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I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
 

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It's what the kids call "joking".
 

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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
 

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JLay87 said:
She's not asking you to buy a fvcking shirt, dude.
He's from the south....don't think they understand sarcasm and whatnot.

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All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall? Especially if she's really trying to get something out of you. I believe buying something for a girl you only had 3 dates with is AFC behavior.
I wouldn't know, bro. Because I'm not in high school and I don't take girls to malls for f**kin dates.
 

It doesn't matter how good-looking you are, how romantic you are, how funny you are... or anything else. If she doesn't have something INVESTED in you and the relationship, preferably quite a LOT invested, she'll dump you, without even the slightest hesitation, as soon as someone a little more "interesting" comes along.

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everything in this world is give n take. give her the shirt, then take her pu__y. be versatile, be confident, be alpha, and do it!
 

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Some of the questions are this board are the most asinine and over-analyzed questions that can be asked.
 

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LOL.

Buy her the shirt man. It's cheaper than a hooker.
 

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You didn't buy her the shirt? I am disappoint.
 

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
I asked her if she wanted to hangout this fridayy, She asked where at? I told her I needed to get a shirt so she could help me pick it out. Her response was "You Gonna Buy Me One To?" I was like "Yea if u pay for dinner" ;) She Responded "ha"

How do you deal with a girl like this? She really wanted a shirt she wasn't playing? lmao.
This post needs to be archived. Hilarious.
 

You essentially upped your VALUE in her eyes by showing her that, if she wants you, she has to at times do things that you like to do. You are SOMETHING after all. You are NOT FREE. If she wants to hang with you, it's going to cost her something — time, effort, money.

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
Nahh were going out tonight. I thought buying the shirt was an AFC move?

I agree with F283000,I think she was just joking as well,but you know what?

Even if she wasn't joking and was serious,so what? DON'T BUY HER A SHIRT,and if she brings it up while out on the date,just flat out say,"Are you crazy? I'm NOT BUYING you a shirt.


If she spends more time trying to get you to buy her something than trying to get to know you,then I doubt she really likes you. She's just taking you as some chump she thinks she can get over on.


I doubt that's the case though. You said you've already had 3 dates with her,so I don't think she'd be going out on a dates and spending time with you if she didn't like you.


It also could have been a test to see if you're a real MAN,or just another guy she can use her looks to take advantage of.




PimpOfTheSouth said:
All jokes aside my question is how do you deal with a girl trying to nit pick you for things when you take her out on a date say to the mall?
How do you deal with it? Easy dude....



Just say NO.


If she says the "buy me a shirt" thing only once or twice,then she drops it,then fine,but if she repeatedly brings it up,I'd fire back at her.



I'd be like,"Look,I'm not buying you a shirt,but if you want a bra,I could get you one. Yeah....let's go to a lingerie store,I'll get myself a chair,sit down,and you can go try on a couple of things FOR ME,and I'll tell you what I LIKE best".




Like I said,I'd ONLY SAY THAT if she repeatedly keeps coming at you with that "buy me a shirt" bullcrap.



That'll generate some chemistry in her and take her mind of this "shirt" nonsense.
 

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PimpOfTheSouth said:
That's The exact answer I was looking for "IGETIT" great advice.

What kind of chicks are you dating that think you're supposed to buy them clothes? I've never experienced that in my life.

Sounds like you need to upgrade, man. Stop scooping up girls out of the projects and move on to college educated chicks with jobs.

And I'm still 95% sure that girl was joking. But maybe you've experienced this before.
 

Men frequently err by talking too much. They often monopolize conversations, droning on and on about topics that bore women to tears. They think they're impressing the women when, in reality, they're depressing the women.

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Ok, yesterday you disagreed with the few Dj's (including myself), who advised to "just get her the shirt and get layyed". And you further pointed out that you were going out with her "tonight" (which was last night), and you are NOT getting her the shirt.
Now her is the question:
Did you get it in last night?
 

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No I didn't it was a double date with another one of her girlfriend's.

What I have found out is that this girl is like a Tyrannical Dictator. She called me upp todayy askin to hangout I told her not Tonight I was busy and the Trick hung upp on Me!

Now this girl is a Hottie but I refuse to put up with such immature behavior. She may be able to do that crap with her little P*ssy boys but that ain't going to cut it with me.
 

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So I have cooled down since last night. How do you guys put up with a girl that hangs up on you because you couldn't hangout that particular night?

My current thinking is too just ignore her until she learns some respect.
 

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well NOW you have a different situation.
If it had been JOE STUD, he would have gotten her the (very sexy) shirt, demanded that she model it at his or her place while sipping some booze, and bangged the hell outta her.
Just like the old cowboys who "break" the spirit of a wild stallion... she would now be too "tame" to get away with that hangin up sh!t!
 

At this point you probably have a woman (or multiple women) chasing you around, calling you all the time, wanting to be with you. So let's talk about how to KEEP a woman interested in you once you have her. This is BIG! There is nothing worse than getting dumped by a woman that you really, really like.

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