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Don Juan
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When I'm in a situation where I'm talking one and one with girls, I run a good set. Getting girls in that respect is not a problem for me, and never really has been. Its obviously improved since this coming across this site, books and the gym.
But there is one flaw, and its totally related to me.
I know everybody says that looks dont matter, and they dont. But without blowing my own trumpet, and I'm a good looking, and well dressed kind of guy. And so are a lot of my friends, its not uncommon for girls to literally gawp at us. (Excuse my arrogance, I'm not a total **** I promise).
But when approaching women, I'm calculated in what I say and have now set up loose routines in succeeding with number closes, and i've F closed a number of times at university aswell.
However, when women approach me and try it on with me. I seem to lose interest almost straight away. Its like I lack spontaniety in that moment combined with an unusual feeling of self-consciousness. I know its not the girl, so it must be with me. I seem to freeze up and get bored with just about anything they're saying. When girls grind up on me, (without me knowing them, or speaking to them) I seem to get the same thing. It feels like everyone's staring ya know?
Its almost as if, I respond well to the pressure of approaching and gaming girls, but the moment its in my lap I lose it.
Its a crazy problem to have. Has anyone got/had the same problem, can anyone advise me on where to go from here? Its not cool!
And once again, I will apologise if I'm coming across arrogant or big headed.
Thanks SS.....
But there is one flaw, and its totally related to me.
I know everybody says that looks dont matter, and they dont. But without blowing my own trumpet, and I'm a good looking, and well dressed kind of guy. And so are a lot of my friends, its not uncommon for girls to literally gawp at us. (Excuse my arrogance, I'm not a total **** I promise).
But when approaching women, I'm calculated in what I say and have now set up loose routines in succeeding with number closes, and i've F closed a number of times at university aswell.
However, when women approach me and try it on with me. I seem to lose interest almost straight away. Its like I lack spontaniety in that moment combined with an unusual feeling of self-consciousness. I know its not the girl, so it must be with me. I seem to freeze up and get bored with just about anything they're saying. When girls grind up on me, (without me knowing them, or speaking to them) I seem to get the same thing. It feels like everyone's staring ya know?
Its almost as if, I respond well to the pressure of approaching and gaming girls, but the moment its in my lap I lose it.
Its a crazy problem to have. Has anyone got/had the same problem, can anyone advise me on where to go from here? Its not cool!
And once again, I will apologise if I'm coming across arrogant or big headed.
Thanks SS.....