Infidelity Report

[lgbs2004]

Sounds like troll content

The article is in brazilian portuguese, so there's no pont in posting the link if the majority of the guys in this forum don't know how to read portuguese lol

This is the original article

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

Do they cheat or not? I'm confused by what you said.

I'm not surprised by single girls fukking multiple guys, or girls cheating generally. But a woman in a happy marriage with great sex usually doesn't need or have the capacity to spin three plates, for reasons I probably don't need to get into. Sounds like troll content or she's cuckoo for cocoa puffs.

How are you confused? Yes they cheat
Both men and women, it's normal and common.

With the exception of one or two people I know....
Every guy and girl I know has hookups here and there outside of there relationships, it's called variety, doesnt matter if there happy or not lol.

 

[lgbs2004]

Every guy and girl I know has hookups here and there outside of there relationships

Maybe you only know bad people

it's called variety

No, it's called dishonesty and lack of moral scope

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

Maybe you only know bad people


No, it's called dishonesty and lack of moral scope

Shrugs, call it what you want......

A man is only as faithful as his options,

Guys dont cheat because they dont have the option too, it's not like they have girls constantly throwing pvssy at them lol

Of course theres rules to the exception but you get my point.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

I was confused because you said, "I personally have one or two female friends who dont cheat, every other one of them have hookups on the side." - I read it wrong, my bad.

I agree it's normal to want variety and both sexes cheat. However women pair bond more easily from sex. That is to say, they'll cheat on their man but come back to him, or go to the new guy, for emotional bonding. Not the same as men and sport fukking. That's just how females are wired.

It's the same bro, no reason to act like theres a difference, hooking up outside a relationship is the same for both men and women, there is no difference.....

Variety, that's it.

They treat there partners good and are always there for them but they just like to get a lil something on the side, simple.

guys are always the ones who act like women cheat for this, men cheat for that, it's all the same sh!t, people cheat for variety, simple.

I know women who love there man but they have no problem having a one night stand with a hot guy here and there, no big deal.

As long as she uses a condom and I never find out then who gives a sh!t, I'm sure as hell doing the same thing.

 

[AttackFormation]

It's the same bro, no reason to act like theres a difference, hooking up outside a relationship is the same for both men and women, there is no difference.....

Variety, that's it.

They treat there partners good and are always there for them but they just like to get a lil something on the side, simple.

guys are always the ones who act like women cheat for this, men cheat for that, it's all the same sh!t, people cheat for variety, simple.

I know women who love there man but they have no problem having a one night stand with a hot guy here and there, no big deal.

As long as she uses a condom and I never find out then who gives a sh!t, I'm sure as hell doing the same thing.

I guess with the scale of infidelity you are stating, there's no concern and no hurt feelings anyway because they're all mutually cheating on each other lol. I guess if those people just had an open relationship instead of cheating, they wouldn't feel the thrill they want from cheating so it would defeat the point.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I guess with the scale of infidelity you are stating, there's no concern and no hurt feelings anyway because they're all mutually cheating on each other lol. I guess if those people just had an open relationship instead of cheating, they wouldn't feel the thrill they want from cheating so it would defeat the point.

Are you aware that you can outgrow that "thrill"?

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

I guess with the scale of infidelity you are stating, there's no concern and no hurt feelings anyway because they're all mutually cheating on each other lol. I guess if those people just had an open relationship instead of cheating, they wouldn't feel the thrill they want from cheating so it would defeat the point.

It's not about a thrill lol

It's called meeting someone else you wanna fvck.

And how would there be hurt feelings if the person doesnt know about it.

 

[EyeBRollin]

If her hubby is so good in bed and make her so happy and gives her a good life, why is she fvcking other 3 men? This is insane!

Both things cannot be true. You answered the question. She’s obviously not happy in that area of her relationship.

 

[AttackFormation]

Are you aware that you can outgrow that "thrill"?

I guess so, I wouldn't hold my breath though. Personally I've never cheated or felt the urge to cheat, never been in a relationship.

It's not about a thrill lol

It's called meeting someone else you wanna fvck.

And how would there be hurt feelings if the person doesnt know about it.

The thrill seems to be part of it for some people, like it was for the woman in the OP.

Why don't they just have open relationships instead of cheating, especially if they're all cheating on each other anyway? Is it 1) because they think the other person isn't cheating like they are? Or 2) because they know they're both cheating anyway so there's no need to make it official? Or 3) because the same moral compass that makes them feel fine with being a serial cheater naturally also makes them just not care? I'm not asking that rhetorically, I'm curious. I would guess it's the 3rd option.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

I guess so, I wouldn't hold my breath though. Personally I've never cheated or felt the urge to cheat, never been in a relationship.



