Instagram "close friend"

[AntoniousIV]

So a girl put he on close friends and put a slutty pic on, i liked it. Next day had something on close and had a phr thingy. I clicked and we're doing phr.

Ofc im not a moron, so I wanna schedule a date as soon as possible. Yesterday (3rd day of phr) I asked her about going for a drink today she said i have tests so i have to study (today is sunday, and realistically no one studies a whole day but ok).

So I've been thinking of hard limiting my attention to 1 pic per day until friday where i ask her to go out again. Is this smart?

 

[Clockwerk50]

She is not that into you.

Stop giving away your attention for free.

I’d have to see the conversation first but it seems you might be asking women out without being socially calibrated. Just an assumption.

 

[AntoniousIV]

She is not that into you.

Stop giving away your attention for free.

I’d have to see the conversation first but it seems you might be asking women out without being socially calibrated. Just an assumption.

Dont really know what to talk about. It's might be that im not building enough rapport before asking out.

Okay I'll limit my attention.

 

[BPH]

How about you get the f*** off your phone and talk to girls in real life.

 

[Pumax]

Use your phone and messages as if you were writing letters.
People will complain about this, they’ll say you’re unavailable, weird, or different.
But do it anyway, and show that your time matters.


I check my phone (WhatsApp, social media, etc.) twice a day: in the morning and in the evening.
The rest of the day, I spend thinking about my own life, not reacting to every notification I get.
That's a job on it's own.

Then, I take time to reply to others. If someone really needs me, they’ll call.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Dont really know what to talk about. It's might be that im not building enough rapport before asking out.

Okay I'll limit my attention.

Again, I am not sure what you are doing wrong but everything sounds so uncalibrated, and that’s with not even discussing how your Instagram profile may look like, which I am assuming is not the hottest **** in town.

For women to desire you need to have something they need in their lives. You are young so what I can advise you is try to become an expert at something instead of being mediocre in a lot of things, and when you ask someone out and they decline the invitation without providing a re-scheduling date it usually means they are not interested. They are outliers and you can overcome barriers if the woman is not apathetic to your messages, but most often times than not it is better to move on.