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Don Juan
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I'm quite frustated with my lack of success with chicks here, and my eyes go wide when I see guys in other countries with so many lays under their belt. I returned from a nightclub on Saturday empty handed. I went there quite early, around 8.30 pm. Music at that time was low enough and people were slowly starting to trickle in. My specific agenda was to make some efforts and post here to see if things are different in USA/UK/Aus etc. The cover charge was extremely high at Rs.1000, and drinks were very expensive.
Here are my wasted efforts.
1. While I was ordering a drink at the bar bench, 2 girls came over for ordering. I opened "Hey guys, how is it going?" and they mumbled "good" with a slight smile and turned their faces to act as if they are busy. I asked "Just 2 two guys?" and they said no and pointed to a guy and a girl sitting at the sofa. I said "Come here often?", she said "No", I said "Me too, just come here first time", and she showed no interest to continue conversation. As I had ordered a white coloured drink called cocunut Icelander and one of the girls was curiously looking at it, I said "YOu are thinking it is looking weird. It is, isn't it!". And she was like "whatever". Then the other two members of their group - a guy and a girl joined them at the bench. I made a small talk with the guy and learned that he is the brother of the 2 girls I talked to, and that the other girl with him is the one he is banging. When they went back to the sofa I acted friendly with the guy and sit by his side and introduced myself and shook hands with his gf. Right after he took her away leaving his sisters alone. I again talked to the sisters saying "Why don't you guys bring your parents along, more than half your family is here." They said "Yeah, next time" and immediately acted too busy talking among themselves, ignoring my manly presence. I felt insulted and moved away to near the swimming pool.
2. I see a set of 3 girls, one of them piping hot. I casually said "Hey guys, how is it going?". They acted like statues, and not a word. I said "Your defences already up, huh?". Again no response. I moved away.
3. Now there were 2 girls - a white western and an Indian. They were playing among themselves by writing crap with a sketch pen upon on the backside of each other's shirts. I asked the western chick what she just wrote on her friend's shirt, and she pointed out to a big butterfly wings, and was pulled into some chit chat with her friends (they were part of a bigger group). I waited nearby for an opportunity again. They were too busy playing among themselves, guys and girls, with sketch pens, writing on their chests, shirts etc. Then the Indian girl wrote on the western girls' backside - "Take me to your hotel room tonight". I remarked, "What a wicked comment you have written!", the western girl asked me what is that she wrote, and I said it, then said to the Indian girl "Why are you writing your own wishes on someone else's back?" and she said "Because she is my best friend" . I was like "Oh." and they both ran away somewhere like they can't live without their friends. Instead of saying "Oh" I should have said "So you admit that is your wish!" , but I doubt even that would have prevented them from moving away.
4. By now the music has become extremely loud, and people are all dancing. I go into the dance floor, just shaking my head in rythm. Everyone was strictly dancing within their own group. No eye contacts with strangers. Absolutely none. Every girl was pretending like her friend group is her world. I spotted a western girl with blonde hair and starred deep into her eyes a few times, and finally got a little eye contact from her. I was going to talk something to her but the music was blazing, I knew she would hear nothing I speak, so I waited for an opportunity for when it subsides a bit. But it never happened. Meanwhile the western girl's hands were taken by some guy in her group and I eject.
There were many hot girls' groups, but like I said they were not even making eye contacts, and the music being so lould, no approaches on the dance floor.
5. It was nearly closing time (10.45 pm) and I walk again by the swimming pool. I see 2 girls sitting at a table. I walked to them, and asked "Hey guys, how is it going?" The music was flowing even to this distance, and I had to repeat myself again, and they were like "Good". One of them was unresponsive and was playing with her cellphone. I sat at a chair, wondered a second what to talk, and then asked "Can I ask you a female opinion on something". Again I had to repeat myself because of the music pouring in, and also my voice was weak from the cold air by the pool side. I had to lean forward like a wuss boy to let them hear me clearly. Then I asked "This is a very important question.. If you are dating a guy for a only a short time, like 3-4 months, and he proposes, would you consider him clingy or possessive.?" I further explained myself saying "My sister has been dating a guy for only 2 months and he's proposed to her, so I needed to ask." Usually the guy has to move away from the opener, but she did that job for me by just asking "You came alone here?" . I said "Yes", she asks, "Why, no friends?", I say "I could make some friends here , ha ha" and she says "ha ha". Then I point to the unresponsive girl and say "This is your friend?", she says "No, she is my sister". I ask "Just the 2 of you?", and she says "No, my bf is here" , I ask "Where is he?", she says "He is waiting in the lounge, we came here so that I can smoke." I say "So are you guys from North East India?", judging by the colour of their skin. She says, "No, we are from Thai", I expressed my surprise how much they resemble people form North East India, and she was like "No man." Then I said my name and asked their names. Then suddenly they got up to leave saying "It was nice meeting you." (probably someone signalled to them from the outside) I quickly blurted out, "Why don't we talk again later" they were like nodding , but did not stop from walking away (probably did not know I meant to grab their number), so I could not ask their phone number.
I was frustated and left the bar and came back to my empty apartment.