The thrill seems to be part of it for some people, like it was for the woman in the OP.

Why don't they just have open relationships instead of cheating, especially if they're all cheating on each other anyway? Is it 1) because they think the other person isn't cheating like they are? Or 2) because they know they're both cheating anyway so there's no need to make it official? Or 3) because the same moral compass that makes them feel fine with being a serial cheater also makes them just not care? I'm not asking that rhetorically, I'm curious. I would guess it's the 3rd option.

They are usually shytty in other ways.

 

[AttackFormation]

They are usually shytty in other ways.

Got any examples? This is pretty interesting.

 

[Prettyboy Dee]

I guess so, I wouldn't hold my breath though. Personally I've never cheated or felt the urge to cheat, never been in a relationship.



The thrill seems to be part of it for some people, like it was for the woman in the OP.

Why don't they just have open relationships instead of cheating, especially if they're all cheating on each other anyway? Is it because they think the other person isn't cheating like they are? Is it because they know they're both cheating anyway so there's no need to make it official? Or is it because the same moral compass that makes them a serial cheater also makes them just not care about making it "official"? I'm not asking that rhetorically, I'm curious.

Its because they want to have there cake and eat it too, they want the perks of being in a relationship and still get to fvck others and have fun.

A open relationship would mean they have to except that there partner is fvcking others and nobody wants that lol

 

[AttackFormation]

Its because they want to have there cake and eat it too, they want the perks of being in a relationship and still get to fvck others and have fun.

A open relationship would mean they have to except that there partner is fvcking others and nobody wants that lol

Yeah. But how could you feel like you have or would want to have a "relationship" with someone you don't respect? Not really a question, just an observation that it rings the narcissistic spectrum alarm to me, right @LARaiders85? I wouldn't be surprised at all by the prevalence of narcissistic tendency.

lol, funny how it's already like that in practice for them though right. They're all cheating on each other anyway. I guess at least this way they can choose to pretend, which they couldn't if it was open, so that'd be why.

 

[Roober]

It's quite simple...

Her statements about her husband are lies

 

[Dash Riprock]

Sad thing is, in the US, her husband could find out, divorce her, and she'd get 50% of property plus a nice settlement or alimony for years--while she just continued on screwing multiple guys.

I do strongly disagree with the whole premise of females are programmed to "cheat." Reproduce? YES. And in nature, the female is usually just "taken" by the alpha or similar, male. The same wiring is apparent in humans. Example: Just look at SS - every d*ick at their keyboard claims to be or aspires to be the alpha male, not the beta, right? So our wiring isn't much different.

I could get into the whole biology and DNA thing, but, let me just say that cheating, affairs, and generally being scandalous are NOT innate female traits. They are LEARNED traits based on societal conditioning and/or a disorder. Reason: It is not biologically advantageous, and is morbidly dangerous for the species, for a female (especially the more evolved species) to be fluttering about recklessly exposing herself (without male protection) trying to have sex with as many males as possible. In nature, this just doesn't happen because instinctively the female knows they are the weaker sex and thus much more vulnerable and tries to stay in groups or hidden, and we are part of nature at the DNA level. It's simple to see; look at a male and female cardinal or goldfinch. The females have brownish colors for a reason (safety to promote propagation of the species) and the males are brightly colored to attract females.

So cheating and affairs actually go strongly against a female’s DNA programming. Sure, they’ll do it, usually because their emotional, not physical needs, are not being met. They are 100% learned activities. Kind of like asking a man: Who would you rather f*uck? Jessica Alba or (fat) Melissa McCarthy? Let’s say Melissa is 1000x more fun and has a 1000x better personality than Jessica Alba. Now, who would you rather f*uck? My guess is 99% of you would say Alba no matter what. 1% of you are sick and have a fat girl fetish, lol. Why Alba? Because deep in our DNA and wiring we find her features and body type to be highly attractive as a reproductive mate who would produce viable, genetically advantageous, and robust offspring. So you can’t change your DNA coding anymore than a woman can.

Cheating is a premeditated female CHOICE.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Sad thing is, in the US, her husband could find out, divorce her, and she'd get 50% of property plus a nice settlement or alimony for years--while she just continued on screwing multiple guys.

