I must say I've gone full circle when it comes to understanding social dynamics. Every time I think I've hit the ceiling, and there's nothing else to learn or achieve when it comes to female response, I'm struck with something so simple and so effective that it forces me to rethink everything I thought I knew. I will build on this realization until I have the clearest and most thorough understanding of the process, until once again I find myself at the beginning of yet another path. Only this time, the path I've reached is the one where I originally started.
This is not a thread about mindset. This is not one of those quasi-inspirational "you had it in you all along" posts. This is about real techniques that will allow you to be successful with any woman you want, no matter how rich or beautiful she is. Some of the advice I give you will go directly against the "rules" you're so used to hearing on this forum. It is your responsibility to take or leave this advice for the sake of your own self improvement. With that being said, let's get started.
Power & Control - The definition of sex
Power & Control is the ultimate characteristic of female desire. If Power & Control were a physical object, women would be f*cking that instead of us. The few of us who have it can get any woman we choose, whenever we choose. It is the one characteristic that will allow any female to f*ck you without excuse or apology, and the only reasonable justification for women to be willing to share you amongst each other.
As men, we are inherently in search of increased levels of Power & Control, to both attract women and to provide for them. We do this by accumulating property and f*cking as many women as we possibly can (and we wonder why women are attracted to what other women are attracted to), and we are instinctively aggressive and territorial to protect our property (this includes the women). This cultural balance between male aspiration and female desire is what has made the human race what it is today.
Implied Social Value - The key to Power & Control
Implied social value and perceived value are not the same thing. Showing up to the party with an attractive girl under each arm creates high perceived value. Telling a woman, with conviction, that she and her friend are going to take their clothes off and participate in a threesome with you, and actually expecting it to happen, implies high social value. It is single handedly the most important aspect of all social interactions, especially when it comes to dealing with women.
Implied social value is basically your projection of how you expect others to react to your presence. Do not confuse it with confidence or self esteem, which is the understanding of your potential and the projection of your self worth, respectively. The reason it's called implied social value is because whatever social value you have is entirely a product of your implications. In simpler terms, you can only get a high social value by implying a high social value, and unfortunately, your implied social value will generally be congruent with the social value you're used to having (this is why some people go years without getting laid, yet once they're in a relationship it's so easy for them to find opportunities to cheat). That said, it is entirely possible to consciously change your projections.
I've reached the point where I can get any woman to do pretty much anything I want by simply telling her to. I no longer bother with complex routines, patterning or any of that crap. I just tell her what I want her to do, and she will always do it, because that's what I expect. She has no choice in the matter, as the decision has already been made. She will do what I tell her because she knows she's supposed to, because I'm used to women giving me what I want. It's not her place to fall out of line. I am a person of influence and power and she will not hesitate to submit to me in any way. In fact, she will do whatever it takes to make sure that I f*ck her.
This is not some trick that's only effective with certain types of women. When you ask someone for something in a way that you are completely certain they will comply, they will do so without hesitating. That's because you've established an extremely high level of Power & Control. Incidentally, this Power & Control makes women so unquestionably attracted to you that they'll throw all caution to the wind for a chance to hump. I'm not kidding. They will ride with you in a rusty Beetle to Dracula's mansion if they think you'll give them sex.
It's quite funny to me actually, because I used to think I was so cool for meeting gorgeous women in public and bedding them in less than a half hour. Now I can do it in minutes. What's really ironic is how much simpler my "game" is now as compared to a couple years ago. When I talk to women, all I'm doing is obtaining the information I need should I choose to pursue them. It's almost like a formal interview or qualification. A recent conversation with a cashier at the ice cream shop went something like this:
Me: "so what's your name?"
Her: "Jessica."
Me: "do you live around here?"
Her: "no I live out in Huntington. You?"
Me: "I'm right down the street. How late do you work?"
This is not small talk, and she knows it. I'm asking these questions with intentionality and the expectation that she will answer them. If I didn't, then I would come off as being nosey or just another creep. But I'm calm and secure with asking these questions, because I know exactly how she will react. She picked up on this, and in turn responded exactly as I indicated she should.
So what happened when I left her with this...
Me (scribbling my info on a card): "Jessica I have to run, but I want you to call me when you're finished here."