Anyway, do you think I should try going to some other country for getting laid on Newyear's eve? I'm not quite confident I will get laid on Newyear's eve here. If I can't pull a chick in a trendiest bar, chances seem even slimmer for daygame etc. Afterall people travel abroad for less compelling reasons like study or work..
Here are my wasted efforts.
1. While I was ordering a drink at the bar bench, 2 girls came over for ordering. I opened "Hey guys, how is it going?" and they mumbled "good" with a slight smile and turned their faces to act as if they are busy. I asked "Just 2 two guys?" and they said no and pointed to a guy and a girl sitting at the sofa. I said "Come here often?", she said "No", I said "Me too, just come here first time", and she showed no interest to continue conversation. As I had ordered a white coloured drink called cocunut Icelander and one of the girls was curiously looking at it, I said "YOu are thinking it is looking weird. It is, isn't it!". And she was like "whatever". Then the other two members of their group - a guy and a girl joined them at the bench. I made a small talk with the guy and learned that he is the brother of the 2 girls I talked to, and that the other girl with him is the one he is banging. When they went back to the sofa I acted friendly with the guy and sit by his side and introduced myself and shook hands with his gf. Right after he took her away leaving his sisters alone. I again talked to the sisters saying "Why don't you guys bring your parents along, more than half your family is here." They said "Yeah, next time" and immediately acted too busy talking among themselves, ignoring my manly presence. I felt insulted and moved away to near the swimming pool.
2. I see a set of 3 girls, one of them piping hot. I casually said "Hey guys, how is it going?". They acted like statues, and not a word. I said "Your defences already up, huh?". Again no response. I moved away.
3. Now there were 2 girls - a white western and an Indian. They were playing among themselves by writing crap with a sketch pen upon on the backside of each other's shirts. I asked the western chick what she just wrote on her friend's shirt, and she pointed out to a big butterfly wings, and was pulled into some chit chat with her friends (they were part of a bigger group). I waited nearby for an opportunity again. They were too busy playing among themselves, guys and girls, with sketch pens, writing on their chests, shirts etc. Then the Indian girl wrote on the western girls' backside - "Take me to your hotel room tonight". I remarked, "What a wicked comment you have written!", the western girl asked me what is that she wrote, and I said it, then said to the Indian girl "Why are you writing your own wishes on someone else's back?" and she said "Because she is my best friend" . I was like "Oh." and they both ran away somewhere like they can't live without their friends. Instead of saying "Oh" I should have said "So you admit that is your wish!" , but I doubt even that would have prevented them from moving away.
4. By now the music has become extremely loud, and people are all dancing. I go into the dance floor, just shaking my head in rythm. Everyone was strictly dancing within their own group. No eye contacts with strangers. Absolutely none. Every girl was pretending like her friend group is her world. I spotted a western girl with blonde hair and starred deep into her eyes a few times, and finally got a little eye contact from her. I was going to talk something to her but the music was blazing, I knew she would hear nothing I speak, so I waited for an opportunity for when it subsides a bit. But it never happened. Meanwhile the western girl's hands were taken by some guy in her group and I eject.
There were many hot girls' groups, but like I said they were not even making eye contacts, and the music being so lould, no approaches on the dance floor.
5. It was nearly closing time (10.45 pm) and I walk again by the swimming pool. I see 2 girls sitting at a table. I walked to them, and asked "Hey guys, how is it going?" The music was flowing even to this distance, and I had to repeat myself again, and they were like "Good". One of them was unresponsive and was playing with her cellphone. I sat at a chair, wondered a second what to talk, and then asked "Can I ask you a female opinion on something". Again I had to repeat myself because of the music pouring in, and also my voice was weak from the cold air by the pool side. I had to lean forward like a wuss boy to let them hear me clearly. Then I asked "This is a very important question.. If you are dating a guy for a only a short time, like 3-4 months, and he proposes, would you consider him clingy or possessive.?" I further explained myself saying "My sister has been dating a guy for only 2 months and he's proposed to her, so I needed to ask." Usually the guy has to move away from the opener, but she did that job for me by just asking "You came alone here?" . I said "Yes", she asks, "Why, no friends?", I say "I could make some friends here , ha ha" and she says "ha ha". Then I point to the unresponsive girl and say "This is your friend?", she says "No, she is my sister". I ask "Just the 2 of you?", and she says "No, my bf is here" , I ask "Where is he?", she says "He is waiting in the lounge, we came here so that I can smoke." I say "So are you guys from North East India?", judging by the colour of their skin. She says, "No, we are from Thai", I expressed my surprise how much they resemble people form North East India, and she was like "No man." Then I said my name and asked their names. Then suddenly they got up to leave saying "It was nice meeting you." (probably someone signalled to them from the outside) I quickly blurted out, "Why don't we talk again later" they were like nodding , but did not stop from walking away (probably did not know I meant to grab their number), so I could not ask their phone number.
I was frustated and left the bar and came back to my empty apartment.
Anyway, do you think I should try going to some other country for getting laid on Newyear's eve? I'm not quite confident I will get laid on Newyear's eve here. If I can't pull a chick in a trendiest bar, chances seem even slimmer for daygame etc. Afterall people travel abroad for less compelling reasons like study or work..