I do strongly disagree with the whole premise of females are programmed to "cheat." Reproduce? YES. And in nature, the female is usually just "taken" by the alpha or similar, male. The same wiring is apparent in humans. Example: Just look at SS - every d*ick at their keyboard claims to be or aspires to be the alpha male, not the beta, right? So our wiring isn't much different.

I could get into the whole biology and DNA thing, but, let me just say that cheating, affairs, and generally being scandalous are NOT innate female traits. They are LEARNED traits based on societal conditioning and/or a disorder. Reason: It is not biologically advantageous, and is morbidly dangerous for the species, for a female (especially the more evolved species) to be fluttering about recklessly exposing herself (without male protection) trying to have sex with as many males as possible. In nature, this just doesn't happen because instinctively the female knows they are the weaker sex and thus much more vulnerable and tries to stay in groups or hidden, and we are part of nature at the DNA level. It's simple to see; look at a male and female cardinal or goldfinch. The females have brownish colors for a reason (safety to promote propagation of the species) and the males are brightly colored to attract females.

So cheating and affairs actually go strongly against a female’s DNA programming. Sure, they’ll do it, usually because their emotional, not physical needs, are not being met. They are 100% learned activities. Kind of like asking a man: Who would you rather f*uck? Jessica Alba or (fat) Melissa McCarthy? Let’s say Melissa is 1000x more fun and has a 1000x better personality than Jessica Alba. Now, who would you rather f*uck? My guess is 99% of you would say Alba no matter what. 1% of you are sick and have a fat girl fetish, lol. Why Alba? Because deep in our DNA and wiring we find her features and body type to be highly attractive as a reproductive mate who would produce viable, genetically advantageous, and robust offspring. So you can’t change your DNA coding anymore than a woman can.

Cheating is a premeditated female CHOICE.

Agreed. I just roll my eyes when dudes say women aren’t wired to be monogamous. Like, yeah they are lol. Having to carry a baby for 9 months and then give birth (which is life threatening) means that women MUST select someone with good genes. On top of that, because women are weaker, it means that they can not obtain resources like a man can, and ESPECIALLY when they have a fkn baby to worry about. That means that they NEED a man to provide for them. And no man is gonna provide for a woman who is out ****ing other men because that’s cuckoldry—he’d likely be raising kids who aren’t his own. So a woman therefore must be wired to only be with one man at a time. It’s simple biology really.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You did realize some hos have a need for scandal, drama and cheating? So no matter how good you fvck her you can't fill those greasy dirty needs.

Actually, you kinda can fill those needs. It’s just that it’s not viable long term unless you win the lottery or have will written out for you with a hefty sum of money lol (because you’d have to be around her enough to meet these needs when they come up).

It’s really just being adventurous and daring. Be that fearless guy who’ll spank her ass while walking outside somewhere or smth; when you go to a clothing store, tell her to try on some sexy outfits or whatever, and then escalate the situation to where you **** her in the changing room; say you’re driving some place and talking to each other in the car, start flirting and randomly just start fingering her to orgasm; if you get home while fingering her, don’t even leave the car, just immediately hop the seat into passenger on top of her, pull her pants down, lift her legs up, and just start ****ing her in the car like a ***** (you may want to move the seat back and recline it a little to make it easier); you could tell her to drive so that it’s easier to finger her, and if you almost get into a car accident, it just ADDS to the rush for her.

These are just examples.

Sexualize every situation & every scenario and engage in risk-taking behavior with her so that she feels like a slut with you. It’ll give her the same rush as cheating, if not more.

 

[RickTheToad]

I was reading an article about infidelity and the report of a married woman left me perplexed:

"I have been married for 6 years, happy and fulfilled in my personal and sexual life with my husband. I am treated very well by him and very spoiled too. Our sex is great and our life is all good. However I have several extra-marital relationships, at this moment I have three men who satisfy me sexually. I like this life, this adrenaline rush, but I'm afraid to hurt my husband if he finds out."

If her hubby is so good in bed and make her so happy and gives her a good life, why is she fvcking other 3 men? This is insane!

All females are sluts; you just need to catch them on the right day and time. Females like this are married to clueless nice guy and she's bored. So, this is how her gets excitement. She feels safe that one her hubby will not find out, and if he does, he'll stay because she thinks he has no other options. There's always other options....

 

[Visionist]

Trust me, if I could get a girl obsessing over me and sexting me behind her husband's back, any man can.

I was years into a dry spell, no preselection. All I had to do was kiss her on the hand when saying goodbye after our first meeting and she became a little Catholic slüt.

All women will cheat. If not, you simply don't meet the criteria.