Interesting FR: Why would a chick do this?

Maybnoob

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Well theres this girl who goes to my uni. I have gotten indicators of interest from her before such as eye contact, sometimes she bites her lip during eye contact. One time i accidently bumped into her and she used this as an excuse to feel me up lol, she felt my abs, and for some reason she held my hand, and i held it for a couple of seconds, which was very sensual lol. Then i said sorry and she walked away.. I sohuld have talked to her then, but i was a ussy.
Well she always watching me etc. So i know shes noticed me, she knows my friend and shes seen me around.
Well i only see her at uni, anyway i finally had the courage to go up and talk to her after seeing her in A club (big coincidence, as she lives no where near me, and i only see her in uni). Well i go up and talk to her in club and its all good and all, good convo etc. she smiled at me a lot. After i finished talking to her to go back to my buds, she was always in my vicinity, and i would catch her looking at me, anyway i planned to go back and talk to her again and number close, but my friend ended up getting kicked out the club, so i had to leave. So i plan to talk to her when i see her in uni.
But what bothers me is she tried to act like shes never seen me before. I said to her "hey ive seen you in uni, you know so and so", but she acted like how did i know that. I was thinking wtf, dont go on like you aint seen me before after i catch you watching me all the time.
Why do you think she would do this... im just confused about this?
 

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She finds you attractive but is embarrassed to be seen with you in front of her friends.

Same as how sometimes I bang 5s and 6s but would never introduce them to my mates.
 

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aftershock said:
She finds you attractive but is embarrassed to be seen with you in front of her friends.

Same as how sometimes I bang 5s and 6s but would never introduce them to my mates.
wtf
1. I am far from ugly, im very attractive (not to sound arrogant, but its hard not to in these topics),, ive been told this a lot.
2. I isolated her, and we convoed in private, so how can she be embarassed if she was not with her friends
3. I am quite popular and well known, i have positions in various societies, and a lot of girls have crushes on me, so thats a moot point..

PS. Lets not turn this into a looks thread, or a prove your good looking thread please.
Thanks:)
 

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She's just trying to look cool man, she knows damn well that you know her.
 

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Maybnoob said:
wtf
1. I am far from ugly, im very attractive (not to sound arrogant, but its hard not to in these topics),, ive been told this a lot.
2. I isolated her, and we convoed in private, so how can she be embarassed if she was not with her friends
3. I am quite popular and well known, i have positions in various societies, and a lot of girls have crushes on me, so thats a moot point..

PS. Lets not turn this into a looks thread, or a prove your good looking thread please.
Thanks:)
(1) I didn't mention "looks" for men. I'm ugly but I've had my fair share of good looking women. I used UGs as a good example but you've taken it too literally. UG = low status. Ugly Man = doesn't matter.

(2) She was isolated - but not truely isolated as her friends were still in the vicinity. They are going to find out one way or another! If I'm on a night out and a HB5 who I've shagged comes up to me and starts talking etc, and she isolates me and tries it on, I'd still refuse. My mates are still near me in the club. That girl is going to see her mates again before the end of the night.

(3) It doesn't matter what your social status is - its how she percieves it to be. The fact that you are trying to "prove" yourself to me already shows that you are a little insecure. I do not consider people who hold positions in societies to have high status, either. As you are good looking, you do not need to be arrogant - if you are it can be taken as a sign of being too serious and not fun enough.

I offered a suggestion based on what you said. This seemed like the most plausable explaination. I'm only trying to help, based on my experiences. You are not obliged to take my advice.
 
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She is seeing another dude - people there knew this and she didn't want to send them signals!
 

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aftershock said:
(1) I didn't mention "looks" for men. I'm ugly but I've had my fair share of good looking women. I used UGs as a good example but you've taken it too literally. UG = low status. Ugly Man = doesn't matter.

(2) She was isolated - but not truely isolated as her friends were still in the vicinity. They are going to find out one way or another! If I'm on a night out and a HB5 who I've shagged comes up to me and starts talking etc, and she isolates me and tries it on, I'd still refuse. My mates are still near me in the club. That girl is going to see her mates again before the end of the night.

(3) It doesn't matter what your social status is - its how she percieves it to be. The fact that you are trying to "prove" yourself to me already shows that you are a little insecure. I do not consider people who hold positions in societies to have high status, either. As you are good looking, you do not need to be arrogant - if you are it can be taken as a sign of being too serious and not fun enough.

I offered a suggestion based on what you said. This seemed like the most plausable explaination. I'm only trying to help, based on my experiences. You are not obliged to take my advice.
Thanks for the advice mate, sorry for the over reaction dude:)


Anyone got any advice
 

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Maybnoob said:
Why do you think she would do this?
Why would you care is a better question. Talk to her again if she's in her sex craved mood, you close, if not, you don't and NEXT! her.

I'm guessing she chickened out on you because you didn't attempt anything, and got sick of rubbing her tits on your face and you treating her like a stripper and not the ho she is. Close her.
 
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