DragonBlood
Master Don Juan
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I think this is a light bulb moment for me so will share the story. I would also like if people shared their similar stories of getting a girls interest through body language alone. i.e. little verbal game or kino.
I was waiting at a bus stop in the city where I work on my way home. While there I notice a HB7 holding a ticket for the same bus as me and has the look of one of the girls back at home (generally speaking, not dressed as slutty as big city girls). Still, not really my type and I wasnt interested. We get onto the bus and she is ahead of me so she picks out the last double seat free. As I was following down the isle and realised this, I decided to tell her to move over. I already felt somewhat at ease within the presence of this person from my earlier assumption (even if it turned out wrong) so I figured might as well spend the trip with this person. So she takes her bag off the seat and under her legs and I sit down.
Now I notice that this person is sitting inwards towards where I am sitting (on the outside seat of the bus) instead of facing away and looking out the window. So I mean this person is primed for conversation, its probably hard to get across with text alone but you can always tell when someone is trying to open themselves to conversation. I dont have anxiety talking to girls on the bus and I have done it plenty of times before, but with this one I wasnt that bothered and after only getting 5 hours sleep last night.. I was really really tired. I just didnt have the energy for it, nor was I convinced going in strong, flirty, negging, kino etc would actually work anyway, probably a negative effect by conveying too much interest.
So shes texting, talking and listing to music on her phone the whole way while I do much of nothing. My body language was relaxed but really I was just thinking about the day. About 20min into the journey I lean my elbow on the arm rest on the outside seat to rest my head in my hand, and boy do I start getting drowsy. A few years ago in the same situation I would have pretended to 'play it off' and stay aware because of other people around, but at this stage I just decided ahh **** it im going to sleep for half an hour I dont give a **** about what other people (strangers) think of me anyway. In this semi-dreamlike state I would open my eyes at each stop just to get an idea of where I was and it was at this point I noticed something funny. The girl beside me had stopped texting and listening to music, she had turned herself away from me somewhat and was also asleep. To put this in context this was a daytime bus and no one else was sleeping. I found it amusing that this complete stranger who I have hardly spoken a word too was comfortable enough around me to start mimicking my behavior. Maybe it was nothing but I did find it cute and it raised my interest somewhat. We both stayed asleep for 30min and I began to wonder if other people looked at us would they of just assumed we were possibly a couple/related/friends.
So anyway we both wake up at my stop and my earlier guess was right, she is indeed from my town and this is her stop. We both get off and she starts to walk down the street, end of that unless I chase after her I think to myself. But whatever I pass an atm because I needed to take out money. She stops and turns around coming back down the street towards me and waits 5 feet away from me or so. I presume waiting for someone to pick her up. There was some other smaller cases of her mimicking my body language on the trip not worth mentioning, but considering all the undertone parallels from the journey home it was clear we were both a bit amused. I was relaxed and comfortable around this person and it seems the same message was returned as a result. As I pass her by she is looking right at me so I say 'bye now' with a half smile and she replies with a giggly bye.
I probably could have done alot more.. a lot more, but at the end of the day I was tired as **** and trying to get home. This behavior was unexpected and funny. If I see this person again at the stop I am going to ask them to sleep on me this time and try holding hands and kissing etc while hardly speaking a word.
tl;dr
Instead of gaming a girl I straight up feel asleep in her presence and by being relaxed and putting no effort in at all raised more interest than if I played hard ball.
I was waiting at a bus stop in the city where I work on my way home. While there I notice a HB7 holding a ticket for the same bus as me and has the look of one of the girls back at home (generally speaking, not dressed as slutty as big city girls). Still, not really my type and I wasnt interested. We get onto the bus and she is ahead of me so she picks out the last double seat free. As I was following down the isle and realised this, I decided to tell her to move over. I already felt somewhat at ease within the presence of this person from my earlier assumption (even if it turned out wrong) so I figured might as well spend the trip with this person. So she takes her bag off the seat and under her legs and I sit down.
Now I notice that this person is sitting inwards towards where I am sitting (on the outside seat of the bus) instead of facing away and looking out the window. So I mean this person is primed for conversation, its probably hard to get across with text alone but you can always tell when someone is trying to open themselves to conversation. I dont have anxiety talking to girls on the bus and I have done it plenty of times before, but with this one I wasnt that bothered and after only getting 5 hours sleep last night.. I was really really tired. I just didnt have the energy for it, nor was I convinced going in strong, flirty, negging, kino etc would actually work anyway, probably a negative effect by conveying too much interest.
So shes texting, talking and listing to music on her phone the whole way while I do much of nothing. My body language was relaxed but really I was just thinking about the day. About 20min into the journey I lean my elbow on the arm rest on the outside seat to rest my head in my hand, and boy do I start getting drowsy. A few years ago in the same situation I would have pretended to 'play it off' and stay aware because of other people around, but at this stage I just decided ahh **** it im going to sleep for half an hour I dont give a **** about what other people (strangers) think of me anyway. In this semi-dreamlike state I would open my eyes at each stop just to get an idea of where I was and it was at this point I noticed something funny. The girl beside me had stopped texting and listening to music, she had turned herself away from me somewhat and was also asleep. To put this in context this was a daytime bus and no one else was sleeping. I found it amusing that this complete stranger who I have hardly spoken a word too was comfortable enough around me to start mimicking my behavior. Maybe it was nothing but I did find it cute and it raised my interest somewhat. We both stayed asleep for 30min and I began to wonder if other people looked at us would they of just assumed we were possibly a couple/related/friends.
So anyway we both wake up at my stop and my earlier guess was right, she is indeed from my town and this is her stop. We both get off and she starts to walk down the street, end of that unless I chase after her I think to myself. But whatever I pass an atm because I needed to take out money. She stops and turns around coming back down the street towards me and waits 5 feet away from me or so. I presume waiting for someone to pick her up. There was some other smaller cases of her mimicking my body language on the trip not worth mentioning, but considering all the undertone parallels from the journey home it was clear we were both a bit amused. I was relaxed and comfortable around this person and it seems the same message was returned as a result. As I pass her by she is looking right at me so I say 'bye now' with a half smile and she replies with a giggly bye.
I probably could have done alot more.. a lot more, but at the end of the day I was tired as **** and trying to get home. This behavior was unexpected and funny. If I see this person again at the stop I am going to ask them to sleep on me this time and try holding hands and kissing etc while hardly speaking a word.
tl;dr
Instead of gaming a girl I straight up feel asleep in her presence and by being relaxed and putting no effort in at all raised more interest than if I played hard ball.
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