She said "ok" with a sort of stunned look on her face. And yes, she called, she came over, and we had some great sex and a few drinks to finish off the night. Come to think of it, I never even told her my name. But this wouldn't always work, right? Well, just remember that the outcome of any social encounter is almost always the one you're expecting. The reason why the Apocalypse opener fails for so many people is simple... it's because they're expecting, and prepared for, a negative reaction.
Speaking of shock and awe, if you're talking to a girl and she appears uninterested or bored, then she is either gay or not human (or secret option C, you're f*cking up big time). If she doesn't react strongly one way or another, then you simply aren't communicating your dominance effectively.
If your new to framing yourself this way, it helps to start small, and work your way up as you get compliance and feel more comfortable with what you're doing. A simple question is always a good starting point:
Try opening girls with, "so what's your story?"
If they respond positively in any way, then you got compliance.
If that's too easy for you, then try asking her for something, such as a sip of her drink.
"hey that looks good, let me try it."
If every girl you approach gives you weird looks, then you're not there yet. But if they're all sliding their drinks over for you to sip on, then you're starting to get the hang of it.
Remember, this is how you should approach her. Anyone can talk to a chick for 5 minutes and get a sip off her drink. But if you can get random girls to do this, then start asking for even bigger favors:
Have her try your drink
Have her save your seat
Have her meet you outside for a smoke/toke/breath of fresh air/whatever and see if she follows you
Have her buy you a drink
Have her kiss you
These are all things that you can get women to do for you (consistently), even if it's the very first thing you ask of them. As you get more comfortable, continue to raise the bar until you've mastered it.
You will know you're doing it right when the girl you're talking to seems to have completely surrendered to the conversation, responding in full complience, without hesitating. Combine this with a high sexual state (more often than not your dominance and the way you look at her will already have her thinking about sex) and you can get away with ANYTHING. I've done some things that many people would consider wildly innapropriate to women I had just met, such as reaching up her shirt while talking to her, or getting her to blow me in a semi-public atmosphere.
But whatever you do, be careful and always act within your own morals. This stuff is extremely powerful, and just because you can do something doesn't always mean you should. Most importantly, don't try anything stupid, because if you're not on top of your sh*t, you could get yourself slapped, maced, or even worse, arrested.
Also, do not think that after reading this you can just walk out and start commanding chicks to do whatever you want, or you'll be setting yourself up for big-time failure. This will definitely take some learning, but the good news is that you've probably done it in the past without even realizing it. Learn to recognize and pay attention to the moments where your intentions are direct and your expectations are firm. It will change your life.
-dbot
This is not a thread about mindset. This is not one of those quasi-inspirational "you had it in you all along" posts. This is about real techniques that will allow you to be successful with any woman you want, no matter how rich or beautiful she is. Some of the advice I give you will go directly against the "rules" you're so used to hearing on this forum. It is your responsibility to take or leave this advice for the sake of your own self improvement. With that being said, let's get started.
Power & Control - The definition of sex
Power & Control is the ultimate characteristic of female desire. If Power & Control were a physical object, women would be f*cking that instead of us. The few of us who have it can get any woman we choose, whenever we choose. It is the one characteristic that will allow any female to f*ck you without excuse or apology, and the only reasonable justification for women to be willing to share you amongst each other.
As men, we are inherently in search of increased levels of Power & Control, to both attract women and to provide for them. We do this by accumulating property and f*cking as many women as we possibly can (and we wonder why women are attracted to what other women are attracted to), and we are instinctively aggressive and territorial to protect our property (this includes the women). This cultural balance between male aspiration and female desire is what has made the human race what it is today.
Implied Social Value - The key to Power & Control
Implied social value and perceived value are not the same thing. Showing up to the party with an attractive girl under each arm creates high perceived value. Telling a woman, with conviction, that she and her friend are going to take their clothes off and participate in a threesome with you, and actually expecting it to happen, implies high social value. It is single handedly the most important aspect of all social interactions, especially when it comes to dealing with women.
Implied social value is basically your projection of how you expect others to react to your presence. Do not confuse it with confidence or self esteem, which is the understanding of your potential and the projection of your self worth, respectively. The reason it's called implied social value is because whatever social value you have is entirely a product of your implications. In simpler terms, you can only get a high social value by implying a high social value, and unfortunately, your implied social value will generally be congruent with the social value you're used to having (this is why some people go years without getting laid, yet once they're in a relationship it's so easy for them to find opportunities to cheat). That said, it is entirely possible to consciously change your projections.
