snackwitch
Don Juan
hey guys,
I want to pose a question to the community over here, I dont think every one is going to have the same opinion on this one. It's a two parter.
OK... lets say you are in a group of friends or associates, like a club, or team, or some sort of social group. You are cool with the guys on a one on one basis, but it seems like some guys do a dr jekyll and hide thing when they are around their girlfriend.
Some are still cool and ****y everything (the cool ones), some are kind of withdrawn but still friendly (maybe a little uptight), some act like pissy b*tches (I know this one guy I had some cool conversations with who turned around and became an uptight little pr*ck, like literally grimacing if you you take a look at their chick). How do you deal with the third category, without having to give them a b*tchslap and telling them to wake the f*ck the up.
The funny part is that some (not all) of the guys who act like the third category are not the type you would think of desperate (meaning well-built and muscular, in other aspects showing alpha behaviour).
I know that ideal world no one would feel insecure about this ****. But paradoxical part is this seems like a protection motive initiated by guy's psyche.
So the the second part of my question, if you start feeling insecure or possessive feeling for a female, how do you deal with it? I guess some sort of caveman this is my b*tch attitude is good to have, but when do you know that your desire for one female is or is about to go over the threshold. Also how do you define that threshold, when you know that your feeling are starting to control you.
I want to pose a question to the community over here, I dont think every one is going to have the same opinion on this one. It's a two parter.
OK... lets say you are in a group of friends or associates, like a club, or team, or some sort of social group. You are cool with the guys on a one on one basis, but it seems like some guys do a dr jekyll and hide thing when they are around their girlfriend.
Some are still cool and ****y everything (the cool ones), some are kind of withdrawn but still friendly (maybe a little uptight), some act like pissy b*tches (I know this one guy I had some cool conversations with who turned around and became an uptight little pr*ck, like literally grimacing if you you take a look at their chick). How do you deal with the third category, without having to give them a b*tchslap and telling them to wake the f*ck the up.
The funny part is that some (not all) of the guys who act like the third category are not the type you would think of desperate (meaning well-built and muscular, in other aspects showing alpha behaviour).
I know that ideal world no one would feel insecure about this ****. But paradoxical part is this seems like a protection motive initiated by guy's psyche.
So the the second part of my question, if you start feeling insecure or possessive feeling for a female, how do you deal with it? I guess some sort of caveman this is my b*tch attitude is good to have, but when do you know that your desire for one female is or is about to go over the threshold. Also how do you define that threshold, when you know that your feeling are starting to control you.