Interesting blind date - What now?

K-man

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2010
Messages
93
Reaction score
1
Hey guys!

This sat I had a blind date w a 38 year old lady.
I had very low expectations but to my surprise we really got along well and she was quite attractive.

The original plan was just to take a walk for an hour or so but when the hour ended we were both hungry and sat down for dinner.
I got kino started and we had some interesting discussion when she suddenly explained that she had "mixed feelings" towards me, that I was different from any other man she had met and that I had some kind of "nerd charm" whatever that means.

As dinner ended she suddenly asked me if I wanted to join her and a bunch of friends at a bar in the city. I was very reluctant at first but then I accepted.

Enroute to the place she said something that rally triggered me (don't remember the words...too much wine lol), and made me a bit angry in a humorous way so I just stopped dead, grabbed her and kissed her quite violently. She seemed to enjoy that.

As the evening went buy I chatted to her friends, all very nice people, and then we had a hot makeout session by the bar. If there had been a bed nearby I probably would have had sex with her. She stated that "You are more of a man then you appear to be".

But, at the end of the evening she said she hadn't made up her mind whether she wants to see me again. I said whater and walked out.

36 hours later I got an innocous "what's up" message and she has thumbed all of my posts on Facebook for the last two days.

So, for claiming to be not interested she shows some interest. I'm considering to get cheeky and suggest that she plans a date FOR ME since she treated me somewhat disrespectfully during the last one.

Ore should I just be distant and aloof for a few days more?

Thank's for reading!
 

AAAgent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2008
Messages
2,648
Reaction score
318
everything sounded pretty good to me. doing a good job. Bold move going in for the unwarned kiss. I've heard of the move, never actually done it or known someone who did it.

Seems like you have a good idea of what you want to do next which sounds alright as well.

Give her the same crap she gave you. say you had a good time but you're really unsure blah blah. have her plan a date this time.
 

K-man

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 17, 2010
Messages
93
Reaction score
1
Follow up:
Went for a coffee today. She seemed very nervous around me but I soon got some kino going and things ended in a heavy make out session...

For a while I thought she was going to let me visit her apartment but that was not to be....but she was horny as h*ll!

I'm still gonna restrain myself from contacting her though. I get a feeling she needs some time and space.
 
Top