Please, PLEASE, PLEASE!
Do NOT make the mistake I ONCE did with a girl.
I told myself THIS after bringing a girl to my house:
"I'm going to be different than all the other guys that just want to bang her. I'm going to be good and just makeout and she'll see that I treat her special and want me even MORE."
Boy was I wrong.
After that night we spent together NOT having sex, we never went out again.
A few months later, I found SoSuave and it ALL made sense. And that night was my last night ever as a total AFC.
Now I subscribe to the "EJECT THEORY".
Basically, if she accepts the invitation to your house, GAME ON. You escalate throughout the night. If she stops you once... cool off a little, and try again. If she stops you again and even more so defiantly than the first time... EJECT.
Do what Ease said: Get the keys and tell her you two should go out somewhere else instead. EJECT.
Why? Because if she rejects you twice, you'll probably just sit there, with your head down and ruin your whole evening.
Does this girl drink? Of course, I am not an advocate of liquoring up a girl just to take advantage of her, but it can HELP to loosen her up just a little bit as well. Remember, she's probably nervous as hell because she's coming into YOUR territory on the second date and doesn't know what YOU are going to do... but she sure as hell knows what you WANT to do. It's just a matter of how you get from point A to point B. She already knows what Point B is, so do you, but you're going to have to work a little to get there... and if getting to Point B isn't happening or the road is a little TOO rocky... EJECT and show her that it doesn't faze you and that you can still have fun no matter what.