but pulling off that line out of the blue will only work with a Yes Girl, it probably will come as weird if you pull off that line out of the blue with a Maybe Girl or a girl who you don't know how she will react to sexualization, in other words saying it out of the blue without an innocent context will come across as Too Direct or Overt.
But with a Yes Girl, it is definitely a great line

 

[EyeBRollin]

Not true. I have ****ed many girls I talked about sex with them.

In spite of talking about sex with them.****

 

[darksprezzatura]

Innuendos and double entendres. Qualify and Reward. Bait and switch. Though I agree, talking about sex can potentially ruin your chances with some girls while increasing your chances with others.

I’d lean towards plausible deniability; hence innuendos and calibration.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

opinions?

I like natural game. Rsd pushed free association. Check out naturals. A Russell Brand just takes everything and reframes sexually or mistaken what she says as a come on. Hangout with naturals.

Finally, GET GIRLS. Less boomer pods from guys who dont pull.

 

[devilkingx2]

Any topic can be made sexual, just bring up something normal and have a plan as to how you plan to get it where you want to go.

For example it's summer so you can talk about pools and beaches, and what do girls wear there: sexy bikinis.

At work me and my coworkers joke around about taking naps in the stockroom/bathroom and hiding from the cameras. Any girl who's worked customer facing could relate to this in conversation, and a good place for a nap is also a good place for fooling around.

While on a date me and the girl started talking about the waitress (she's nice, pretty ,wondering where she's from, etc.) and I joked that she should call the waitress cute and get her number. This lead to my date revealing that she's bisexual and down for threeways.

 

[devilkingx2]

I like it but pulling off that line out of the blue will only work with a Yes Girl, it probably will come as weird if you pull off that line out of the blue with a Maybe Girl or a girl who you don't know how she will react to sexualization, in other words saying it out of the blue without an innocent context will come across as Too Direct or Overt.
But with a Yes Girl, it is definitely a great line

Well you don't know how she'll react until she reacts. Fortune favors the bold.

Don't say anything sexual until you think it's the right time.

And if she doesn't respond correctly, decide whether to game on or cut your losses.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

Innuendos and double entendres. Qualify and Reward. Bait and switch. Though I agree, talking about sex can potentially ruin your chances with some girls while increasing your chances with others.

I’d lean towards plausible deniability; hence innuendos and calibration.

+1

A girl once said something and I fired off. The interpretation was sexual despite what I said. Similarly, it's not what you say but how you say it. Delivery. Improv and free association is king.

****y funny is still money.

 

[SexManiac]

I completely agree with all that you have said guys, @DEEZEDBRAH, @devikingx2 :

- Talk about relationships, beaches, bikinis and anything that make me closer to sex topics, etc, perfect! That is great

or other guys @darksprezzatura:
- Use inuendos and double entenders. Great! That is perfect

Now, the Field is a completely different world than the forum and there are some issues that you guys don't take into account in your answers like:

• Some Situational Approaches don't lead to topics that can be easily transitioned to sex topics (in fact some are very hard to transition in a normal way) like having a casual conversation with a girl in a human resources office.
• In Some Situational Approaches, you are running the game against the clock because you don't know when she has to leave and break the game in a critical Stage, forcing you to go through the Stages of a PU really fast.
• Using inuendos and double entenders are sometimes all you need to draw her out and realize that she is a Yes Girl and you have the open door to further escalation BUT there will be many cases when she reacts not positive either negative to inuendos and double entenders and force you to come out again with another one to finally draw her out, and the clock is running and not in your favor, hence making 'inuendos and double entenders' unuseful in many cases to establish a strong sexual intention

that is why I don't really like Natural Game, because improvising on the spot is like making the game harder. Hence why I believe the natural game is a fallacy but this is not the topic of this post.

I know that I have to create a couple of sex stories for this type of situations, but those have to be versatile enough to bring it no matter what topic I am talking with the girl and able to transition to it in a very normal way.
That is what I have to find but I haven't came with one yet.

If I can not find one. I will have to run my game in a more Direct way, however sacrificing some of those potential leads

 

[devilkingx2]

Some Situational Approaches don't lead to topics that can be easily transitioned to sex topics (in fact some are very hard to transition in a normal way) like having a casual conversation with a girl in a human resources office.

One of my examples (the middle one) is perfect for talking to girls at work.

However it's obviously not a good idea to try and sexualize a conversation when you're both at work unless you're sure things are going well and nobody will overhear you.

In Some Situational Approaches, you are running the game against the clock because you don't know when she has to leave and break the game in a critical Stage, forcing you to go through the Stages of a PU really fast.

