So I met this chick a few weeks ago at the bar. Solid first impression, had a nice time with her and her two friends, got her number and even a kiss after just meeting. Cool. I went away to Miami for a week so didn't really talk at all, but after I came back I texted her to hang out. She responded and we kept up good communication. Not too much on my part really only communicating to set up date.
I picked her up on Saturday and went to the bar. Sat across from each other just had a few beers. Really casual conversation and a lil flirting here and there but the vibe was going in the right direction. I suggested going to another place so we walked down a few blocks and stood at the bar. She was all over me at this point. I initiated kissing but she really was into it and took it to the next level. Lip biting, tounge, people were staring. I brought her to the dance floor posted up against the wall and we danced for a bit. Things were getting heated so I suggested going back to my place to smoke. She agreed.
On the way back to my place, she blatantly stated "we aren't ****ing btw". I paid no mind and answered with a sarcastic "yea,ok." We smoke and soon after she's straddling me. It's on I'm thinking. I slowly try to escalate getting her clothes off and she was a lil resistant. Ok np. Few seconds later my futon basically fell and she with it LOL. It was really quite funny she was embarrassed. After that she wanted to leave so I drove her home thinking another night I'll get lucky.
So a few more days go by send some rapport texts, lil flirty texts basically saying how she was dancing sexy and loved her red outfit( blondes in red weakness). Very receptive the whole time. She even initiated texts on me asking how I was, or telling me what she was doing when I didn't even ask. We made plans to hang out on Saturday to go dancing. Then the day of I get a lateness excuse that she had to "drop her brother at school". Okkkk....then a few minutes later she flat out says that she isn't interested in me and doesn't want to go on a date and that she's sorry. I was pretty shocked at this point but replied with a simple "ok thanks anyways" and that was that. Haven't heard from her since.
So my question is what happened? My first instincts says boyfriend caught her. Second thoughts are maybe she just lost interest in me. If it's the latter than fine, but if she has a boyfriend I'm still pretty keen on getting some from this chick. Just wondering thoughts on how I should proceed? im not only focusing on this one chick so it's not to great of a concern I've just never been rejected this way. Any non-toxic advice would be appreciated.
I picked her up on Saturday and went to the bar. Sat across from each other just had a few beers. Really casual conversation and a lil flirting here and there but the vibe was going in the right direction. I suggested going to another place so we walked down a few blocks and stood at the bar. She was all over me at this point. I initiated kissing but she really was into it and took it to the next level. Lip biting, tounge, people were staring. I brought her to the dance floor posted up against the wall and we danced for a bit. Things were getting heated so I suggested going back to my place to smoke. She agreed.
On the way back to my place, she blatantly stated "we aren't ****ing btw". I paid no mind and answered with a sarcastic "yea,ok." We smoke and soon after she's straddling me. It's on I'm thinking. I slowly try to escalate getting her clothes off and she was a lil resistant. Ok np. Few seconds later my futon basically fell and she with it LOL. It was really quite funny she was embarrassed. After that she wanted to leave so I drove her home thinking another night I'll get lucky.
So a few more days go by send some rapport texts, lil flirty texts basically saying how she was dancing sexy and loved her red outfit( blondes in red weakness). Very receptive the whole time. She even initiated texts on me asking how I was, or telling me what she was doing when I didn't even ask. We made plans to hang out on Saturday to go dancing. Then the day of I get a lateness excuse that she had to "drop her brother at school". Okkkk....then a few minutes later she flat out says that she isn't interested in me and doesn't want to go on a date and that she's sorry. I was pretty shocked at this point but replied with a simple "ok thanks anyways" and that was that. Haven't heard from her since.
So my question is what happened? My first instincts says boyfriend caught her. Second thoughts are maybe she just lost interest in me. If it's the latter than fine, but if she has a boyfriend I'm still pretty keen on getting some from this chick. Just wondering thoughts on how I should proceed? im not only focusing on this one chick so it's not to great of a concern I've just never been rejected this way. Any non-toxic advice would be appreciated.