I've reached the point where I can get any woman to do pretty much anything I want by simply telling her to. I no longer bother with complex routines, patterning or any of that crap. I just tell her what I want her to do, and she will always do it, because that's what I expect. She has no choice in the matter, as the decision has already been made. She will do what I tell her because she knows she's supposed to, because I'm used to women giving me what I want. It's not her place to fall out of line. I am a person of influence and power and she will not hesitate to submit to me in any way. In fact, she will do whatever it takes to make sure that I f*ck her.
This is not some trick that's only effective with certain types of women. When you ask someone for something in a way that you are completely certain they will comply, they will do so without hesitating. That's because you've established an extremely high level of Power & Control. Incidentally, this Power & Control makes women so unquestionably attracted to you that they'll throw all caution to the wind for a chance to hump. I'm not kidding. They will ride with you in a rusty Beetle to Dracula's mansion if they think you'll give them sex.
It's quite funny to me actually, because I used to think I was so cool for meeting gorgeous women in public and bedding them in less than a half hour. Now I can do it in minutes. What's really ironic is how much simpler my "game" is now as compared to a couple years ago. When I talk to women, all I'm doing is obtaining the information I need should I choose to pursue them. It's almost like a formal interview or qualification. A recent conversation with a cashier at the ice cream shop went something like this:
Me: "so what's your name?"
Her: "Jessica."
Me: "do you live around here?"
Her: "no I live out in Huntington. You?"
Me: "I'm right down the street. How late do you work?"
This is not small talk, and she knows it. I'm asking these questions with intentionality and the expectation that she will answer them. If I didn't, then I would come off as being nosey or just another creep. But I'm calm and secure with asking these questions, because I know exactly how she will react. She picked up on this, and in turn responded exactly as I indicated she should.
So what happened when I left her with this...
Me (scribbling my info on a card): "Jessica I have to run, but I want you to call me when you're finished here."
She said "ok" with a sort of stunned look on her face. And yes, she called, she came over, and we had some great sex and a few drinks to finish off the night. Come to think of it, I never even told her my name. But this wouldn't always work, right? Well, just remember that the outcome of any social encounter is almost always the one you're expecting. The reason why the Apocalypse opener fails for so many people is simple... it's because they're expecting, and prepared for, a negative reaction.
Speaking of shock and awe, if you're talking to a girl and she appears uninterested or bored, then she is either gay or not human (or secret option C, you're f*cking up big time). If she doesn't react strongly one way or another, then you simply aren't communicating your dominance effectively.
If your new to framing yourself this way, it helps to start small, and work your way up as you get compliance and feel more comfortable with what you're doing. A simple question is always a good starting point:
Try opening girls with, "so what's your story?"
If they respond positively in any way, then you got compliance.
If that's too easy for you, then try asking her for something, such as a sip of her drink.
"hey that looks good, let me try it."
If every girl you approach gives you weird looks, then you're not there yet. But if they're all sliding their drinks over for you to sip on, then you're starting to get the hang of it.
Remember, this is how you should approach her. Anyone can talk to a chick for 5 minutes and get a sip off her drink. But if you can get random girls to do this, then start asking for even bigger favors:
Have her try your drink
Have her save your seat
Have her meet you outside for a smoke/toke/breath of fresh air/whatever and see if she follows you
Have her buy you a drink
Have her kiss you
These are all things that you can get women to do for you (consistently), even if it's the very first thing you ask of them. As you get more comfortable, continue to raise the bar until you've mastered it.
You will know you're doing it right when the girl you're talking to seems to have completely surrendered to the conversation, responding in full complience, without hesitating. Combine this with a high sexual state (more often than not your dominance and the way you look at her will already have her thinking about sex) and you can get away with ANYTHING. I've done some things that many people would consider wildly innapropriate to women I had just met, such as reaching up her shirt while talking to her, or getting her to blow me in a semi-public atmosphere.
But whatever you do, be careful and always act within your own morals. This stuff is extremely powerful, and just because you can do something doesn't always mean you should. Most importantly, don't try anything stupid, because if you're not on top of your sh*t, you could get yourself slapped, maced, or even worse, arrested.
Also, do not think that after reading this you can just walk out and start commanding chicks to do whatever you want, or you'll be setting yourself up for big-time failure. This will definitely take some learning, but the good news is that you've probably done it in the past without even realizing it. Learn to recognize and pay attention to the moments where your intentions are direct and your expectations are firm. It will change your life.
-dbot
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