You don't have to worry about getting sexual on first approach, all you need to do is get contact info or setup a date. And then you can escalate over text or on the date (preferably)

Using inuendos and double entenders are sometimes all you need to draw her out and realize that she is a Yes Girl and you have the open door to further escalation BUT there will be many cases when she reacts not positive either negative to inuendos and double entenders and force you to come out again with another one to finally draw her out, and the clock is running and not in your favor, hence making 'inuendos and double entenders' unuseful in many cases to establish a strong sexual intention

It takes two to tango. If you're having difficulty either the girl is non-sexual or she's not into it.

 

[DEEZEDBRAH]

I completely agree with all that you have said guys, @DEEZEDBRAH, @devikingx2 :

- Talk about relationships, beaches, bikinis and anything that make me closer to sex topics, etc, perfect! That is great

or other guys @darksprezzatura:
- Use inuendos and double entenders. Great! That is perfect

Now, the Field is a completely different world than the forum and there are some issues that you guys don't take into account in your answers like:

• Some Situational Approaches don't lead to topics that can be easily transitioned to sex topics (in fact some are very hard to transition in a normal way) like having a casual conversation with a girl in a human resources office.

Game at work is lazy. Most guys haven't done any reps do they pounce at work from a place of scarcity.

• In Some Situational Approaches, you are running the game against the clock because you don't know when she has to leave and break the game in a critical Stage, forcing you to go through the Stages of a PU really fast.

Again it comes down to reps. I run flash game. The assumption is that I only got a moment. I pull as quick as I can. Think about a terrorist with a bomb attached to his chest.

I seed that sort of URGENCY. Acquire digits or ig. Learn how to get the following DISCRETELY.

• Using inuendos and double entenders are sometimes all you need to draw her out and realize that she is a Yes Girl and you have the open door to further escalation BUT there will be many cases when she reacts not positive either negative to inuendos and double entenders and force you to come out again with another one to finally draw her out, and the clock is running and not in your favor, hence making 'inuendos and double entenders' unuseful in many cases to establish a strong sexual intention

See, rather than running it back, I would approach more. Merge sets. Start role playing with random girls. Rather than that sunk cost of depositing more time in rather kick off something new with other girls.

I'd argue intermediate purgatory is lingering too long whereas advanced would just get more girls. Work more volume.

Eg intermediate seeding induendo and running it back vs advanced flipping the script on what she says as being sexual. She did it. Mistake her words as sexual advancement and hitting on me.

that is why I don't really like Natural Game, because improvising on the spot is like making the game harder. Hence why I believe the natural game is a fallacy but this is not the topic of this post.

Respectfully, I disagree.

Austen refers to it as "naturalization." #5

The point is you do so many reps it's not pickup anymore. You cultivate BEING that guy. How? Put in work.

I liked the OG rsd content, emphasis on natural game, and free association. It's all improv. You say harder because it's like walking into the gym trying 3 plates when you can't do that bar with proper form. It's going to be work. You will take absurd amount of Ls and you will win. Play to win.

More importantly, dare to be great.

I know that I have to create a couple of sex stories for this type of situations, but those have to be versatile enough to bring it no matter what topic I am talking with the girl and able to transition to it in a very normal way.

Your stuck on lines. Free associate. Learn you banter and vibe.

Learn how to amp yourself up for no reason.

If you need stories or Lines, so be it. It becomes a crutch eventually and holds you back because you think it's about what you said vs where it's coming from.

Aim for free association. It's awesome because I said it. Internalize that.

It's no over night success.

Read Paul McKenna I can make you confident. Do the hypnosis audio routine. You need to update your self concept. Not just go through the motions. It's got to take root. Unfortunately that takes time.

That is what I have to find but I haven't came with one yet.

If I can not find one. I will have to run my game in a more Direct way, however sacrificing some of those potential leads

Work on free association. Improv.

Million dollar mouth piece. Gift of gab.

Reps. Approach 3-5× daily until dead or D falls off. You got to suffer. Go through the fire. Get rejected. Take Ls.

I never tell stories about sex. I accidentally on purpose mistake their words as sexual and for hitting on me.

They say I'm funny. I'm not. It's the halo affect. Sexy time follows.

This is what happens when naturally attractive. -rsd Alex

It doesn't matter the moves you make. It matters you are a man and you make moves. -Alex

 

[Hamurabimbi]

What image do you project? Are you a suave looking Don Draper kind of guy? If so. She’ll expect and appreciate innuendo snd double entendre. A ‘surfer dude’ look can go a bit more direct. Pervy pornstars can go sleazy. All this assuming she’s at least somewhat into you.

 

[DonJuanjr]

What image do you project? Are you a suave looking Don Draper kind of guy? If so. She’ll expect and appreciate innuendo snd double entendre. A ‘surfer dude’ look can go a bit more direct. Pervy pornstars can go sleazy. All this assuming she’s at least somewhat into you.

What if you don't fit any stereotype?